Sex Dynamics Powerful technique to open up her sexuality: "Had a dirty dream with you"

[POB]

What you need:
- a girl who you've fucked more than three times, preferably one that's already been seeing you for a while and has already bought into your frame;
- you want that girl to do kinky stuff with you: 3 somes, swing clubs, public sex, etc;

What you gonna do:
- fuck her brains out;
- sleep together;
- as soon as you wake up, you will start the pillow talk with this: "you not gonna believe it, but I had a very dirty sexual dream.....(pause to let it hang)......and YOU were in it!!!".

Now you wait, don't say anything else.
Let it sink in.
99,99% chance she will reply with: "Seriously?? And what happened in it?"

Now the world is yours my friend.
You can talk about virtually any sexual fantasy you could possibly have with her, because as a "dream", you are allowed to do it.

Why it works?

After sex and sleeping together, women are more prone to open up about their sexuality.
They will have an abundance of good chemicals running through their brains - endorphin and oxytocin mainly - so they will be relaxed and chill to talk about anything!

Also the fact that you spend the night with her creates a confort bubble, which relaxes her even more (you are not just fucking, there's a possibility it could lead to something more serious in the future).

This is usually how I start my girls to tell me their dirty phantasies.
Then it's just a matter of keeping your frame and confort building+logistics to make it happen.

 

[D. Gately]

This is great, love it.

A gambit I use on a first date, once we've reached that comfort bubble stage where I've established I'm open-minded and non-judgemental, is simply ask them to tell me a fantasy of theirs.

I don't say sexual*, I leave it open-ended. Then if they reply with their sexual fantasies you're golden. If they give you something else, like 'move to Hawai'i' or 'become a famous chef,' then you deep dive from there.


*If the meet has already progressed to talking about sex and kink, then I do ask for their sexual fantasy due to the vibe we're having. Building anticipation this way plus kino works wonders.

 

[POB]

This is great, love it.

A gambit I use on a first date, once we've reached that comfort bubble stage where I've established I'm open-minded and non-judgemental, is simply ask them to tell me a fantasy of theirs.

I don't say sexual*, I leave it open-ended. Then if they reply with their sexual fantasies you're golden. If they give you something else, like 'move to Hawai'i' or 'become a famous chef,' then you deep dive from there.


*If the meet has already progressed to talking about sex and kink, then I do ask for their sexual fantasy due to the vibe we're having. Building anticipation this way plus kino works wonders.

Nice!
I used to do it too.

Though this dream take is more for when she is already "in", but a little shy about sharing her stuff.
IME, it never fails.

 

[mirror]

Why not simply mention it as a fantasy you have as pillowtalk?

 

[POB]

If you talk, it means it's something factual.
If you dream, it's something oneiric, ethereal, thus much more powerful.

 

[mirror]

You can do that while being authentic using your voice and mental mode thou. You could also call it a daydream and stay more authentic

 

[POB]

You can do that while being authentic using your voice and mental mode thou. You could also call it a daydream and stay more authentic

Not the same