Sex Club Experience

[Brassfaced_Jim]

Hey guys


not sure if this is the right place to post this but have to report a very wild night last night.
I went to a Sex Club in the city (first time ever).

🪩 🌶

It was quite the eye opener and I’m stoked I finally did it.

Amazing ,Strange , hot , weird, druggy. kinda gross and a very unreal experience. all at the same time I’d call it.

AMA if anyone is interested I’ll give the full honest lowdown … cheers Jim

 

[Skills]

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Swinger club game - The Skills Method

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[Brassfaced_Jim]

Have you read my guide:

Swinger club game - The Skills Method

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Hi Skills
No but I certainly will now.
Thanks for sharing.

next time I’ll probably take a chick I have on rotation. She’s been into it previously for years and gave me the lowdown also.

I’m sure there are extra great tips in your article will digest pre - next visit,

I observed a handful of these guys in the club who appeared to be The Studs/Stars of the night. And banged quite a few chicks each.

one other guy was interesting a younger handsome ripped French guy. His approach was very soft and polite but he pulled a few cuties during the night.

I hung with an Asian chick with a 10 dancers body. And then another hot stripper looking Greek girl who looked like Kim K.

both seemed to be scamming me for free drinks tho. So I ditched them. No need for that BS in a Sex Club! It’s “rounds” or nothing.

and also “ sex or no more drinks baby!”

 

[Brassfaced_Jim]

Also fyi.
I did not get laid that night and went home with a serious case of Blue Balls. But it was worth it for the experience and popping of the cherry. My cougar lady who offered me a free ticket was busted and old -old… so I didn’t bang her. She was also a drunk afaik and got plastered by the end of the night.

total liability.

 

[Skills]

Hi Skills
No but I certainly will now.
Thanks for sharing.

you should so you know the dynamics

next time I’ll probably take a chick I have on rotation. She’s been into it previously for years and gave me the lowdown also.

^ yes

I’m sure there are extra great tips in your article will digest pre - next visit,

I observed a handful of these guys in the club who appeared to be The Studs/Stars of the night. And banged quite a few chicks each.

one other guy was interesting a younger handsome ripped French guy. His approach was very soft and polite but he pulled a few cuties during the night.

I know a really ripped seducer that goes along and he does good, but in my opinion is retarded to go alone, read the article for context..

I hung with an Asian chick with a 10 dancers body. And then another hot stripper looking Greek girl who looked like Kim K.

both seemed to be scamming me for free drinks tho. So I ditched them. No need for that BS in a Sex Club! It’s “rounds” or nothing.

and also “ sex or no more drinks baby!”

^???? I don't know what swing club or sex club you went to, the host has free drink if is a party or you bring your drink.... Swingclubs is the same you bring the drinks.... i would advice to read the article..

 

[Brassfaced_Jim]

Hey skills

that’s a pretty big guide and I am ‘reading - affected’ tbh.( I’m a bit dyslexic I think.) I will try get through anyways.

could u nutshell the top 3 tips in bullets for me here in a reply?

In answer to ur last Q: the club was ticketed $180 for couples qnd single women only.
Had bars inside like a normal club and had to pay for drinks. I’m sober so drinking $6 cokes etc the girls kept hitting me up for $16-$20 G&Ts etc. so I f-Ed them off after a spell when the Asian demanded a 2nd drink land refused to buy me a round back.

dem Ho’s hey!

I think this Asian one I met first was a discreet hooker perhaps or just playin and flirting around for drinks etc. she said it was her first time cherry pop at a club like me so maybe she needed a big warm up. I paraded her around the club on my arm anyway to show her off. She had a 10 body tight AF and brown as a berry in a tight short Lyra dress (mmmm!).

I only got propositioned by 1 couple when I was hanging with my madam +1 busted cougar 45 mins in. But it was too early for me to engage and was still sussing out the scene.

I ditched the busted cougar as she was getting really drunk progressively. So by the end of the night I was sharking around solo doing laps of the club solo which was not a good look.

next time I’ll go with a nice chick I know and am hooking up with , plus another couple or maybe 2 couples . So we can hang as a clique and have chats and social fun in a group. Being solo was killing me . I left quite annoyed. And I also hate Techno. Hip hop was cool, but the dance floor emptied early that side and the techno Doof side was full of ppl on hard drugs. Didn’t like that scene.

I’m more of a Rocker/ Indie or disco funk electro lover. Must find me another club that plays this and go with a gang of ppl I reckon will be FTW next go.

 

[Brassfaced_Jim]

I kept watching these 4-5 stud guys in the play area. Most were tall buff guys packing decent junk. They all fucked 5-7 girls in succession each. And trading girls. All the girls were high on drugs. Some girls were screaming n shit. It was wild.

I saw a hot blonde tall chick getting DP’d (!) I won’t forget that in a hurry! Crazy.

mine stud dude I was scoping out .. every time I saw him he was fucking or getting blow by another chick.

pure real life porno. Quite unreal .

I’m still pinching myself it happened tbh.
I debriefed all my friends the next few days with many phone calls and even a few new OD chicks who wanted “all the goss”.

a whole new world for me

 

[Brassfaced_Jim]

Plus I noticed - at one point like 6 dude we’re getting blowjobs. All raw no condoms.
I asked my cougar chick what’s the go? She said “ no condoms for blowjobs is the general rule “ . I was a bit wary of catching an STD there tbh. Chances looked high!

 

[Skills]

Plus I noticed - at one point like 6 dude we’re getting blowjobs. All raw no condoms.
I asked my cougar chick what’s the go? She said “ no condoms for blowjobs is the general rule “ . I was a bit wary of catching an STD there tbh. Chances looked high!

You are not going to get stds from bjs... The std on a sex club statistically lower... Read the guide brah i mentioned that... No responding anymore to points i already pointed on the guide..

 

[Brassfaced_Jim]

You are not going to get stds from bjs... The std on a sex club statistically lower... Read the guide brah i mentioned that... No responding anymore to points i already pointed on the guide..

Hi Skills
I read through your guide.
I did not get that much out of it I didn’t already learn from my first night and experience watching fhe wxnee

Your main most important point seems to be

“The key to swing club game is to go in with a HOT GIRL, or above average girl, period end of story. WOMEN RUN THE GAME IN SWING CLUBS.”

well of course yes.
but That’s kinda obvious no?

it’s a sex club and looks rule.

but yknow there is the barrier of actually landing (a ) a hot chick and (b) a hot chick that is also into swinging.

my idea from night 1 is next visit I will

(a) go with a decent chick I like hanging with and make sure she’s dressed sexy,

(b) go with another couple also so we have a clique to hang with and have good convo with just watching the proceedings etc

so go as a 4 person group or 6 person group, even ppl we meet online,

and
(c) wear appropriate club clothes.
Did u mention this in your guide? I didn’t see it referenced. This is very important afaics.
Dress edgy and minimal to show you are DTF as a guy. And not a newbie or voyeur only,

Like leather shorts , vinyl stuff , net tops , chains n S&M type wear, proper sex club outfit stuff I would say.

that will be my strategy next visit,

tbh I don’t think there is that much “Game” involved Skills…. ?
As it’s a Sex Club and the agenda is fucking with strangers. It’s all attraction and appearing as a sexy DTF guy and being with at least 1 chick partner, or better being inside a clique of people. Being with a group.

yup doing circles of the place solo and just voyeuring did me no favours. My outfit was off also. But moreso no partner chick or at least one that was not old ,busted and drunk like my cougar. For sure.

 

[Brassfaced_Jim]

Not convinced about the low stats of STDs either tbh. I saw many girls giving different guys blowjobs. And those guys fucking many other chicks. Seems like a very likely place to catch one to me.
Everyone was high AF on drugs so it was very very loose indeed.

The girls seemed to be putting the onus on the men to change condoms etc and their were cocks flying in and out of different holes all over the place afaics.

I’d imagine everyone scurried off the road STI clinic on Monday to get tested tbh….

I would !

 

[Brassfaced_Jim]

Local* STD clinic should say.

everyone was on drugs basically.
ecstacy , GHB , Coke and Meth I would say.

this was not in the USA btw. I’m down under in Aus.

 

[Brassfaced_Jim]

Also one more important bit of info .. I’ve heard this from a few ppl in the scene or who have been in it in the past,

that would be - watch your drinks.

the sex clubs down here are known for drink spiking going on in the club.

the cougar chick I went with told me a story that she went alone the previous month when he chaperone cancelled last minute.
She got roofied by a dude that night and same dude tried to snatch and pull her into a car outside.

a male friend told me he also lost count of how many times dudes tried to spike or switch his drinks. He’s a chemist by trade.
He told me he can always taste it (GBH is salty) .

I heard similar from another chick deep in the scene for years. Lots of creeps go to sex clubs (obvs) and target chicks.

so it’s a known occurrence.
A little bit of something can really help a lady “get in the mood for love so to speak”

just sayin. Important to know.