Made an appearance last night. I'd been out with a cold the last couple days and was planning on staying in so I could sip herbal tea and watch nonsense on YouTube and go to bed at a reasonable hour, but then one of my buddies texted and said he wanted to go mack on chicks at a gay club. I felt like dogshit, but how could I resist an offer like that?
So I go over to his place and we pregame for a bit before walking down to the club. With some alcohol in me I promptly forgot that I was ever sick in the first place. Another group of friends was meeting us there, some people I knew and some I didn't, whatever.
At the club I get straight to business and talk to this blond cutie (M) dancing with her friends. Hooks really well and we talk for a bit, then her friends say they're going upstairs and I say I'll see you around the place. Cool. (Later I run into her again upstairs and I'm like "what's up M" and I guess she is extremely taken that I remembered her name, saying "you remembered me, you're so nice, you're the best, come find me later please, we'll be down on x dancefloor." I don't take her number because I expect to run into her again, but in retrospect I should've, because that's the last I see of her. Need to be better about IG/number closing early on.)
I notice a tall beauty (N) I nearly hooked up with a couple months ago (slept over at her place, both butt naked, but got LMR like a motherfucker and couldn't seal it, left me pretty fucking scarred actually lol) and step up. She's delighted to see me and gives me a big hug. She dancing with some lesbians (she also self-describes as an "80/20 lesbian") but she shoos them away so we can talk and gives me a lil kiss. I talk to her for a bit but eject politely on a high note. At this point I'm wary about investing time into this chick after feeling fucking used our first night together.
Open this blond STUNNER on the edge of the dancefloor with some basic shit. "What's your name?" "R." "Holy shit that's my sister's name, HUG!" She takes to it very well and immediately is all up in my shit. She turns around and starts writhing her body on me. Within a few minutes her friends pull her off. Ugh. Should have pursued this one harder.
Run into another girl (H) I was hooking up with for a couple months but broke things off with because she was getting too serious. Talk to her for a bit. Apparently she came with a friend but her friend left and now she's there alone. I really want to avoid giving her the wrong signals, so I tell her it was great seeing her and to have a good night. Annoyingly she hangs around and starts dancing with my buddy, who looks very uncomfortable with the situation.
N comes over and tells me all her lesbo friends left but has plans to hook up with one of them later. She wants to dance with me until she gets her booty call. Wtf do I look like, some gay dancing monkey? All good though, I let her dance with me. She says she's rolling and offers me some molly but I respectfully decline (good choice dage!).
As we dance I'm getting FUCK ME NOW eyes from this cute blond girl over N's shoulder but I'll admit I'm weirded out by this whole situation and don't make any moves. This slightly chubby brunette chick starts pinching my butt and rubbing herself on me, then asks for my number. I give it to her. The blond cutie comes over and starts dancing right next to me, like physically touching, but I still don't do anything because I don't know how H and N will react and frankly I'm getting annoyed that they're both hanging around. The blond STUNNER from earlier also comes near but I don't reapproach. I'm way too fucking worried about coming across like an asshole to these two chicks and it's paralyzing my game.
At 2ish the lights come on and everyone starts meandering out of the club. N, as expected, is driving home to hook up with her lesbo fuckbuddy. I walk her to her car outside and she gives me a long hug and insists I text her. We'll see about that. (Eh who am I kidding, I'm going to text her.)
H is still hanging out with my buddy as we leave the club. Maybe she's hoping he'll take her home. Personally I don't give two fucks. She walks with us for a couple blocks and then finally says she's going to walk home. We say our goodbyes and she leaves.
Weird and kind of frustrating night overall. I feel like I'm on the cusp of making a real breakthrough with my nightgame — even being sick I was hooking sets left and right and killing it with verbals and escalation. I'm trying to mold my nightgame into kind of an Alex-style social butterfly type of game using frequent takeaways and reapproaches, which feels very natural for an extrovert like me. I need to work on a) getting contact info early and b) screening logistics. Once I get better at those two things I hope to see some real improvement in my results.