Redditor slept w 65 girls in one year (very good)

[Brassfaced_Jim]

Nmh all the way through this one…

https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/s/kPtZM3PAXH

Pretty spot on about the reality.

 

[Bill]

Don’t bother contributing to that subreddit, the mods are extremely insecure and eventually get jealous and start to delete posts and ban anyone who consistently gives good advice. Most of the audience on it are also highly critical and confidently argue / reject good advice despite their profiles usually showing them being perpetually bad / beginners.

 

[Skills]

stop reading after this:

5. Online dating WORKS

Every single woman I slept with last year came from online dating.

Not impress at all.. sorry

 

[GreatManKos]

From what he writes and the photos you can find of him, he's just a decently attractive guy who lives in a very big city and spends a lot of time on Tinder, very little game insights, the one thing he claims to be good at is "making women comfortable enough to come to your place," but he doesn't disclose it, and says that he deleted the post where he did because he was getting a lot of hate (so I guess it's some old school pua stuff, reddit dwellers hate it in seddit). If there's a new post it could have something good in it but considering that it takes so much time of him to sleep with 1 girl per week or so (according to himself), I guess his game isn't very time efficient.

It's also funny how there are so many hate comments in a sub called "seduction," and to think that once upon a time it was filled with actual puas discussing tactics and stuff.

stop reading after this:

Not impress at all.. sorry

Didn't you almost exclusively go for online for a while? Game is still needed if you want to be efficient or get hotter girls.

 

[Brassfaced_Jim]

@GreatManKos where are the photos? I’d like to see….can you link thanks

 

[Conquistador]

Nmh all the way through this one…

https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/s/kPtZM3PAXH

Pretty spot on about the reality.

I read that thread randomly a couple days ago…reading between the lines he is banging low quality girls by making them comfortable, he is just somewhat more hardworking than the average guy doing that in the wild. The amount of time he says he’s spending shows his grasp of game/escalation is not particularly proficient.

 

[Skills]

Didn't you almost exclusively go for online for a while? Game is still needed if you want to be efficient or get hotter girls.

Never, i have always done cold approach.. mixed it for a while with online... Got burned... You can get easy lays constantly online... Much harder from cold approach this has been discussed to nausea...

 

[Brassfaced_Jim]

I read that thread randomly a couple days ago…reading between the lines he is banging low quality girls by making them comfortable, he is just somewhat more hardworking than the average guy doing that in the wild. The amount of time he says he’s spending shows his grasp of game/escalation is not particularly proficient.

I’d imagine it’s a mix of quality.
Still… 65 chicks in a year is a LOT.
I was nmh at where he talked about it being exhausting. All the swiping, matching, Txting, phonecalls , videocalls etc etc it’s a ton of work… I did about 20 -25 in a year back in the days, and that was a head melt and also very tiring.. so 65 is like ,, woahhh bro.

and that’s just the ones he banged, so he’d have been tuning way more including the flakes.. 80 or 100 maybe. Sheeit

 

[GreatManKos]

@GreatManKos where are the photos? I’d like to see….can you link thanks

You can just scroll down his comments here.

https://www.reddit.com/user/Sad_Individual454/comments/

There are some of his photos. He's a rather handsome minority guy, imho.

 

[Brassfaced_Jim]

You can just scroll down his comments here.

https://www.reddit.com/user/Sad_Individual454/comments/

There are some of his photos. He's a rather handsome minority guy, imho.

Oh cool yeah I see he is a black dude, and fairly handsome yeah.
You stated an opinion that he had “very little game insights” .. idk man I think his ‘comfort game’ must be pretty awesome to get the majority of the girls to come straight to his place. time consuming for sure but he laid 65 girls by it , without doing much else,

imo that’s killer game insights.. I’d love to see his method! Shame he deleted his post on that one

still tho, I think that post in itself is accurate and informative re the reality of such playerism. And the challenges of it.

Either via picking up online such as this, or from bars and clubs .. doing lotsa chicks takes up a lot of time and energy.

And tbh vs bars & clubs, online is a whole lot cheaper and straight to your door (!). No need for late nights , suffering drunken chicks and blowing lotsa money. (That’s an expensive lifestyle for sure)

after a few years of hardcore pickup in nitelife .I leaned towards tryna master quick pulls , cos I couldn’t be fucked putting the time in talking to them anymore tbh.

And re the reality , one constant of the universe imo is ‘women be communicating’.. chicks love to talk man. They will talk till the cows come home if ya let em.

I remember telling a player friend “I’ve got 4 girlfriends on the go atm haha” he replied
“ that’s great. But don’t forget - you have to TALK to them all too “ . Very true, a wise man he was!

I’m on Hinge atm , and it’s blowing up..but I cbf with that either cos it’s a massive time suck… I lost 4 hours one day tryna tune 10-12 chicks at the same time. I booked in 5 dates last week. 3 were catfish/duds.. so only 2 were hot /bangeable. And 2 of the chicks I talked to every other day for a week or so .. what a waste of effort

note to self - rewatch Brent smiths text game video….. (it’s a classic )…

 

[Will_V]

Black good looking dude 6'3 tats and ripped, isn't he like what girls go on apps for..?

reading between the lines he is banging low quality girls by making them comfortable

He's probably simply filtering for dtf girls.

 

[D. Gately]

Black good looking dude 6'3 tats and ripped, isn't he like what girls go on apps for..?

He's probably simply filtering for dtf girls.

This is spot on.

If you live in the nicer parts of a big city, girls will happily come direct. I was renting an Apt with a view at the time and many of them were eager to see it.

Redditor was dead right about population size matters a ton. An MSA with 6m people is at least 6x better than one with only 1mm. Bigger cities tend to have more young adults as well, I've noticed.

 

[Brassfaced_Jim]

I still wanna see his Comfort Texting Game tho. And how long the chat goes on for…

 

[Brassfaced_Jim]

I had funny interaction on Hinge yesterday.
This younger and very cute chick hit me up and mistakenly thought I was a Doctor for some reason.

her opener was a voice note in a very sultry tone ;
“Sooo James..you’re a doctor , you’re handsome, you have a very sexy voice ..and you’re fun and adventurous..so I’m thinking ..how about we meet for a drink ?”

the power of ‘Doctor Game’ . Lolz.

what should I do?? of course I rolled w it and we have a date pencilled in now .. haha.

Go meet her anyway?

 

[gameboy]

I had funny interaction on Hinge yesterday.
This younger and very cute chick hit me up and mistakenly thought I was a Doctor for some reason.

her opener was a voice note in a very sultry tone ;
“Sooo James..you’re a doctor , you’re handsome, you have a very sexy voice ..and you’re fun and adventurous..so I’m thinking ..how about we meet for a drink ?”

the power of ‘Doctor Game’ . Lolz.

what should I do?? of course I rolled w it and we have a date pencilled in now .. haha.

Go meet her anyway?

pretend you never saw the "doctor" part, like you just read over it. if she mentions it just go what? lol

 

[GreatManKos]

https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/1r7814h
He actually made a post... then deleted it because something was wrong with the video (I didn't watch it yet just read the post), then reposted again.

Spoiler: Copypasted it actually in case it gets removed

Due to popular demand, a lot of people on my posts have been hitting me up asking for the framework I use to get girls to come straight over to the crib.

Quick note: I deleted my last post because something was wrong with the YouTube video yes this is my third time reposting this

Now believe it or not, I had a post on here before that got beriddled with hate but my last post got a lot of love, and I genuinely just wanna help people out.

Also, a lot of dudes swear that girls “don’t come over on the first date,” which is why I wanted to make this post.

Out of the 65 women I got with last year, literally like 60 of them came over to the crib. Only about 5 I actually had to take on legit dates.

And before people start saying “cap,” I have a YouTube video where I show receipts and explain it more. I’m gonna put the link at the bottom of this post, so if u wanna see proof, check it out.

Also before we even get into it: the way I talk is basically Gen Z slang/slander. I already know there’s gonna be some old heads in here that don’t understand certain terms. This post isn’t for yall. I’m talking to dudes that are trying to attract younger girls. If u wanna attract young girls, this is literally how they talk. If u can’t understand it, I don’t really care. You’re probably too old anyway. Go start a family.

Anyway, here’s the framework.

⸻

1. Mindset / philosophy (why I push “come over” first)

A lot of dudes will say girls won’t come over on the first date.

And yeah, there’s some truth to that. A lot of girls don’t wanna go to a guy’s place that early because some dudes are weird, unsafe, or just give off bad vibes.

But here’s how I look at it:

If I’m building a rotation, I want girls that are physically and sexually attracted to me. That’s literally the point. That’s why I always try to get them to come over on the first date.

Because if a girl is willing to come over on the first date and hook up with me, that tells me the sexual attraction is already pretty high. I know there’s gonna be dudes in here saying that’s cap, but I’m telling u, it’s true. That’s how I’ve been able to maintain a solid roster.

Another misconception is that “only ugly girls come over.”

That’s not true at all.

If u build enough comfort, plenty of attractive girls will come over. It’s not about looks, it’s about comfort + vibe + attraction.

And honestly, from what I’ve seen, there isn’t some crazy difference between average girls and “9s and 10s” when it comes to this. Obviously there are outliers, but for the most part, attraction is attraction.

Now will this work on every single girl? No.

Some girls need more time, more warmth, more trust, and that’s normal.

And yeah, if a girl is super bougie, or one of those IG baddies that’s used to dudes taking her out every weekend and she’s got her whole face done… this probably won’t work on her.

But personally I don’t even like those types of girls anyway. To each their own.

⸻

2) Messaging (this is where most guys mess up)

Most of the girls I meet are from dating apps.

I can make another post on how I get numbers off apps (because yes there’s a method), but once I get the number, this is where a lot of guys fumble.

A lot of dudes think u need “text game” and to be super witty.

I’m telling u straight up:

Text game is overrated.

I don’t believe in it the way people hype it up.

I believe in voice notes and phone calls.

I text as little as possible because I try to humanize the interaction quickly.

Most guys just text forever. They never call. They never FaceTime. They never send voice notes.

Then they wonder why the girl flakes or starts acting dry.

Bro, she doesn’t even see u as a real person yet.

A 30-minute phone call builds more comfort than texting for a whole week. Easily.

So yeah, I barely text.

Voice notes + calls is the cheat code.

⸻

3) The “spontaneous” question (this is my gauge)

Once I get the number, I’ll banter a little first.

Basic stuff:

• where u from

• how’s your day

• what u up to
Then I hit her with this:

“How spontaneous are u from 1-10?”

This is basically a feeler question.

If she says anything higher than a 7, that’s usually a good sign. She’s more likely to be open to a call right away, and she’s probably not super rigid.

If she says like 5-6, I still go for the call, but I’ll schedule it later or the next day.

This is about matching her vibe and making her comfortable.

If she tells u she’s not spontaneous and u immediately try to push for something fast, it’s gonna backfire.

But if she says she’s an 8 or 9, she’s basically telling u she’s open to stuff.

So play accordingly.

⸻

4) Phone call before setting the date (most important part)

If u take ONE thing from this post, take this:

Get on the phone before u set the date.

This will:

• increase your show-up rate

• reduce flakes a lot

• make the date flow better

• build comfort fast
Girls flake because they don’t feel connected yet.

Texting doesn’t build connection like a call does.

Phone calls do.

FaceTime is even better.

⸻

5) What to say on the phone (keep it simple)

Once I’m on the phone, I just keep it light and normal.

Some dudes are introverted or don’t know what to say, so here’s a basic structure:

• how’s your day

• where u from

• what do u do for work

• what do u do for fun

• what kinda music u listen to
Then sprinkle in fun questions.

One thing I do if she’s like “why are u asking so much” is I’ll say:

“I’m just doing the whole get-to-know-you thing so you know I’m not a weirdo.”

It’s playful, but it also makes her feel safe.

Then I ask stuff like:

• “If u were a guy, what would u be like?”

• “What’s your type?”

• “Have u ever been cheated on?”

• “Have u ever cheated?”
The key is asking questions that make her talk.

Don’t ask yes/no questions.

Ask “how,” “why,” and “what” questions.

That’s how u build chemistry.

⸻

6) End the call first + set the frame

After about 20-30 minutes, I end the call.

It’s better if u end it first (if u can), because it makes u seem busy and like u have a life.

I’ll say something like:

“I gotta go handle something real quick, but I’m not gonna lie, u seem cool. I’d be down to meet. U free sometime this week?”

If she’s like “uhhh idk,” she probably isn’t that interested.

If she’s like “yeah I’m down” and starts giving days, that’s a green light.

If she says “maybe next week” or “in two weeks,” she’s probably just bored or keeping u around as an option.

If she asks “what do u wanna do?” I’ll usually say:

“Honestly I’m not sure yet, I just wanted to see if u were open to meeting. I’ll think of something.”

Then I end the call.

⸻

7) The voice note that gets them to come over

After the call, this is where it usually gets easy.

I send a voice note, not a long paragraph.

Here’s basically what I say (tweak it however u want):

“Aye so ima be real, I’m kinda new to the area and I didn’t even bring my car / my car’s been acting up. Normally I’d be on some gentleman stuff and pick u up and we go out somewhere, but I’m not tryna be a passenger princess . Would u be cool coming over and I’ll cook us dinner? No pressure if not, we can always do something else.”

This works because:

• it’s confident but not pushy

• it’s low pressure

• it feels normal

• it’s not overly sexual

• it gives her an easy out
That “no pressure” line matters more than people think.

Girls don’t like feeling forced into anything.

⸻

8) Why this works so well

This framework works because:

1. U build comfort fast (call/FaceTime)

2. U stand out (most dudes only text)

3. U lead the interaction

4. U keep it low pressure

5. U make it feel normal (food + chill vibe)
Most guys either rush it too fast, or they take too long and end up wasting time.

This is the middle ground.

⸻

Final note

I’m not saying dates are bad.

I’m saying if your goal is casual hookups, u shouldn’t be spending all your time doing dinner dates with every single girl.

Some girls will need that, and that’s fine.

But a lot of girls are down to come over if u know how to make them comfortable and not come off weird.

My friend has a similar routine online, calling a girl and talking for 30+ minutes (sometimes hours if they click) before inviting to his place. If you have some basic game then a phone call always beats texting, imo.

I think most you have an idea or two how to make this more effective like adding some game to the conversation, thus having a higher conversion rate than him. I bet he got hate for the "lying to the girls about his car" part when he made the post the first time, won't be surprised if he gets a lot of hate now as well.

 

[West_Indian_Archie]

Real or fake, Girls are hot or mid, it doesn't matter.

Providing "receipts" is giving ammunition to all types of White Knights to destroy your life.

These "chronically" online types just don't get it, even though they grew up in an era of me too.

It doesn't matter if you did it, it matters if someone accuses you of something.

When PUA started to get big online, back in the late 90's/early 00s - everyone understand operational security. Cats saw REAL TIME what happened to this guy and that guy, when the gossip spreads.

 

[famineofcrows]

From what he writes and the photos you can find of him, he's just a decently attractive guy who lives in a very big city

yes, 'im not sure what supposed to be surprsing about this.

Don't any of you remember the tinder threads on bodybuliding.c0m a decade or so back?!! Some of them guys (the handsome ones on the younger side) used to post a tonne of proof of them having so SO many girls coming straight to their place for a hookup. I'm sure some of them guys done well over 100 in a year lol

I think it was usually just a message saying 'DTF?" after matching, and then she'd give her number and then they'd arrange a hotel room or just give an address. I remember that thread really well because one of the massive slayers on there used to always tell people to double text in his tutorials, and he'd write 'please, please reply' if she didn't respond etc which always seemed so very needy and still makes me laugh to think about, but that's how he played the game lol

 

[Brassfaced_Jim]

https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/1r7814h
He actually made a post... then deleted it because something was wrong with the video (I didn't watch it yet just read the post), then reposted again.

Spoiler: Copypasted it actually in case it gets removed

Due to popular demand, a lot of people on my posts have been hitting me up asking for the framework I use to get girls to come straight over to the crib.

Quick note: I deleted my last post because something was wrong with the YouTube video yes this is my third time reposting this

Now believe it or not, I had a post on here before that got beriddled with hate but my last post got a lot of love, and I genuinely just wanna help people out.

Also, a lot of dudes swear that girls “don’t come over on the first date,” which is why I wanted to make this post.

Out of the 65 women I got with last year, literally like 60 of them came over to the crib. Only about 5 I actually had to take on legit dates.

And before people start saying “cap,” I have a YouTube video where I show receipts and explain it more. I’m gonna put the link at the bottom of this post, so if u wanna see proof, check it out.

Also before we even get into it: the way I talk is basically Gen Z slang/slander. I already know there’s gonna be some old heads in here that don’t understand certain terms. This post isn’t for yall. I’m talking to dudes that are trying to attract younger girls. If u wanna attract young girls, this is literally how they talk. If u can’t understand it, I don’t really care. You’re probably too old anyway. Go start a family.

Anyway, here’s the framework.

⸻

1. Mindset / philosophy (why I push “come over” first)

A lot of dudes will say girls won’t come over on the first date.

And yeah, there’s some truth to that. A lot of girls don’t wanna go to a guy’s place that early because some dudes are weird, unsafe, or just give off bad vibes.

But here’s how I look at it:

If I’m building a rotation, I want girls that are physically and sexually attracted to me. That’s literally the point. That’s why I always try to get them to come over on the first date.

Because if a girl is willing to come over on the first date and hook up with me, that tells me the sexual attraction is already pretty high. I know there’s gonna be dudes in here saying that’s cap, but I’m telling u, it’s true. That’s how I’ve been able to maintain a solid roster.

Another misconception is that “only ugly girls come over.”

That’s not true at all.

If u build enough comfort, plenty of attractive girls will come over. It’s not about looks, it’s about comfort + vibe + attraction.

And honestly, from what I’ve seen, there isn’t some crazy difference between average girls and “9s and 10s” when it comes to this. Obviously there are outliers, but for the most part, attraction is attraction.

Now will this work on every single girl? No.

Some girls need more time, more warmth, more trust, and that’s normal.

And yeah, if a girl is super bougie, or one of those IG baddies that’s used to dudes taking her out every weekend and she’s got her whole face done… this probably won’t work on her.

But personally I don’t even like those types of girls anyway. To each their own.

⸻

2) Messaging (this is where most guys mess up)

Most of the girls I meet are from dating apps.

I can make another post on how I get numbers off apps (because yes there’s a method), but once I get the number, this is where a lot of guys fumble.

A lot of dudes think u need “text game” and to be super witty.

I’m telling u straight up:

Text game is overrated.

I don’t believe in it the way people hype it up.

I believe in voice notes and phone calls.

I text as little as possible because I try to humanize the interaction quickly.

Most guys just text forever. They never call. They never FaceTime. They never send voice notes.

Then they wonder why the girl flakes or starts acting dry.

Bro, she doesn’t even see u as a real person yet.

A 30-minute phone call builds more comfort than texting for a whole week. Easily.

So yeah, I barely text.

Voice notes + calls is the cheat code.

⸻

3) The “spontaneous” question (this is my gauge)

Once I get the number, I’ll banter a little first.

Basic stuff:

• where u from

• how’s your day

• what u up to
Then I hit her with this:

“How spontaneous are u from 1-10?”

This is basically a feeler question.

If she says anything higher than a 7, that’s usually a good sign. She’s more likely to be open to a call right away, and she’s probably not super rigid.

If she says like 5-6, I still go for the call, but I’ll schedule it later or the next day.

This is about matching her vibe and making her comfortable.

If she tells u she’s not spontaneous and u immediately try to push for something fast, it’s gonna backfire.

But if she says she’s an 8 or 9, she’s basically telling u she’s open to stuff.

So play accordingly.

⸻

4) Phone call before setting the date (most important part)

If u take ONE thing from this post, take this:

Get on the phone before u set the date.

This will:

• increase your show-up rate

• reduce flakes a lot

• make the date flow better

• build comfort fast
Girls flake because they don’t feel connected yet.

Texting doesn’t build connection like a call does.

Phone calls do.

FaceTime is even better.

⸻

5) What to say on the phone (keep it simple)

Once I’m on the phone, I just keep it light and normal.

Some dudes are introverted or don’t know what to say, so here’s a basic structure:

• how’s your day

• where u from

• what do u do for work

• what do u do for fun

• what kinda music u listen to
Then sprinkle in fun questions.

One thing I do if she’s like “why are u asking so much” is I’ll say:

“I’m just doing the whole get-to-know-you thing so you know I’m not a weirdo.”

It’s playful, but it also makes her feel safe.

Then I ask stuff like:

• “If u were a guy, what would u be like?”

• “What’s your type?”

• “Have u ever been cheated on?”

• “Have u ever cheated?”
The key is asking questions that make her talk.

Don’t ask yes/no questions.

Ask “how,” “why,” and “what” questions.

That’s how u build chemistry.

⸻

6) End the call first + set the frame

After about 20-30 minutes, I end the call.

It’s better if u end it first (if u can), because it makes u seem busy and like u have a life.

I’ll say something like:

“I gotta go handle something real quick, but I’m not gonna lie, u seem cool. I’d be down to meet. U free sometime this week?”

If she’s like “uhhh idk,” she probably isn’t that interested.

If she’s like “yeah I’m down” and starts giving days, that’s a green light.

If she says “maybe next week” or “in two weeks,” she’s probably just bored or keeping u around as an option.

If she asks “what do u wanna do?” I’ll usually say:

“Honestly I’m not sure yet, I just wanted to see if u were open to meeting. I’ll think of something.”

Then I end the call.

⸻

7) The voice note that gets them to come over

After the call, this is where it usually gets easy.

I send a voice note, not a long paragraph.

Here’s basically what I say (tweak it however u want):

“Aye so ima be real, I’m kinda new to the area and I didn’t even bring my car / my car’s been acting up. Normally I’d be on some gentleman stuff and pick u up and we go out somewhere, but I’m not tryna be a passenger princess . Would u be cool coming over and I’ll cook us dinner? No pressure if not, we can always do something else.”

This works because:

• it’s confident but not pushy

• it’s low pressure

• it feels normal

• it’s not overly sexual

• it gives her an easy out
That “no pressure” line matters more than people think.

Girls don’t like feeling forced into anything.

⸻

8) Why this works so well

This framework works because:

1. U build comfort fast (call/FaceTime)

2. U stand out (most dudes only text)

3. U lead the interaction

4. U keep it low pressure

5. U make it feel normal (food + chill vibe)
Most guys either rush it too fast, or they take too long and end up wasting time.

This is the middle ground.

⸻

Final note

I’m not saying dates are bad.

I’m saying if your goal is casual hookups, u shouldn’t be spending all your time doing dinner dates with every single girl.

Some girls will need that, and that’s fine.

But a lot of girls are down to come over if u know how to make them comfortable and not come off weird.

My friend has a similar routine online, calling a girl and talking for 30+ minutes (sometimes hours if they click) before inviting to his place. If you have some basic game then a phone call always beats texting, imo.

I think most you have an idea or two how to make this more effective like adding some game to the conversation, thus having a higher conversion rate than him. I bet he got hate for the "lying to the girls about his car" part when he made the post the first time, won't be surprised if he gets a lot of hate now as well.

This is awesome thanks GMK!

yeah the main concern for women, after there is Hugh attraction / sexual interest is ..Safety. most of my Hinge game atm is just staying connected and just buying time.
leaning back , baiting them to lean in more .just staying connected to the chicks , providing lil value spikes and comfort . I do it all on their time not mine … seems to be yielding reaults for me. I will add this in now also next step

 

[Brassfaced_Jim]

@GreatManKos
great reading so far.

some of what he says correlates to Brent Smiths stuff whom I rate highly.
Brent’s Maxim of ‘-The More You Tell Them, The More You REPEL Them’ - does seem to hold quite true for OLD.

I figured out the minimising of the texting thing also in he last few months. watching a Brent video of his text game. Cos Brent’s is hilariously minimal and to the point…really , every guy ought to watch Brent’s text game video interview w Cliff.
it’s a dead set classic

also I ultilise the voice memo function of Hinge to great effect. Trading vms quickly.

My most attractive quality for chicks is my sexy accent and voice so I show it off as much as possible, so more more content can be put in a voice note.

texting is actually such a shit way to communicate tbh….ive had chicks request video calls w me , I must do this more and skip the dates .

just did a tally of my dating activity this last 4 weeks tonite.

16 dates in a month
Of which
4 lays , 1 near lay (i botched it ) and a few others just make outs /still in touch/ may lay.

It’s been about 50:50 so far of good dates to shit dates.
And about $350 spent (not good).

3 of the lays I may see again.

I need to tighten up my quality control tho. I was pretty thirsty when I got on Hinge 3 months ago.