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Went out to the bar yesterday, not my best session approaching wise, also did a gym approach. I’ll start with the gym approach.
Outfit of the night is a cream shirt, straight fitted black jeans, small thin gold chain, gold bracelet and 2 gold rings. Same venue as last time, one same friend and a different friend from our group, who imo gave a different set of problems.
I’m not gonna get into individual sets, because my game was mainly sloppy, tried running, compliance ladders to eventually kids the girl, while teasing her and doing mini deep dives. Problem is too many friends, cockblocks, etc, even if girl is interested, too many friends around her to deal with, chaos, etc.
Was talking to one girl on bar dance floor, she was interested and I spun her, one of her friends backed up into me, I(and my friend) though my she was possibly interested, she was not only cockblocking me, but elbowing me as well(a bit much imo but I didn’t rlly think about it).
Also don’t help that one of my friends is shy to talk to girls, the other one(new one) is extremely selfish with girls, e.x. this man would make me approach girls for him, when he saw a girl alone, he happily ditched us and went to talk to her.
Tbh I would’ve felt bad outright ditching my friends to just talk to a girl when they both wanted to meet girls, have to get rid of this feeling tho I am clearly the only one who feels this way.
All in all, couldn’t get anything concrete going tonight, dive bar game too unpredictable imo on a night to night basis, once I go on campus, might use bars as an extension of social circle game, meet girls around during day, and seduce at bars if unable to during the day.
Might also run more at home dates, cooking, cocktail making, etc., last semester of college so fuck it doesn’t rlly matter if I fail.
Anyone have any good recs for good nightgame venues, going up to girls in these packed dive bars doesn’t seem to be the best use of my energy, also I prefer clubbing(there are none around where I live).
Saw a very cute brunette(HB8) around the gym, no makeup, sexy clothing and everything, knew I had to at least approach her. Turns out at one point she was on the machine right next to me.
Asked her to film a video for me, for my gym channel(I can actually use the video as well, plus instant compliance), for some reason she asks if this is a prank where the video is on her face, I ask her why she asks that, then tease her about it, but it doesn’t land.
Start talking to her, basic fact finding about her, to see if there’s a topic that can land, as well as handclasp touch, turns out she graduated from my university. At one point, the convo dies down, mainly because she seemed like the shy and reserved type.
Old me would have let it go, but there was no clear signal that she didn’t want to talk to me, apart from her reservedness, and reading that Gen Z girls are more reserved and awkward as ever, I decided to persist.
Asked her her favorite bar, she said she doesn’t go out, I asked her to paint me a picture of her ideal Friday night, she mentioned hanging out with her bf(I back off from here), ask her a couple of questions about bf, and let the convo come to a more natural ends, she says nice to meet you, I wish her the same.
Asked her to film a video for me, for my gym channel(I can actually use the video as well, plus instant compliance), for some reason she asks if this is a prank where the video is on her face, I ask her why she asks that, then tease her about it, but it doesn’t land.
Start talking to her, basic fact finding about her, to see if there’s a topic that can land, as well as handclasp touch, turns out she graduated from my university. At one point, the convo dies down, mainly because she seemed like the shy and reserved type.
Old me would have let it go, but there was no clear signal that she didn’t want to talk to me, apart from her reservedness, and reading that Gen Z girls are more reserved and awkward as ever, I decided to persist.
Asked her her favorite bar, she said she doesn’t go out, I asked her to paint me a picture of her ideal Friday night, she mentioned hanging out with her bf(I back off from here), ask her a couple of questions about bf, and let the convo come to a more natural ends, she says nice to meet you, I wish her the same.
Outfit of the night is a cream shirt, straight fitted black jeans, small thin gold chain, gold bracelet and 2 gold rings. Same venue as last time, one same friend and a different friend from our group, who imo gave a different set of problems.
I’m not gonna get into individual sets, because my game was mainly sloppy, tried running, compliance ladders to eventually kids the girl, while teasing her and doing mini deep dives. Problem is too many friends, cockblocks, etc, even if girl is interested, too many friends around her to deal with, chaos, etc.
Was talking to one girl on bar dance floor, she was interested and I spun her, one of her friends backed up into me, I(and my friend) though my she was possibly interested, she was not only cockblocking me, but elbowing me as well(a bit much imo but I didn’t rlly think about it).
Also don’t help that one of my friends is shy to talk to girls, the other one(new one) is extremely selfish with girls, e.x. this man would make me approach girls for him, when he saw a girl alone, he happily ditched us and went to talk to her.
Tbh I would’ve felt bad outright ditching my friends to just talk to a girl when they both wanted to meet girls, have to get rid of this feeling tho I am clearly the only one who feels this way.
All in all, couldn’t get anything concrete going tonight, dive bar game too unpredictable imo on a night to night basis, once I go on campus, might use bars as an extension of social circle game, meet girls around during day, and seduce at bars if unable to during the day.
Might also run more at home dates, cooking, cocktail making, etc., last semester of college so fuck it doesn’t rlly matter if I fail.
Anyone have any good recs for good nightgame venues, going up to girls in these packed dive bars doesn’t seem to be the best use of my energy, also I prefer clubbing(there are none around where I live).
