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I sometimes wonder if living in certain regions can be detrimental to one's success. Often it seems that in the PUA community men say/write that "most" men don't know how to do this, "many" men are clueless about this and that, "few" men ever develop these skills, yadi yadi ya. As far as I know this can be true but I believe this depends on the region you are residing in. I don't know, it may just be me, but it appears that "many" guys already have developed their skills in Southern California. I am specifically pointing out the cities bordering the coast like Laguna Beach, Newport Beach, Manhattan Beach, San Clemente, and many others (besides Wilmington, CA haha) in Socal. It seems like it is the norm for people to be cool and chill and people just seem good looking in general. Pretty much as if it is in their genes. You see these rich attractive families that just breed MORE rich attractive kids. Seriously you can already tell that certain people are going to be good looking and have desirable body types before they even have started high school (e.g. six pack abs developing, broad shoulders, lean muscle)!! So the level of "naturals" are most likely much higher here than it would be somewhere else.
Anyways what I am getting at is even if I build up my fundamentals and increase my value, I will "NEVER" reach the level of any of these people and will be beneath them. I would just be playing catch up since from what I have seen many of these guys are already at intermediate and advanced levels (many time naturally/intuitively) when it comes to picking up women, have a good sense of style, are interested in cool things like surfing, snowboarding, skateboarding,dirt biking, yoga that are sexy and exciting to women, as mentioned above many people are just good looking in general and are in good shape. I have a few friends that have been quite successful at attracting women into their lives without ever having to approach random people on the streets and I feel like I "KNOW" more about many things than they do even though I have had no success with women. My friend will even tell me "I never put that much thought into this kind of stuff before....you think too much....just be nice to them." Hahahahahaha.
Since I have been reading tons of GC articles and have recently purchased the How To Make Girls Chase ebook I am more aware of things than I have ever been before, I just have not used the knowledge in a fluid way. However it is quite interesting to observe the "why" behind my friends' success with women and just other high value guys in general. I use to be overly simplistic and just assumed people were successful with women because of their looks and coolness factor, but I now see how their actions fit into many of the lessons taught to us by GC. It just seems that far too many men already have developed this skill in my region and are often already high value to boot just by appearances alone.
Anyways what I am getting at is even if I build up my fundamentals and increase my value, I will "NEVER" reach the level of any of these people and will be beneath them. I would just be playing catch up since from what I have seen many of these guys are already at intermediate and advanced levels (many time naturally/intuitively) when it comes to picking up women, have a good sense of style, are interested in cool things like surfing, snowboarding, skateboarding,dirt biking, yoga that are sexy and exciting to women, as mentioned above many people are just good looking in general and are in good shape. I have a few friends that have been quite successful at attracting women into their lives without ever having to approach random people on the streets and I feel like I "KNOW" more about many things than they do even though I have had no success with women. My friend will even tell me "I never put that much thought into this kind of stuff before....you think too much....just be nice to them." Hahahahahaha.
Since I have been reading tons of GC articles and have recently purchased the How To Make Girls Chase ebook I am more aware of things than I have ever been before, I just have not used the knowledge in a fluid way. However it is quite interesting to observe the "why" behind my friends' success with women and just other high value guys in general. I use to be overly simplistic and just assumed people were successful with women because of their looks and coolness factor, but I now see how their actions fit into many of the lessons taught to us by GC. It just seems that far too many men already have developed this skill in my region and are often already high value to boot just by appearances alone.