Should you pre-emptively remind the girl of your name second time seeing her?

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Space Monkey
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My instinct is no, makes you seem tryhard. Maybe better to wait until she asks again (assuming she forgot since the first time you saw her)?

So this is not a date scenario. Say you met for the second time in a dance class or college class.
 

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Tool-Bearing Hominid
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I wouldn't wait for her to ask again if she's forgotten. Unless she's really confident she won't and will feel a lot of pressure. What I would do is, if you're interested in her, make plans with her as soon as you can and get her digits, then send the standard "Hey X, it's M, save my number :)" text. That will do the job of making her remember your name!

Alternatively, you could also bring up a story in conversation with her in which someone else mentioned your name.
 
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