Party Girls and "Good" girls. So why no to the first. Something i saw for me

[trashKENNUT]

Hi Guys,

A girl just commented that she is a party chick and yet she also majors in two subjects and that she is very hardworking and takes her work seriously. So wait, there's a party girl that works hard? So where's Chase statement goes?

Here's my answer.

1)You totally miss the point of the article.
2)Girls are good liars
3)So what is the point of the article?

Let me tell you personally. I have met girls who party. And she works hard, just as this girl who commented. Yes, she dress sexy as hell but she's also awkward towards relationships. So yes, this girls exist although a rare few and they are awkward. Talking to her will just be "off".

The whole sexy party girl she plays is just to "fit in". But you never know. Because girls have lots of secrets.

But the article is more like which girl is more likely to have infidelity. And i have noted girl friend outside, who are friends in school, whom you thought is a "normal" friendly girl.... hangout with a guy that our class never knows.

So yea, that's life.

Zac

 

[Franco]

Zac,

Yeah, mostly these girls just missed the point of the article and see it as a direct attack on them -- almost as if Chase is saying, "never date party girls!"

Instead, he's saying, "I don't date party girls because I know, from experience, that there is an increased chance of infidelity due to the hedonistic nature of the majority of women who party." So while a girl certainly can be an exception to this rule (and I know this for a fact because I'm dating one of these exceptions), you're most likely going to have to deal with a lot of headache and heartache trying to keep a leash on her if she's of the majority of female party-goers.

There's enough amazing women out there that guys technically don't need to increase their risks of entering a relationship with a girl who's out meeting guys, drinking, and partying all the time, so Chase goes that route when it comes to choosing women for relationships. And yes, for the most part, the women you'll find that don't party and drink will be much more faithful and loyal in relationships.

I think that's the part that bugs the commenting women the most. They don't want to hear that they are less suitable for a long-term relationship because they enjoy hedonistic activities, and while that might be true for one particular woman/commenter, the statistics don't lie. Statistically, you'll encounter more infidelity if you're picking girls up inside the party scene.

- Franco

 

[trashKENNUT]

Franco,

I have a Facebook and there's this page called "The Tasteless Gentleman", where all the 'harsh' reality jokes on women and feminist. Pretty hilarious and i recommend it for a good laugh.

I do agree with you, Franco. Also, women do not take rejection or "bad" things that associate or label on them... very very well.

p.s: Thanks to you, and NarrowJ, i confirm this is very true on women not handling rejection well. NJ also noted this in one of his old post.

Zac

 

[Chase]

Hey Zac,

I've spent a lot of time around this kind of party girl (in fact, they're the primary sort I've had around me), including many with advanced degrees and long-hour, high-paying jobs.

There's a distinct population of 'accomplished party girls' who hail from the work-hard-play-hard school. They're usually high-testosterone women who are driven to succeed academically and professionally, and then they're driven to go out and party hard and indulge in their high-drive whims. I get along really well with this type.

These women are loads of fun, and I've had a bunch of them as friends and girlfriends. I don't recommend them for anything long-term where monogamy is a concern though, just because those same high testosterone levels that make them driven in their careers and studies, and make them wild in the sack, also make them view sex extremely liberally, which means picking just one man for a long length of time is like a prison sentence for them; one they'll often try to alleviate by the odd conjugal visit here and there.

Chase

 

[trashKENNUT]

Chase,

one they'll often try to alleviate by the odd conjugal visit here and there

Exactly. :X

Zac

 

[trashKENNUT]

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