FR Out with my wing in Bangla Road, Phuket

[francho]

16 March 2026
Patong
Mode: two-man

Interactions: 5
Meaningful interactions: 2

nclose: 0
kclose: 0
fclose: 0

Good
⁃ showed up against my emotions
⁃ opened consistently throughout the night
⁃ no emotional crash due to rejections
⁃ spoke my mind
⁃ move/venue change
⁃ did not chase

Bad
⁃ hyper energy
⁃ focused on reactions
⁃ bitter
⁃ in my head (not flowing)
⁃ caring
⁃ seeking validation *
⁃ trying to prove something *
⁃ loser mentality
⁃ deregulated
⁃ stood around
⁃ calibration
⁃ emotionally affected
⁃ passing shit tests

Improve
⁃ relax energy
⁃ eye contact
⁃ voice tonality
⁃ giving value
⁃ vibing
⁃ touch
⁃ outcome detachment
⁃ keep talking/moving/approaching
⁃ qualification
⁃ fun
⁃ merging sets
⁃ leading
⁃ wingman duties
⁃ shit tests

Night summary:

Started good energy, approaching a lot
Started talking to Indian chick, laughing but not hooked
Found 2 British girls sitting outside 7-11
Un-identical twins
Started well but they connected better with my friend
Winged a bit but let down rather soon
I felt a bit ousted, it seemed like the clicked so well but I wasn’t really relating to it (content, humor, vibes, etc)
Didn’t pass age Shit test (the girl I was with is 19 I’m 29 and so jokes about me being a “old” where being thrown)
I started becoming more quite and resented
Resented my friend for getting good results and not me
Resented at the girl for it liking me “for me”
I closed down a bit although not fully
But did separated from her to signal I didn’t care (I signaled the opposite haha) but stayed around enough for my friend to keep going with the sister
We went to a club together danced a bit but nothing escalated
Left the girls there on a “we’ll be back basis”
Came out to the streets to find other girls
Approach approach approach
My friend gets hook real fast, I m struggling with it
Re-met the same sister girls outside the club
Already going home still showing attraction for my friend but no willingness to come with us or escalate.
Leave the girls and go home
I must work on my presence, should be more grounded and getting to the hook effectively and fast, WITHOUT TRYING

How do I connect with girls that are younger than me?
How do I feel secure about myself, that I’m cool and I have nothing to prove?
How to hook the sets?
How to maintain a big spirit even as you are not having success with the or any girl?
How not to get jealous at your wingman and rather help him get laid, without pretending to be happy for him?

 

[casey_jfly]

Hey man, just got back from Phuket (March 13-21) and I gotta say… the vibe for game was pretty weak. Not a lot of girls around at all. Felt surprisingly dry.

I ended up heading to Bangkok instead because the density is way better for approaching and practicing. What’s your take on Phuket these days? Has it always been like that or did I just catch it at a bad time?

 

[francho]

Hey man, just got back from Phuket (March 13-21) and I gotta say… the vibe for game was pretty weak. Not a lot of girls around at all. Felt surprisingly dry.

I ended up heading to Bangkok instead because the density is way better for approaching and practicing. What’s your take on Phuket these days? Has it always been like that or did I just catch it at a bad time?

I think Bangla Road is good. Not as dense as a big city such as Bangkok, but during high season (just around this time) there are plenty of tourist girls in 2-sets or larger groups. I find that the demographics are more towards the young, most girls I've met there been between 18 and 25. Something I don't like about Phuket is that many of these girls are non-speaking Russian girls. Everytime I come down I get at least 5-10 approaches. It's a very chaotic place, I am not saying it is my favorite. But if you explore Phuket all-around you'll find Patong (Bangla) is the place with the most volume of people, hence, women.