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Sexual Humor???

omarmo93

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Recently, I’ve made friends with a group of guys who seem to be excellent at using sexual humor. I don’t mean chase frames, or talking about sex positions, or anything like that. I’ll give you a few examples:

example 1: were at the gym, us three guys (guy A, guy B, and me) and one girl. guy A is leading the workout since he has the most experience.

guy A: do blah blah sets of blah blah

girl: yes boss

guy A: thats yes daddy to you

LOL

It was smooth and funny. heres another example.

example 2: guy A, guy B, and me, and 3 girls are at a bar. Im listening to guy B conversate with two of the girls and the humor seems to be getting quite sexual.

I dont remember how the exact conversation goes, but at one point guy B mentions a girl strumming his banjo string, and then the conversation turns into talking about blowjobs and spitting on cocks, basically teasing the girl for being guilty of being a freak. It had the girls laughing, and getting visibly attracted.

I was focusing more on deep diving, with the occasional joke thrown in there, and building investment with one of the girls. However guy B steps in and effortlessly makes a few sexual jokes like above and has the girl all over him. I can always respect when a guy outplays me but I want to learn from this. How do I learn to make sexual jokes like this effortlessly? would be cool to add this to my arsenal. Any tips appreciated.
 

Michal

Tool-Bearing Hominid
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Hello,

One key thing is on the mindset level which is - sex is normal and talking about sex is normal as well. And then it is about practice, calibration and wit. Just like humor can be trained, you can train this too because it is a "branch" of humor. I think Chase wrote an article about learning humor in the past.
The gist of it was:
- look at the context of the joke
- analyze why it is funny and what makes it funny
- watch good comedians to get your mind more accustomed to that kind of thinking
 
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