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Space Monkey
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Hey all!


Yesterday I was trying out my new night game with shotgun opening and it did work pretty well as long as you keep yourself ultra confident, a bit crazy minded, happy and in a not care mood. All my friends were stunned, I got 2 free drinks, kissed 5 girls, hugged about 30 of them, got 1 phone number of a girl I kissed for a rather long time, got about 20-40 times rejected and talked to all sorts of people with men and woman a like.

It was a great night and I called the girl today whom I kissed and got her phone number. She happily talked to me and I asked how her night went afterwards and if she wasn't in a too bad shape the morning after. We laughed a bit and she said she didn't have a lot of time so she proposed to call me back later (I'll update the thread once I have spoken to her).

I'm going to try to see her either this weekend, or else if she is too far away next week but I wanted to ask you guys something.. What should I do the first second I meet her, just give a kiss on her face (like everyone here in France does (= regular opener)) or should I kiss her on the mouth and sexy/devilish smile a bit? I don't want her as girlfriend or something like that, just to have some fun with her in a bed ;).

As we kissed before I've just no idea if it's okay to kiss her like that in public (or in my apartment directly) or if I should first just greet her as a normal friend person, then deep dive and escalate while making the tension higher and higher and finally go in for the kiss..

What do you guys recommend? Kissing her directly the first second I see her or escalating to it?


Thanks a bunch guys!
- Wout
 

Mr.Rob

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Idk what France's customs are but in good ol' sunny Florida if I were in your situation, and I'm no expert but Chase recommends waiting till your at a "seduction spot" aka somewhere to get it on, I would refrain from kissing her when first seeing her. I think this would kill any sexual tension which you want to cultivate and grow as you make your way towards the bedroom until she's bursting with sexual tension and wants/needs to get shagged.

Kissing a girl basically for no reason will probably overprovide good feelings which will kill seductions, and also might even put you in the boyfriend zone.

My 2 cents.

Enjoy the date.

-Rob
 
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Mr.Rob said:
Idk what France's customs are but in good ol' sunny Florida if I were in your situation, and I'm no expert but Chase recommends waiting till your at a "seduction spot" aka somewhere to get it on, I would refrain from kissing her when first seeing her. I think this would kill any sexual tension which you want to cultivate and grow as you make your way towards the bedroom until she's bursting with sexual tension and wants/needs to get shagged.

Kissing a girl basically for no reason will probably overprovide good feelings which will kill seductions, and also might even put you in the boyfriend zone.

My 2 cents.

Enjoy the date.

-Rob
Hmm I see and I agree that over-providing is generally a bad thing. :)
So escalating in my seduction spot and then going in for the kiss is a better solution?

Alright I'll try that one, thanks Rob! :)

I'll also touch her a bit the first second I see her, without being too obvious just to make some stuff go and make it rolling like a snowball from a snow mountain, until it hits a rock which will be the sexual tension spitted out on a kiss and sex escalation
- Wout
 

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UPDATE: Just got a sms from her (too bad I can't send back an sms due to my operator being an idiot), so I'll wait a bit, finish my muscle training and call her.

In the sms she wrote: "Here Jessica, Sorry yesterday I was in a really bad state .. Lol write me whenever you want ;) Easier to respond than by calling, See you soon"

Anti slut mechanism activated?

I guess. I'll ignore this sms like I didn't receive it and tell her spontaneously that I like her being such adventurous, open minded and that more girls should let her wild side awaken, because otherwise it's boring. Guess that will do the trick by phone, then I'll arrange a simple date.

Or do you guys have a better insight/idea?
 
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