She ended it but it’s weird

[ramshead]

This girl just called it off for a second time. We have been dating for over a year and have known each other through mutual friends for the past 2 years. 5 months ago she called it off and I was ok with it and ignored her because she wanted to be in control and I wouldn’t submit. She went crazy and started texting me like crazy and We got together again. Today she called it off because we got into an argument about communication she wants me to express my feelings because she insulted me last week so I left her house and didn’t reply to her calls or texts.

After I answered her call today she was mad and said it’s over because I don’t communicate just ignore her that maybe I should be more open with the next girl

She then texted me.

“Just so you know, I really did have a good time with you and I appreciate you a lot. I’ll still be here if you ever need anything”

I haven’t replied. This is weird I don’t no what to do any advice. Is it really over or she testing me. Should be sarcastic and say I hope the next guy you date is more open than me. I’m going to be silent or should I throw her under the bus and say whatever’s to see her reaction

 

[ramshead]

Ok after reading some GC articles. I decided to send a text and leave the door open. This is is my decision I do have 2 more girls in rotation and it wasn’t a big deal to begin she probably went into auto rejection I texted her

“Cool. My door is still open”

If she replies cool if not it’s also cool I won’t text her.

What do you guys think is going on she broke it of but said that she’s here for me

 

[Fuck This]

BD has a good series of articles on these women that leave but boomerang back. I've actually used those principles in sales, and had clients come back with out me chasing them.

Once you get to the point of knowing that there’s a 94% chance a woman leaving you will be back to ride your cock someday soon, it will take most of the unhappiness and all the surprise away from the process. You just smile, let her go, go radio silent on her, have sex with your other women, and wait until you have sex with her again.

 

[ramshead]

Awesome link fuck this. I’m planning on going silent but in a couple of weeks in mid October it’s her birthday. What are your thought about sending her a happy bday text. Should I do it or not.

If I text her I’m breaking the silence if I don’t I’m showing I could care less both are bad because if I break the silence it shows that I’m chasing. If I stay quiet she can go into auto rejection if it was only a shit test she was doing.

What are your thoughts

 

[Fuck This]

"Happy Birthday" is a bad one for me. It is a generic greeting and I like my interactions with people to be more specific and memorable. She will have dozens of other people wishing her a happy birthday, so unless there is something specific and memorable about your history on her birthday, or you have something of value that you can offer her on her birthday, I'm more inclined to refrain from it MYSELF. If you commonly wish friends and acquaintances HBD on social media then treat her like one of those. But don't do anything that looks "Special" . Clear as mud?

 

[ramshead]

Fuck this, I don’t like it either I think I’ll skip it unless she breaks the silence. If at the time I do feel like texting her. I’ll probably text her something like this.

“Happy birthday, enjoy your day. It’s been a while hope you’ve been good. I have been crazy busy at work doing over time which is cool but finally have time for myself”

If I were to text her that I think I’m showing that I’m ok with her calling it of and that I still have a life. Odds are I won’t text her since I want her to break the silence first but what are your thoughts about the text.

 

[Fuck This]

Unless you are going to text her "Happy Birthday I have your present in my pants" and think it would work, I'd just stay silent.