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Hey guys, wanted to share a gym approach, thought I did decent, room for improvement obviously, but I think I kept my frame pretty good throughout the interaction.
Outfit: Olive Green tank top, black joggers, white shoes, thin gold chain
Also recently have been trying out a more slicked back/brushed back hairstyle with the sides grown out, as opposed to a more textured taper fade with volume on top.
She was squatting a bit of distance away from me, so as I finished one of my sets, I wandered around in order to get some mobility in my legs, and happened to notice her.
Then I opened her about her shoes, since they were nice and clean, instantly she lighted up, bright side smile and friendly demeanor and everything.
I asked her where she got them from, she took a while to place it, so I teased her “come on they’re yours you just got themmmm” to which she responded well.
I asked her if it was a good shoe for leg day(we were both hitting leg day), she started explaining how they were, I interjected and said “no no I wanted shoes that were bad for leg day so I have an excuse to skip them.” To which she laughed again.
After this, a bit of basic fact finding, found out she goes to same university as me, used this as an opportunity to get her name and handclaps touch.
Found out she doesn’t live on campus and she only has online classes, not going to be there much next semester.
We both exchange our majors, she says she doesn’t know if she really wants to do what she wants to do, I relate to her feeling about that, I make a guess that she doesn’t really go out, she said she did freshman year, to bars.
I teased her on this “how did this happen??? You gotta give me the secret sauce!” To which she clarified parties, not bars.
I then told her that i knew girls that went to the bars years underage.
Seeing that she was almost packed, and not wanting to wait too long before the end of the convo was really reached, I said “hey I know you have to finish your workout, but if ur ever on campus we can get a drink or some food.”
She said maybe, because she had a bf.
I then proceeded to ask her for her instagram, not really anything for seduction wise, just want to make a social connection if nothing else, that can maybe turn romantic if said bf were gone(assuming that was the real objection). She said she doesn’t feel comfortable with that with her bf, I said “it’s more of a social thing tbh, I don’t really check my DM’s” implying I wasn’t going to message her(tbh I wasn’t).
She explained how she still felt like it was a betrayal to him, I said “ok whatever makes you feel comfortable” with a warm smile and wished her well.
Nothing I can do in this report(assuming bf objection is true) but anything to work on?
Also hope this helps out newbies, who are still afraid of cold approach, tbh this was a very pleasant convo and not at all awkward.
Also do I keep the brushed back hair or go to previous haircut mentioned at the top of this FR?
Outfit: Olive Green tank top, black joggers, white shoes, thin gold chain
Also recently have been trying out a more slicked back/brushed back hairstyle with the sides grown out, as opposed to a more textured taper fade with volume on top.
She was squatting a bit of distance away from me, so as I finished one of my sets, I wandered around in order to get some mobility in my legs, and happened to notice her.
Then I opened her about her shoes, since they were nice and clean, instantly she lighted up, bright side smile and friendly demeanor and everything.
I asked her where she got them from, she took a while to place it, so I teased her “come on they’re yours you just got themmmm” to which she responded well.
I asked her if it was a good shoe for leg day(we were both hitting leg day), she started explaining how they were, I interjected and said “no no I wanted shoes that were bad for leg day so I have an excuse to skip them.” To which she laughed again.
After this, a bit of basic fact finding, found out she goes to same university as me, used this as an opportunity to get her name and handclaps touch.
Found out she doesn’t live on campus and she only has online classes, not going to be there much next semester.
We both exchange our majors, she says she doesn’t know if she really wants to do what she wants to do, I relate to her feeling about that, I make a guess that she doesn’t really go out, she said she did freshman year, to bars.
I teased her on this “how did this happen??? You gotta give me the secret sauce!” To which she clarified parties, not bars.
I then told her that i knew girls that went to the bars years underage.
Seeing that she was almost packed, and not wanting to wait too long before the end of the convo was really reached, I said “hey I know you have to finish your workout, but if ur ever on campus we can get a drink or some food.”
She said maybe, because she had a bf.
I then proceeded to ask her for her instagram, not really anything for seduction wise, just want to make a social connection if nothing else, that can maybe turn romantic if said bf were gone(assuming that was the real objection). She said she doesn’t feel comfortable with that with her bf, I said “it’s more of a social thing tbh, I don’t really check my DM’s” implying I wasn’t going to message her(tbh I wasn’t).
She explained how she still felt like it was a betrayal to him, I said “ok whatever makes you feel comfortable” with a warm smile and wished her well.
Nothing I can do in this report(assuming bf objection is true) but anything to work on?
Also hope this helps out newbies, who are still afraid of cold approach, tbh this was a very pleasant convo and not at all awkward.
Also do I keep the brushed back hair or go to previous haircut mentioned at the top of this FR?
