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This frame-control technique is called opportunities and challenges.
How does it work? You create an opportunity for her to get what she wants. By rising to the challenge you've laid out before her.
The question might be thinking about now is. . . well. What does she want? Ask yourself this question when seducing new women. Because your genuine curiosity is what enables you to use this technique to smoothly suck her into your world.
As you might have already guessed. . . the answer this question will influence the challenges and opportunities you'll present each potential conquest with. Now if you haven't already you must learn how to discover the existing motivations or personal desires of the women you meet.
These are often the ways she wants people to see her, or specific traits she wants to develop.
They shape her idealized version of herself and fuel her fantasies. They can even inspire certain behaviors or actions you would like.
Think about it this way. . . you made a decision to improve your dating life. To have exciting sexual experiences with gorgeous new girls. And you know the journey of learning to become a man who can access abundance. . . takes dedicated time and effort. Regardless of how far along you currently are in this journey. . . if you're reading these little black letters I can make the assumption that you've already accepted the gritty work it'll take to climb the ladder toward better results. Because what awaits you is so awesome it's almost absurd. . .
Becoming an attractive, sexually-charismatic man. Improving the quantity and quality women you have sex with. Transforming your sexual fantasies into reality. And when you consider these rewards. . . it's easy to see why we're relentlessly driven towards refining our skills as seducers.
Anyone who's grown into a skilled seducer after amassing years of experience can attest to the power of drive.
This frame-control technique is tapping into what drives her and using this motivation to move your seduction forward. Like many frame-control techniques it's much easier to hit the bulls-eye. . . if you can manage her perspective adeptly. Make your challenge tempting and frame it as a chance to follow her dreams. Use your words to help see how she can start behaving like person she desperately wants to be.
Now it's also worth mentioning there are certain desires you can think of as universal drives. Most people want to be confident for example. feels pretty good to be seen as a cool, self-directed person when you meet someone new. Younger girls in particular often want to be perceived as mature. Because of smartphone culture it's not a stretch to assume women also want to come across as open-minded and intelligent.
And while you can present an opportunity that taps into something universal. . . I recommend using those motivations as practice.
Whenever you find yourself driven towards a new conquest. Figure out and then make use of her personal driving force. Because your goal here is to tap into something deep. So pay attention to the way she behaves around you. Take note of what she tells you about herself. You must learn to get inside the minds of the women you seduce. And as you might have already noticed. . . this frame-control technique is a great way to discuss seduction oriented topics with women. Especially once you've figured out a specific SOT that aligns with her existing motivations.
If you're reading this post and you're at a loss on how to get women opening up to you in your conversations. Become adept at the art of elicitation. It's a valuable skill because once you discover what she wants or wants to be seen as the groundwork is already set. The next step is to offer a new perspective on her personal desire presented as an opportunity to obtain it. Tempt her with a perspective which will boost your odds of success.
Say you meet a girl at a bar who wants to be seen as adventurous. Here's an example of tapping into that desire. . .
Now she can prove just how adventurous she is. . . by trusting her judgment to explore her connection with you.
This application of opportunities and challenges, takes a desire to be adventurous and directs this motivation. . . towards staying with you. Exactly the type of inspiration which could augment one's odds of success. Because it's easy to see that if she she wants to be adventurous. . . she just needs to act in accordance with her gut feelings. And while adventurous people can try. . . do or even be many different things over the course of their lives. . . they are not sheep. So perhaps she'll even feel motivated. . . to brush off a cock-block attempt from the herd.
There's another example you can find in Poetic Injustice. The girl was driven to understand the meaning of life. To instill her actions with a sense of cosmic importance. I presented her with a new perspective on how certain experiences can give life meaning.
And coming back to my place became a question of cosmic urgency.
Comments? Questions? Something to add? Shoot. . .
How does it work? You create an opportunity for her to get what she wants. By rising to the challenge you've laid out before her.
The question might be thinking about now is. . . well. What does she want? Ask yourself this question when seducing new women. Because your genuine curiosity is what enables you to use this technique to smoothly suck her into your world.
As you might have already guessed. . . the answer this question will influence the challenges and opportunities you'll present each potential conquest with. Now if you haven't already you must learn how to discover the existing motivations or personal desires of the women you meet.
These are often the ways she wants people to see her, or specific traits she wants to develop.
They shape her idealized version of herself and fuel her fantasies. They can even inspire certain behaviors or actions you would like.
Think about it this way. . . you made a decision to improve your dating life. To have exciting sexual experiences with gorgeous new girls. And you know the journey of learning to become a man who can access abundance. . . takes dedicated time and effort. Regardless of how far along you currently are in this journey. . . if you're reading these little black letters I can make the assumption that you've already accepted the gritty work it'll take to climb the ladder toward better results. Because what awaits you is so awesome it's almost absurd. . .
Becoming an attractive, sexually-charismatic man. Improving the quantity and quality women you have sex with. Transforming your sexual fantasies into reality. And when you consider these rewards. . . it's easy to see why we're relentlessly driven towards refining our skills as seducers.
Anyone who's grown into a skilled seducer after amassing years of experience can attest to the power of drive.
This frame-control technique is tapping into what drives her and using this motivation to move your seduction forward. Like many frame-control techniques it's much easier to hit the bulls-eye. . . if you can manage her perspective adeptly. Make your challenge tempting and frame it as a chance to follow her dreams. Use your words to help see how she can start behaving like person she desperately wants to be.
Now it's also worth mentioning there are certain desires you can think of as universal drives. Most people want to be confident for example. feels pretty good to be seen as a cool, self-directed person when you meet someone new. Younger girls in particular often want to be perceived as mature. Because of smartphone culture it's not a stretch to assume women also want to come across as open-minded and intelligent.
And while you can present an opportunity that taps into something universal. . . I recommend using those motivations as practice.
Whenever you find yourself driven towards a new conquest. Figure out and then make use of her personal driving force. Because your goal here is to tap into something deep. So pay attention to the way she behaves around you. Take note of what she tells you about herself. You must learn to get inside the minds of the women you seduce. And as you might have already noticed. . . this frame-control technique is a great way to discuss seduction oriented topics with women. Especially once you've figured out a specific SOT that aligns with her existing motivations.
If you're reading this post and you're at a loss on how to get women opening up to you in your conversations. Become adept at the art of elicitation. It's a valuable skill because once you discover what she wants or wants to be seen as the groundwork is already set. The next step is to offer a new perspective on her personal desire presented as an opportunity to obtain it. Tempt her with a perspective which will boost your odds of success.
Say you meet a girl at a bar who wants to be seen as adventurous. Here's an example of tapping into that desire. . .
Now she can prove just how adventurous she is. . . by trusting her judgment to explore her connection with you.
This application of opportunities and challenges, takes a desire to be adventurous and directs this motivation. . . towards staying with you. Exactly the type of inspiration which could augment one's odds of success. Because it's easy to see that if she she wants to be adventurous. . . she just needs to act in accordance with her gut feelings. And while adventurous people can try. . . do or even be many different things over the course of their lives. . . they are not sheep. So perhaps she'll even feel motivated. . . to brush off a cock-block attempt from the herd.
There's another example you can find in Poetic Injustice. The girl was driven to understand the meaning of life. To instill her actions with a sense of cosmic importance. I presented her with a new perspective on how certain experiences can give life meaning.
And coming back to my place became a question of cosmic urgency.
Comments? Questions? Something to add? Shoot. . .
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