Good evening fellas, players, pimps, assholes, puas, doms and masters, dont know if you guys remember me from puaforum as "playa93"
Long story short, ive joined the pua forum when i was 14 years old, getting helped out mostly by Skills, Sexaddict911 and Stellar as well, and some text gamer i forgot the name of. I quit studying pick up after reading the gunwitch method and because i realized who i am as i grew older (turning 24 soon). Ive had some experiments with some sub girls that were excellent and i realized that the kink area is what fits me the most, so i did some digging in this area and would want to share with you others who claim to be a dom/master, maybe we could share some stories, hang out in the future etc.
If theres any important things that could be added to my list, share with me so i can add it, im open for a discussion
COMMUNICATION IS KEY:
Always be honest to each other, dont behave on your own will and think she would like it! Give her a paper and let her write what she wants to improve on, what she likes and dislikes you can use those against her to reward/punish her, and your main goal is to improve her, take care of her health, go gym, swimming, yoga, whatever.
Always communicate after being out with her, after having sex with her, any given situation/experience you should talk about it, because a kink relationship is all about an adventure and to talk about what could have been better, its a never ending process, you can always improve.
If theres any important things that could be added to my list, share with me so i can add it, im open for an enlightening!
Names to call you:
Sir, Owner, Mister, Master
Names to call her:
Pig, pet, dog, cum dumpster, slave, whore, slut, whatever she agrees on and likes
Toys:
Collar with bells, ballgag, rope, pen, dildo vibrator, buttplugs
clap pad, belt, flyswatter, hairbrush, lexan paddle or whatever
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Make a paper agreement and let her sign it:
For 7 days you agree to be xxx name slave
For the first act of training, you want to give her a good long spanking with different tools and postures to see what creates the best response and how much pain she can take before the agreement is signed.
Begin by having her strip in front of you, tie her hands up in the air
in front of the corner of the room, let her face the corner if she wants a break
You can also start the spanking over the knee
Use hands then clap pad, belt, flyswatter, hairbrush w.e
Then use your hands to touch her, how much can she handle?
When the spanking is over, comfort and care for you submissive. Have a conversation about which implements she enjoyed (save that list for erotic spanking) and which ones she hated/feared (place those on the discipline list).
Make sure she knows you are proud of her for enduring such a hard spanking.
Then give her a collar on without bells to start with when she goes out in public. During the apartment always bells on the collar.
Every days a speech conference, 30 minutes where she can ask about everything.
Ask her everyday what shes wearing and let her send you a pic, same with the food shes gonna eat.
If she needs to be standing, its gonna always be in the corner eyes down
When u ask her for a drink, she should bow up say yes sir then bow down, walk out quietly
She should always ask for permission to go to the bathroom etc
After she serves you, your body and sexual pleasure and when you punish her, cumming in her mouth etc she should ALWAYS thank you.
Give your sub comfort and encouragement.
If she has been kneeling for you for a long time, allow her to sit on the couch with you as a reward. Give her a back rub or caress her body.
Show her you recognize how hard she is working through training and you appreciate her.
Let her know you are proud to be her master.
NEVER give a disciplinary spanking in anger when shes been a bad girl:
If she forgot to give your title or other errors, hurt her with LEXAN PADDLE fast and painful.
Or let her go to the corner, hands behind her back, while shes looking on the floor for 10mins - 1 hour.
Hold and kiss her lightly. Tell her you are proud of her for taking the punishment.
Key points: MAINTANCE OF PUNISHMENTS
A sub/slave should be given an expected position or ritual to follow for her morning spanking. She should bring you the hairbrush or set out the chair and wait for you to sit down and take her in hand. SHE SHOULD NEVER SIT BEFORE YOU.
Submissive women often connect their master's desire to spank them as a sign of his strength and love for her. As such, there should be a daily spanking ritual in place to reaffirm her during the tense days of training which is in the morning before going out. Just some quick fast slaps on her ass, make sure its red so when she goes out she will know shes owned by you.
Maintenance spankings are lighter than discipline spankings but a little harsher than an erotic spanking. You are both getting ready to go to work or start your day. You aren't trying to arouse each other.
If you do not live with your sub and do not have access to her every day, instruct her to give herself a maintenance spanking each morning and report to you with a picture that she has fulfilled your wish.
PUNISHMENTS FOR BEING BAD GIRL:
Tell her, i'm ignoring you. Fuck other girls in front of her, while shes kneeling, if she starts to make sounds with her mouth, put a ballgag in her mouth, make sure her hands are tied behind her back.
Cold Shower
Send her to a dark room all by her self
Send her to the corner, make her look down the floor, hands tied behind her back
Buy a calming dog bed, always have it in the apartment. If shes been a bad girl during the day in public with you, and you come home, pleasure yourself as usual but DONT make her cum. I would recommend you to fuck her throat only, cum in her mouth, make her thank you, then let her sleep in the dog bed on the floor, if she makes sounds, put a ballgag on her. After an hour or two, go and pick her up and allow her to sleep in the bed with you.
Make her sit on a wooden chair and write "I will obey my master" or "i am sorry sir" a hundred times
If her car is messy, spank her and have her clean it in front of you wearing short-shorts to reveal her spanked bottom.
Make her write a 1000 word essay by hand on the topic, "What is obedience and why is it important?"
NEVER withdraw your affection(gentle feeling of liking) or attention as a form of punishment:
If you are living together, it may take some time for your sub to be comfortable spending so much of her time in the nude. Make sure to compliment her frequently, telling her how much you love to see her beautiful body. Touch her as you walk by and give her positive affirmation when she is open and natural about showing her body.
If you do not live together and see each other in sessions it can be very hard to ensure she is not touching herself when you are not around. Make sure to remind her frequently that your ability to trust her is as important as her need to trust you. If she confesses a mishap, punish her and move forward.
A sub should always have her legs partially open in your presence
The other service your sub should provide for you often is simply licking and holding you in her mouth while you watch TV or play online. Whether she is kneeling under your desk, or laying on the couch, she should be holding or gently licking your penis. It can also be a reward for being on the floor kneeling for too long.
Develop a signal
a snap of the fingers or pat on the head – and teach her to drop to her knees and open her mouth in preparation to give you oral pleasure as soon as that signal happens.
Snap of the fingers:
She goes on her knees, hands behind her back, and opens her mouth, while looking at you.
Bow your head:
Means go ahead, for example "suck"
Pat on the head:
She stops sucking, only licks and kiss ur cock while looking into your eyes
Mouth clash:
Goes doggy mode
Bite her lip:
She turns around to doggystyle
Intercourse and Orgasm Denial:
Tie each hand above her head in the air, touch her with a pad all over her body slowly then stop and then slap her ass like it was unexpected.
Tell her im gonna hit you 6 times on your ass and you gonna count, when she reaches 6 you interrupt her by saying 5, and you keep repeating 5, when shes aroused enough slap her hard on the 6th slap and say 6.
Start slowly by having her lick and kiss your bottom, then direct her to run her tongue up and down the crack of your ass, stimulating the perineum. And dont laugh, be serious about it.
If she does something exceptionally well, or goes out of her way to serve you, intercourse is a fantastic way to reward your sub. If you REALLY want to reward her, give her oral sex and allow her to orgasm beneath your tongue. She will be thanking you all night long.
As her master, you control her ability to orgasm. Her pleasure is focused on your pleasure. Instruct your sub at the beginning of training that she must wait for your permission to orgasm during intercourse. If she comes without your permission, that should result in a punishment later.
If your sub claims she can't control her orgasm, do some exercises where you use a vibrator or cunnilingus to bring her very close to release. Tell her she must sit perfectly still while you pleasure her, and if she moves or makes any sound you will stop pleasuring her and she will earn a slap.
Tie her hands and put them over her head tied to the bedroom, smell, lick, soft kiss her down to her pussy, then move her bras/cloth up to her eyes so she cant see. Kiss her, then put a ice cube on her chest down to her belly, "do you like this" then immediately move her on her front and slap her ass, lift her ass up and fuck her while touching her head and back down.
Outside World:
Instruct your sub to stay behind you or by your side for the evening. Set aside some catch phrases for her to use to show she is honoring you such as, "As you wish" or "Thank you, kindly." Require her to be respectful to all men she encounters. She should call the mailman, "Sir" (but only after a long term relationship), and politely converse with the people around her. Please and Thank you aren’t just words she says in your home. She says them everywhere. And you thank her each time to succeeds your tasks, like for example, when she went gym, swimming, bowling with you, always thank her.
If she has trouble admitting she was wrong, have her purchase clothing that is by far the wrong size (obviously too small or too large) and then take it back to the store the next day to exchange it and apologize.
Thus, if she wants to be excused to leave the room, to her own flat for example, she should say to you, "Sir, this sub/slave asks to leave the room." When she returns she should say, "This sub/slave thanks you."
Remind her you went through that training to scrape away self-focus and make her stronger in her focus on service and pleasure.
Games:
Tell her exactly what will happen to her at a point in the near future then forbid her to mention it. See how this works?
If you really want to test her – roll a pair of dice in front of her, but don't let her see the number. That way each day she will wonder if that day is the day. Enforced chastity does not mean she will not be giving you sexual release(orgasm). She can still serve you sexually through oral or anal service, she just won't be getting any release of her own.
If she for example rolls 1 3 5, dont give her orgasm that day OR tease her by which number she got, for example number 3 would be by having her on her knee while hands are tied right and left and with a blindfold, you go to the balcony for a bit, then come back to her, only put 1 inch in her mouth for like 10 seconds then walk back to the balcony or whatever, and then get back with 2 inches, then repeat 1 inch then 3 etc etc tease her like crazy before shoving it all in but dont make her cum on that number, if she hits a 5, you do the same game but you make her cum.
Thanks for reading, if you have any questions just ask, im willing to add more knowledge into the list and make it bigger.
Long story short, ive joined the pua forum when i was 14 years old, getting helped out mostly by Skills, Sexaddict911 and Stellar as well, and some text gamer i forgot the name of. I quit studying pick up after reading the gunwitch method and because i realized who i am as i grew older (turning 24 soon). Ive had some experiments with some sub girls that were excellent and i realized that the kink area is what fits me the most, so i did some digging in this area and would want to share with you others who claim to be a dom/master, maybe we could share some stories, hang out in the future etc.
If theres any important things that could be added to my list, share with me so i can add it, im open for a discussion
COMMUNICATION IS KEY:
Always be honest to each other, dont behave on your own will and think she would like it! Give her a paper and let her write what she wants to improve on, what she likes and dislikes you can use those against her to reward/punish her, and your main goal is to improve her, take care of her health, go gym, swimming, yoga, whatever.
Always communicate after being out with her, after having sex with her, any given situation/experience you should talk about it, because a kink relationship is all about an adventure and to talk about what could have been better, its a never ending process, you can always improve.
If theres any important things that could be added to my list, share with me so i can add it, im open for an enlightening!
Names to call you:
Sir, Owner, Mister, Master
Names to call her:
Pig, pet, dog, cum dumpster, slave, whore, slut, whatever she agrees on and likes
Toys:
Collar with bells, ballgag, rope, pen, dildo vibrator, buttplugs
clap pad, belt, flyswatter, hairbrush, lexan paddle or whatever
------------------
Make a paper agreement and let her sign it:
For 7 days you agree to be xxx name slave
For the first act of training, you want to give her a good long spanking with different tools and postures to see what creates the best response and how much pain she can take before the agreement is signed.
Begin by having her strip in front of you, tie her hands up in the air
in front of the corner of the room, let her face the corner if she wants a break
You can also start the spanking over the knee
Use hands then clap pad, belt, flyswatter, hairbrush w.e
Then use your hands to touch her, how much can she handle?
When the spanking is over, comfort and care for you submissive. Have a conversation about which implements she enjoyed (save that list for erotic spanking) and which ones she hated/feared (place those on the discipline list).
Make sure she knows you are proud of her for enduring such a hard spanking.
Then give her a collar on without bells to start with when she goes out in public. During the apartment always bells on the collar.
Every days a speech conference, 30 minutes where she can ask about everything.
Ask her everyday what shes wearing and let her send you a pic, same with the food shes gonna eat.
If she needs to be standing, its gonna always be in the corner eyes down
When u ask her for a drink, she should bow up say yes sir then bow down, walk out quietly
She should always ask for permission to go to the bathroom etc
After she serves you, your body and sexual pleasure and when you punish her, cumming in her mouth etc she should ALWAYS thank you.
Give your sub comfort and encouragement.
If she has been kneeling for you for a long time, allow her to sit on the couch with you as a reward. Give her a back rub or caress her body.
Show her you recognize how hard she is working through training and you appreciate her.
Let her know you are proud to be her master.
NEVER give a disciplinary spanking in anger when shes been a bad girl:
If she forgot to give your title or other errors, hurt her with LEXAN PADDLE fast and painful.
Or let her go to the corner, hands behind her back, while shes looking on the floor for 10mins - 1 hour.
Hold and kiss her lightly. Tell her you are proud of her for taking the punishment.
Key points: MAINTANCE OF PUNISHMENTS
A sub/slave should be given an expected position or ritual to follow for her morning spanking. She should bring you the hairbrush or set out the chair and wait for you to sit down and take her in hand. SHE SHOULD NEVER SIT BEFORE YOU.
Submissive women often connect their master's desire to spank them as a sign of his strength and love for her. As such, there should be a daily spanking ritual in place to reaffirm her during the tense days of training which is in the morning before going out. Just some quick fast slaps on her ass, make sure its red so when she goes out she will know shes owned by you.
Maintenance spankings are lighter than discipline spankings but a little harsher than an erotic spanking. You are both getting ready to go to work or start your day. You aren't trying to arouse each other.
If you do not live with your sub and do not have access to her every day, instruct her to give herself a maintenance spanking each morning and report to you with a picture that she has fulfilled your wish.
PUNISHMENTS FOR BEING BAD GIRL:
Tell her, i'm ignoring you. Fuck other girls in front of her, while shes kneeling, if she starts to make sounds with her mouth, put a ballgag in her mouth, make sure her hands are tied behind her back.
Cold Shower
Send her to a dark room all by her self
Send her to the corner, make her look down the floor, hands tied behind her back
Buy a calming dog bed, always have it in the apartment. If shes been a bad girl during the day in public with you, and you come home, pleasure yourself as usual but DONT make her cum. I would recommend you to fuck her throat only, cum in her mouth, make her thank you, then let her sleep in the dog bed on the floor, if she makes sounds, put a ballgag on her. After an hour or two, go and pick her up and allow her to sleep in the bed with you.
Make her sit on a wooden chair and write "I will obey my master" or "i am sorry sir" a hundred times
If her car is messy, spank her and have her clean it in front of you wearing short-shorts to reveal her spanked bottom.
Make her write a 1000 word essay by hand on the topic, "What is obedience and why is it important?"
NEVER withdraw your affection(gentle feeling of liking) or attention as a form of punishment:
If you are living together, it may take some time for your sub to be comfortable spending so much of her time in the nude. Make sure to compliment her frequently, telling her how much you love to see her beautiful body. Touch her as you walk by and give her positive affirmation when she is open and natural about showing her body.
If you do not live together and see each other in sessions it can be very hard to ensure she is not touching herself when you are not around. Make sure to remind her frequently that your ability to trust her is as important as her need to trust you. If she confesses a mishap, punish her and move forward.
A sub should always have her legs partially open in your presence
The other service your sub should provide for you often is simply licking and holding you in her mouth while you watch TV or play online. Whether she is kneeling under your desk, or laying on the couch, she should be holding or gently licking your penis. It can also be a reward for being on the floor kneeling for too long.
Develop a signal
a snap of the fingers or pat on the head – and teach her to drop to her knees and open her mouth in preparation to give you oral pleasure as soon as that signal happens.
Snap of the fingers:
She goes on her knees, hands behind her back, and opens her mouth, while looking at you.
Bow your head:
Means go ahead, for example "suck"
Pat on the head:
She stops sucking, only licks and kiss ur cock while looking into your eyes
Mouth clash:
Goes doggy mode
Bite her lip:
She turns around to doggystyle
Intercourse and Orgasm Denial:
Tie each hand above her head in the air, touch her with a pad all over her body slowly then stop and then slap her ass like it was unexpected.
Tell her im gonna hit you 6 times on your ass and you gonna count, when she reaches 6 you interrupt her by saying 5, and you keep repeating 5, when shes aroused enough slap her hard on the 6th slap and say 6.
Start slowly by having her lick and kiss your bottom, then direct her to run her tongue up and down the crack of your ass, stimulating the perineum. And dont laugh, be serious about it.
If she does something exceptionally well, or goes out of her way to serve you, intercourse is a fantastic way to reward your sub. If you REALLY want to reward her, give her oral sex and allow her to orgasm beneath your tongue. She will be thanking you all night long.
As her master, you control her ability to orgasm. Her pleasure is focused on your pleasure. Instruct your sub at the beginning of training that she must wait for your permission to orgasm during intercourse. If she comes without your permission, that should result in a punishment later.
If your sub claims she can't control her orgasm, do some exercises where you use a vibrator or cunnilingus to bring her very close to release. Tell her she must sit perfectly still while you pleasure her, and if she moves or makes any sound you will stop pleasuring her and she will earn a slap.
Tie her hands and put them over her head tied to the bedroom, smell, lick, soft kiss her down to her pussy, then move her bras/cloth up to her eyes so she cant see. Kiss her, then put a ice cube on her chest down to her belly, "do you like this" then immediately move her on her front and slap her ass, lift her ass up and fuck her while touching her head and back down.
Outside World:
Instruct your sub to stay behind you or by your side for the evening. Set aside some catch phrases for her to use to show she is honoring you such as, "As you wish" or "Thank you, kindly." Require her to be respectful to all men she encounters. She should call the mailman, "Sir" (but only after a long term relationship), and politely converse with the people around her. Please and Thank you aren’t just words she says in your home. She says them everywhere. And you thank her each time to succeeds your tasks, like for example, when she went gym, swimming, bowling with you, always thank her.
If she has trouble admitting she was wrong, have her purchase clothing that is by far the wrong size (obviously too small or too large) and then take it back to the store the next day to exchange it and apologize.
Thus, if she wants to be excused to leave the room, to her own flat for example, she should say to you, "Sir, this sub/slave asks to leave the room." When she returns she should say, "This sub/slave thanks you."
Remind her you went through that training to scrape away self-focus and make her stronger in her focus on service and pleasure.
Games:
Tell her exactly what will happen to her at a point in the near future then forbid her to mention it. See how this works?
If you really want to test her – roll a pair of dice in front of her, but don't let her see the number. That way each day she will wonder if that day is the day. Enforced chastity does not mean she will not be giving you sexual release(orgasm). She can still serve you sexually through oral or anal service, she just won't be getting any release of her own.
If she for example rolls 1 3 5, dont give her orgasm that day OR tease her by which number she got, for example number 3 would be by having her on her knee while hands are tied right and left and with a blindfold, you go to the balcony for a bit, then come back to her, only put 1 inch in her mouth for like 10 seconds then walk back to the balcony or whatever, and then get back with 2 inches, then repeat 1 inch then 3 etc etc tease her like crazy before shoving it all in but dont make her cum on that number, if she hits a 5, you do the same game but you make her cum.
Thanks for reading, if you have any questions just ask, im willing to add more knowledge into the list and make it bigger.
