Hey Guys,
Been a while since I've written anything but its good to see so much traffic on the forum. Let me explain my situation. So met this girl through a coworker, total wife material, grabbed her number and set up a date 5-6 days later when we were both free. So I'd normally try to bed my date asap, but since I met her through a coworker. I decided I'd go in for the kill on date 2. So I met up with her at some sushi joint, talked, laughed, etc... Everything was going good so we moved to another joint for a drink, had our drink, whatever. After the drink I walked her to the subway, had a quick makeup session, and parted ways. Now here's where things get iffy, I texted her the next day something like "Had fun last night, Hope u survived your venture home." She responded and we went back and forth a couple times. Until I said something about her being a light weight to tease her and got no response back. I then waited another 3-4 days and shot another text, "Hey Hope you stayed out of trouble this wknd, What did you get into?" and got no response. Maybe I'm thinking to much into this, but I figured If she was into me, she'd text back. Does anyone see any critical mistakes I made? What should my next move be? I was thinking about calling her ass up, but then I know I could potentially see her again through my coworker. So I guess I'm asking do you guys think I should keep cool and slow play it(wait until I see her with my coworker/ text her in a couple days?), or move fast and direct and give her a call? (Does calling her two days after a I shot her my latest text come off needy? And yea, thats pretty much it. I'd really appreciate your experience and knowledge.
Thanks,
Hugh
Been a while since I've written anything but its good to see so much traffic on the forum. Let me explain my situation. So met this girl through a coworker, total wife material, grabbed her number and set up a date 5-6 days later when we were both free. So I'd normally try to bed my date asap, but since I met her through a coworker. I decided I'd go in for the kill on date 2. So I met up with her at some sushi joint, talked, laughed, etc... Everything was going good so we moved to another joint for a drink, had our drink, whatever. After the drink I walked her to the subway, had a quick makeup session, and parted ways. Now here's where things get iffy, I texted her the next day something like "Had fun last night, Hope u survived your venture home." She responded and we went back and forth a couple times. Until I said something about her being a light weight to tease her and got no response back. I then waited another 3-4 days and shot another text, "Hey Hope you stayed out of trouble this wknd, What did you get into?" and got no response. Maybe I'm thinking to much into this, but I figured If she was into me, she'd text back. Does anyone see any critical mistakes I made? What should my next move be? I was thinking about calling her ass up, but then I know I could potentially see her again through my coworker. So I guess I'm asking do you guys think I should keep cool and slow play it(wait until I see her with my coworker/ text her in a couple days?), or move fast and direct and give her a call? (Does calling her two days after a I shot her my latest text come off needy? And yea, thats pretty much it. I'd really appreciate your experience and knowledge.
Thanks,
Hugh
