LR  Seeking Date in South Korea

Grand Pooba

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This is an unusual report from me, and I really don’t consider it to be “high game” by any means, but thought it would be useful to share anyway as I like to document all of my LRs. In fact, I’d say overall in context this is a very low skill report, which I’ll explain at the end.

Since I’ve slept with a couple of foreign travelers late this year and kept in touch with all of them, all from Korea and Japan, I figured I would visit them all during the USA Thanksgiving holidays. So I booked a roughly 9 day trip to Asia and was planning to spend every night with a girl. However, in the process of coordinating it with the women, I discovered I’d have two free nights in Seoul South Korea in the first couple of days, on a Saturday and Sunday evening. I was planning to meet one lover during the whole day on Sunday; she’s married and would be getting away from her husband for the day.

My plan was originally to arrive on a Saturday night and go out at night to try and pick up girls at a bar or club. However night game isn’t my best strength, and considering that recently I’ve been extremely out of practice with game and approaching as well – and these days I barely go out at night drinking anyway - I figured I would take a shot at another route which I used earlier in the year by using Seeking Arrangement to set up dates and arrange a “pay for play” meet. In other words, an arrangement.

Earlier in 2019 I played around with SA extensively along with another senior member here on GC, but dropped it after about two months of testing. For those not in the know, Seeking Arrangement (SA) is a website where girls post profiles online seeking an arrangement with a man – usually sex for some kind of ongoing financial arrangement with a man to help pay for their expenses. Typically these tend to be between old rich guys and very young women in college. However, together we theorized that 1. Hot young and attractive men are probably in the minority on that site, and therefore extremely desirable to these women, and 2. Good game supercedes anything else, so if we simply get the girls horny enough we can potentially bypass any monetary aspect to the date. In this regard, the SA arrangement date simply becomes a low skill online dating meet or hookup.

In the past when I’ve used it in NYC, I had instances where the girl will meet up with me, and won’t even bring up pay if I ran the date well. Earlier in 2019 I set up a date with a very famous porn star (will not share the name here for privacy reasons) near my home, and after running my sex talk stack she basically seduced herself, came over, and fucked me for three hours - without a single mention of money exchange. Although I never saw her again despite some incredible porn star sex, it became a successful trial of our theory. In my view, that’s good game - girls go on Seeking Arrangement hoping to meet a guy who will help them with expenses, and here I am trying to get her into a sexual state having her forget about any money and simply selling her on sex.

Anyway, this was going to be a fun experiment - to try and do the same thing abroad. Granted, if a date like this went well and she still wanted money, I’d consider it simply for convenience.

So I went on SA about a week in advance of my trip and started searching for girls in Seoul. Got a couple of matches quickly and right off the bat started to exchange messages reliably with a girl that had “liked” me earlier. Quickly ran my online dating stack and exchange contact information on WhatsApp – at which point we set up a date for my first night in town. I told her I’d arrive at the airport around 9:30pm and we could meet up for drinks around 11pm – allowing me enough time to check into a nearby Airbnb and all that.



Over the next week or so all the way until my trip, she texted me periodically and made extensive conversation and I went along with it. This went a long way towards establishing comfort before the date itself.

We then met up on Saturday night at 11pm at a bar just down the street from this Airbnb – sexy 20 year old Korean girl still in college, but who seemed to have a penchant for western guys. I found her sitting at a table where I’d be facing her, a setup which I hate. Instead I had her move with me right off the bat to a bar seat where we could sit next to each other.

We started talking and spent about two hours here in the end – and her English was pretty good but not amazing or fluent enough to run any real game, persay. Plus, I was tired and extremely jet lagged having been in transit for the prior 24 hours. Instead, I just focused on getting to know her and telling her about my life, while using incidental touch to establish a sexual context.

Together we ordered a total of 4 drinks each, all which I paid for. Overtime as she got more buzzed I found her getting more and more physically close to me. At one point when the lone bartender went to the bathroom and we found ourselves completely alone in this bar as the last customer, I went for the first kiss and she accepted right away.

During the whole date I also saw her texting a bunch of other guys on SA and setting up dates with them, and I said nothing about it – I was very chill. But, after this kiss I made it a point to put my hand on her thigh and hold it there more often, which she was totally cool and comfortable with.

At some point she started to show me modeling photos her ex boyfriend had taken of her in many different foreign cities, mostly in Europe, so I revealed that I’m actually a professional photographer and do photoshoots as well which I’d like to show her. She really wanted to see them, so I told her I’d show them to her later.

Around 1:30am we were starting to get really buzzed, I felt tired, and thought it had been long enough – I simply suggested that I show her those pictures I was telling her about now and we close the tab. She obliged; I paid for all the drinks, then left with her and walked out the bar.

I held her by the shoulder as I usually do as I walked down the street then turned into the entry of my Airbnb building about three buildings down. We walked up the five flights of stairs; I showed her the rooftop as I made small talk, then brought her inside. It was on within the first minute of her entering my place, and the moment we started taking off our clothes and she pulled down her panties I discovered she was soaking wet. This made for some pretty fantastic deep penetration fucking; she loved it rough and I made an effort to pound her as hard as I could for as long as I could in three different positions (probably 30min long) before I came all over her stomach.

She spent the night and I fucked her twice more into the morning, when we got breakfast together.

At 12pm I kicked her out as I wanted to meet my other Korean lover for the afternoon, but told her we could meet for drinks again after 9pm that evening. She happily obliged and we ended up meeting again later that night.

The next morning I was flying to Japan, and she even took the time to take me all the way to the airport and see me off to my flight. We talked about her visiting NYC and staying with me sometime in 2020, which I think will happen.

Thoughts On This One:
  • In between meeting online and not using any of my standard dating techniques, this was a very low skill date, kind of a freebie. All I really did was show up and spend some quality time getting to know her and being cool.
  • I had a huge foreigner bonus here, and also learned that one of her ex boyfriends was Arab from Dubai. Though I am not Arab by any means, I look Middle Eastern enough, and so she was probably attracted to me from the get go.
  • She was a newbie to SA having joined two weeks prior, and clearly scoping out many guys as I saw her texting five or six different men even in between our rounds of sex. I never said anything about it.
  • There was never any mention of money arrangements, which made this more like a standard online dating date that was simply set up through the SA website. I think this is because of her attraction to me plus my traveler bonus.
  • I saw her twice and saw my other lover in between, making my short 36 hour stay in South Korea very fruitful and entirely focused on sex.
  • Overall this was a big win for me given the circumstances rather than trying to fuck around picking up a girl at a bar or club. I simply didn’t have the time or energy to focus on that this time given a very tight schedule in town.
 

cruiser

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This is an unusual report from me, and I really don’t consider it to be “high game” by any means, but thought it would be useful to share anyway as I like to document all of my LRs. In fact, I’d say overall in context this is a very low skill report, which I’ll explain at the end.

Since I’ve slept with a couple of foreign travelers late this year and kept in touch with all of them, all from Korea and Japan, I figured I would visit them all during the USA Thanksgiving holidays. So I booked a roughly 9 day trip to Asia and was planning to spend every night with a girl. However, in the process of coordinating it with the women, I discovered I’d have two free nights in Seoul South Korea in the first couple of days, on a Saturday and Sunday evening. I was planning to meet one lover during the whole day on Sunday; she’s married and would be getting away from her husband for the day.

My plan was originally to arrive on a Saturday night and go out at night to try and pick up girls at a bar or club. However night game isn’t my best strength, and considering that recently I’ve been extremely out of practice with game and approaching as well – and these days I barely go out at night drinking anyway - I figured I would take a shot at another route which I used earlier in the year by using Seeking Arrangement to set up dates and arrange a “pay for play” meet. In other words, an arrangement.

Earlier in 2019 I played around with SA extensively along with another senior member here on GC, but dropped it after about two months of testing. For those not in the know, Seeking Arrangement (SA) is a website where girls post profiles online seeking an arrangement with a man – usually sex for some kind of ongoing financial arrangement with a man to help pay for their expenses. Typically these tend to be between old rich guys and very young women in college. However, together we theorized that 1. Hot young and attractive men are probably in the minority on that site, and therefore extremely desirable to these women, and 2. Good game supercedes anything else, so if we simply get the girls horny enough we can potentially bypass any monetary aspect to the date. In this regard, the SA arrangement date simply becomes a low skill online dating meet or hookup.

In the past when I’ve used it in NYC, I had instances where the girl will meet up with me, and won’t even bring up pay if I ran the date well. Earlier in 2019 I set up a date with a very famous porn star (will not share the name here for privacy reasons) near my home, and after running my sex talk stack she basically seduced herself, came over, and fucked me for three hours - without a single mention of money exchange. Although I never saw her again despite some incredible porn star sex, it became a successful trial of our theory. In my view, that’s good game - girls go on Seeking Arrangement hoping to meet a guy who will help them with expenses, and here I am trying to get her into a sexual state having her forget about any money and simply selling her on sex.

Anyway, this was going to be a fun experiment - to try and do the same thing abroad. Granted, if a date like this went well and she still wanted money, I’d consider it simply for convenience.

So I went on SA about a week in advance of my trip and started searching for girls in Seoul. Got a couple of matches quickly and right off the bat started to exchange messages reliably with a girl that had “liked” me earlier. Quickly ran my online dating stack and exchange contact information on WhatsApp – at which point we set up a date for my first night in town. I told her I’d arrive at the airport around 9:30pm and we could meet up for drinks around 11pm – allowing me enough time to check into a nearby Airbnb and all that.



Over the next week or so all the way until my trip, she texted me periodically and made extensive conversation and I went along with it. This went a long way towards establishing comfort before the date itself.

We then met up on Saturday night at 11pm at a bar just down the street from this Airbnb – sexy 20 year old Korean girl still in college, but who seemed to have a penchant for western guys. I found her sitting at a table where I’d be facing her, a setup which I hate. Instead I had her move with me right off the bat to a bar seat where we could sit next to each other.

We started talking and spent about two hours here in the end – and her English was pretty good but not amazing or fluent enough to run any real game, persay. Plus, I was tired and extremely jet lagged having been in transit for the prior 24 hours. Instead, I just focused on getting to know her and telling her about my life, while using incidental touch to establish a sexual context.

Together we ordered a total of 4 drinks each, all which I paid for. Overtime as she got more buzzed I found her getting more and more physically close to me. At one point when the lone bartender went to the bathroom and we found ourselves completely alone in this bar as the last customer, I went for the first kiss and she accepted right away.

During the whole date I also saw her texting a bunch of other guys on SA and setting up dates with them, and I said nothing about it – I was very chill. But, after this kiss I made it a point to put my hand on her thigh and hold it there more often, which she was totally cool and comfortable with.

At some point she started to show me modeling photos her ex boyfriend had taken of her in many different foreign cities, mostly in Europe, so I revealed that I’m actually a professional photographer and do photoshoots as well which I’d like to show her. She really wanted to see them, so I told her I’d show them to her later.

Around 1:30am we were starting to get really buzzed, I felt tired, and thought it had been long enough – I simply suggested that I show her those pictures I was telling her about now and we close the tab. She obliged; I paid for all the drinks, then left with her and walked out the bar.

I held her by the shoulder as I usually do as I walked down the street then turned into the entry of my Airbnb building about three buildings down. We walked up the five flights of stairs; I showed her the rooftop as I made small talk, then brought her inside. It was on within the first minute of her entering my place, and the moment we started taking off our clothes and she pulled down her panties I discovered she was soaking wet. This made for some pretty fantastic deep penetration fucking; she loved it rough and I made an effort to pound her as hard as I could for as long as I could in three different positions (probably 30min long) before I came all over her stomach.

She spent the night and I fucked her twice more into the morning, when we got breakfast together.

At 12pm I kicked her out as I wanted to meet my other Korean lover for the afternoon, but told her we could meet for drinks again after 9pm that evening. She happily obliged and we ended up meeting again later that night.

The next morning I was flying to Japan, and she even took the time to take me all the way to the airport and see me off to my flight. We talked about her visiting NYC and staying with me sometime in 2020, which I think will happen.

Thoughts On This One:
  • In between meeting online and not using any of my standard dating techniques, this was a very low skill date, kind of a freebie. All I really did was show up and spend some quality time getting to know her and being cool.
  • I had a huge foreigner bonus here, and also learned that one of her ex boyfriends was Arab from Dubai. Though I am not Arab by any means, I look Middle Eastern enough, and so she was probably attracted to me from the get go.
  • She was a newbie to SA having joined two weeks prior, and clearly scoping out many guys as I saw her texting five or six different men even in between our rounds of sex. I never said anything about it.
  • There was never any mention of money arrangements, which made this more like a standard online dating date that was simply set up through the SA website. I think this is because of her attraction to me plus my traveler bonus.
  • I saw her twice and saw my other lover in between, making my short 36 hour stay in South Korea very fruitful and entirely focused on sex.
  • Overall this was a big win for me given the circumstances rather than trying to fuck around picking up a girl at a bar or club. I simply didn’t have the time or energy to focus on that this time given a very tight schedule in town.
Damn this is awesome setting up a date every night in Asia! Guessing you went alone, which is the right move. I’m curious though how your conversation went regardless. Sounds like you played your cards right but did you go more the sexual route (I’m just talking about conversation not touching) or the cool flirty guy? And if you’re not going the sexual talk route does touching make it sexual and get her wet? Or what did you do to build sexual tension? THANKS M8 great lay
 

Grand Pooba

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Damn this is awesome setting up a date every night in Asia! Guessing you went alone, which is the right move. I’m curious though how your conversation went regardless. Sounds like you played your cards right but did you go more the sexual route (I’m just talking about conversation not touching) or the cool flirty guy? And if you’re not going the sexual talk route does touching make it sexual and get her wet? Or what did you do to build sexual tension? THANKS M8 great lay

Actually it was the opposite - I didn’t do any sexual conversation, but I was using incidental touch the entire time (my knees touching her knees while sitting next to each other at the bar) and for the latter half of the date I just had my hand on her thigh the whole time. The conversation was not sexual at all, more like cool (tired) flirty guy lol.

Thanks for reading!
 

Protean

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Hey GP sweet report as usual. The experiments you're running on SA fascinate me. I've thought about looking for sexual markets at my school where there are a lot of guys undesirable guys so that you're a breath of fresh air to the women you talk to, and have had experience doing that successfully (not realizing it at the time lol) but it would have never crossed by mind to do it online. Even though I don't care much for online game, I'll keep an eye out to do something similar at my school.

Since I’ve slept with a couple of foreign travelers late this year and kept in touch with all of them, all from Korea and Japan, I figured I would visit them all during the USA Thanksgiving holidays. So I booked a roughly 9 day trip to Asia and was planning to spend every night with a girl.

Earlier in 2019 I set up a date with a very famous porn star (will not share the name here for privacy reasons) near my home, and after running my sex talk stack she basically seduced herself, came over, and fucked me for three hours - without a single mention of money exchange. Although I never saw her again despite some incredible porn star sex, it became a successful trial of our theory.

We have similar personalities and vibes so I already read all of your reports but man this is some inspiring stuff. I must push until I get to your level and beyond Varoon :)
 

Grand Pooba

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Hey GP sweet report as usual.
Thanks Protean! Glad you enjoyed it...

The experiments you're running on SA fascinate me. I've thought about looking for sexual markets at my school where there are a lot of guys undesirable guys so that you're a breath of fresh air to the women you talk to, and have had experience doing that successfully (not realizing it at the time lol) but it would have never crossed by mind to do it online. Even though I don't care much for online game, I'll keep an eye out to do something similar at my school.

I definitely think the "breath of fresh air feeling" for women is far more pronounced in person, if you have the skill to do it. To be fair I do think going online is now the "lazy" approach, but it can still have the desired affect. The greatest benefit of course is that women who are online are already looking for a man, whereas in Day Game women aren't necessarily looking, you just show up in your life.

So I booked a roughly 9 day trip to Asia and was planning to spend every night with a girl.

In the end, I did spend every single night and day of my trip with a woman :).

We have similar personalities and vibes so I already read all of your reports but man this is some inspiring stuff. I must push until I get to your level and beyond Varoon

I am so glad - keeping pushing, there's always a way!
 
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