Observed an anti-break up technique... thoughts?

[Smiling_Stray]

So I'm 18 and still living with my mother who has been divorced from my father for as long as I can remember. She recently started going out with some guy she met online and since she talks to me about everything (to the point it's annoying), I've been able to observe something a little interesting. I'm curious on your thoughts about this. So for the record, I'm 90% certain he stumbled upon all this but he started getting distant after a while and my Mother decided to break up with him after feeling rather ignored. Makes sense still right? Well here's where things get a little more interesting. After the breakup, he had little to no reaction/response he "just accepted it" and now she's considering going back (at least for visit) out of intrigue. Maybe not having much of any kind of reaction (simply being placid "whatever floats your boat" mentality) after your girl breaks things off with ya, can cause her to gravitate back on her own after a while so long as no else catches her eye first.

Update: she did, I currently have the house to myself tonight (Nasty thought, but hey girl next door anybody? yeah? Great, I just need to bleach my brain first!)

 

[Lover]

Some girls expect you to chase them if they seemingly end things. Do the opposite and move on, then you seem more interesting/intriguing to them. Part of it is that you signal you can always go for other options, and the other part is you don't become needy or get hung up on her because she is your only option. You just accept things are ending, but it's no big deal. And she might reach out to you again

So yeah, the guy did great!