Hmm. I'm having very mixed results at the moment. I pulled a girl while she was with her boyfriend last week - everything clicked for me that night. Next week - everything don't seem to work. Alcohol might have an impact but there's def room for improvement in my game. I'm facing a sticking point I tend to hit quite often - really opening girls up for sexual tension.
I hook easily, I make her chase quite a lot. But when I close the proximity, sexual state project and move the conversation towards sex, I don't get the response I want. One of the girls I opened that just got out of a relationship said: "I haven't even fucked anyone since I broke up with him" in an approving seeking way, which might tell me that my sexual frames are wrong. I always get slight resistance when I try to ramp it up from chasing to sexual tension. I get resistance when I use sexual innuendo and misinterpretation. I get a "Haha" and then she looks away.
The sexual frames I mostly work on establishing through some cold reading or compliments are mostly her openness to new experiences, her being sexually open, me non-judging/that I don't kiss and tell. I feel like I often succeed to set the frames but I don't feel I get the results with sexual frames as people here are getting.
My toolbox from getting from chasing to sexual tension has always been stronger sexual state projection, more pauses, slowing down of my voice, sprinkling in more sexual innuendo and misinterpretation, moving my conversation towards sex, and then making my push-pulls more and more sexual. Together with the above frame it have worked with a lot of girls, but I really start to get a lot of resistance atm.
What do you guys think I should work on? Hope you guys have some good input!
I hook easily, I make her chase quite a lot. But when I close the proximity, sexual state project and move the conversation towards sex, I don't get the response I want. One of the girls I opened that just got out of a relationship said: "I haven't even fucked anyone since I broke up with him" in an approving seeking way, which might tell me that my sexual frames are wrong. I always get slight resistance when I try to ramp it up from chasing to sexual tension. I get resistance when I use sexual innuendo and misinterpretation. I get a "Haha" and then she looks away.
The sexual frames I mostly work on establishing through some cold reading or compliments are mostly her openness to new experiences, her being sexually open, me non-judging/that I don't kiss and tell. I feel like I often succeed to set the frames but I don't feel I get the results with sexual frames as people here are getting.
My toolbox from getting from chasing to sexual tension has always been stronger sexual state projection, more pauses, slowing down of my voice, sprinkling in more sexual innuendo and misinterpretation, moving my conversation towards sex, and then making my push-pulls more and more sexual. Together with the above frame it have worked with a lot of girls, but I really start to get a lot of resistance atm.
What do you guys think I should work on? Hope you guys have some good input!
