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Seeing the big picture goal in your life and how powerful the feeling is!

Indian Race Troll (IRT)

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I can't seem to shut up in recent days, but that's because I have not had the chance to post as much.

In recent weeks, I have had an awakening, I mean an awakening that is one of a kind. For those of you unfamiliar with my background, I was getting laid a great deal after college but I was not happy. To make the very long story short, I was a social outcast in college, not popular, and it was messing with my head like god knows what. I was fearful and angry that the opportunity for that sort of a social life and experience would never come to me, that I won't get that sort of life experience that some guy who peaked in college got, whatever it was.

I went through the days.

Work, come back home, workout, eat, browse internet/read, and get ready for the next day.

Weekends were full of going out to chase pussy or following up with dates from apps.

I was lacking a big picture goal, there was nothing I was really working towards, and it was all such a dark place to be in.

Would I ever be happy and have the social life I missed out on?

Will I ever belong to a crowd of cool people?

Will I always be cursed to be this outcast?

Then it got to the point where I said fuck it, enough is enough. I am going to create this life and show others it can be done.

Why not? Especially in this day and age.

1. I am going to push my game to its limit and to the point where I am dating women that are model material, lets see how much social validation comes from that.

2. I am going to slowly surround myself with friends that are cool guys, already made 3 friends who I feel are alphas and am happy to go out to game with on weekends.

3. I am going to attract more and more women in my life and have those friends play a role in it too.

4. I am going to build my following on social media, already increased my followers by about 80 in the past month. Most recent post of me with a girl got 100+ likes, worth celebrating IMO!

And in the end, it is about that big image.

Me at my best, hot girl by my arm, pic on Instagram, 500+ likes, and a socially rich life I can be proud of. I don't think the opportunity to get this ended after college, I really don't, and I strongly believe I am right too.

For any of you in here, see that big image to your life purpose and WORK BACKWARDS.

If you guys have not noticed, I have been posting less and less and less, this will likely be a trend for some time but this is a post I want to leave a lot of you guys with for now. Maybe I come back with more updates, who knows.
 
the right date makes getting her back home a piece of cake

mindful

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Oh Pry said:
Me at my best, hot girl by my arm, pic on Instagram, 500+ likes, and a socially rich life I can be proud of. I don't think the opportunity to get this ended after college, I really don't, and I strongly believe I am right too.

Oh Pry said:
I am going to build my following on social media, already increased my followers by about 80 in the past month. Most recent post of me with a girl got 100+ likes, worth celebrating IMO!

It's great that you have changed your dating life around since finding this material and have had success, but you are still seeking shallow goals and the approval of others. Do you not see how silly these things sound?

Focus on friendships and less on this stuff.
 

Grand Pooba

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Oh Pry said:
I can't seem to shut up in recent days, but that's because I have not had the chance to post as much.

In recent weeks, I have had an awakening, I mean an awakening that is one of a kind. For those of you unfamiliar with my background, I was getting laid a great deal after college but I was not happy. To make the very long story short, I was a social outcast in college, not popular, and it was messing with my head like god knows what. I was fearful and angry that the opportunity for that sort of a social life and experience would never come to me, that I won't get that sort of life experience that some guy who peaked in college got, whatever it was.

I went through the days.

Work, come back home, workout, eat, browse internet/read, and get ready for the next day.

Weekends were full of going out to chase pussy or following up with dates from apps.

I was lacking a big picture goal, there was nothing I was really working towards, and it was all such a dark place to be in.

Would I ever be happy and have the social life I missed out on?

Will I ever belong to a crowd of cool people?

Will I always be cursed to be this outcast?

Then it got to the point where I said fuck it, enough is enough. I am going to create this life and show others it can be done.

Why not? Especially in this day and age.

1. I am going to push my game to its limit and to the point where I am dating women that are model material, lets see how much social validation comes from that.

2. I am going to slowly surround myself with friends that are cool guys, already made 3 friends who I feel are alphas and am happy to go out to game with on weekends.

3. I am going to attract more and more women in my life and have those friends play a role in it too.

4. I am going to build my following on social media, already increased my followers by about 80 in the past month. Most recent post of me with a girl got 100+ likes, worth celebrating IMO!

And in the end, it is about that big image.

Me at my best, hot girl by my arm, pic on Instagram, 500+ likes, and a socially rich life I can be proud of. I don't think the opportunity to get this ended after college, I really don't, and I strongly believe I am right too.

For any of you in here, see that big image to your life purpose and WORK BACKWARDS.

If you guys have not noticed, I have been posting less and less and less, this will likely be a trend for some time but this is a post I want to leave a lot of you guys with for now. Maybe I come back with more updates, who knows.

Bravo! This is great :)
 

slazenger

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I think you're staring into the abyss and don't even realize it. At some point you're going to realize that the things you currently think are important are not important.
 

Indian Race Troll (IRT)

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mindful said:
Oh Pry said:
Me at my best, hot girl by my arm, pic on Instagram, 500+ likes, and a socially rich life I can be proud of. I don't think the opportunity to get this ended after college, I really don't, and I strongly believe I am right too.

Oh Pry said:
I am going to build my following on social media, already increased my followers by about 80 in the past month. Most recent post of me with a girl got 100+ likes, worth celebrating IMO!

It's great that you have changed your dating life around since finding this material and have had success, but you are still seeking shallow goals and the approval of others. Do you not see how silly these things sound?

Focus on friendships and less on this stuff.

Not silly at all, I need to metric myself.
 

Indian Race Troll (IRT)

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slazenger said:
I think you're staring into the abyss and don't even realize it. At some point you're going to realize that the things you currently think are important are not important.

No, the way I am made, the things I think are important will always be important to me.
 
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