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Hey guys
Been doing apps for the past 2 years and squeeze more results out.
This is the general advice and somewhat of a process of success I’ve noticed from general pattern analysis of chats. And how I think about the chats now.
Caveat - this is all assuming you are looking for the best quality and hottest chicks you can get.
otherwise if she’s below standard , or considering her just for a ONS - other ways can work of course.
I’ve noticed my success generally take the same process form as Mystery Method btw. So this is nothing new just thought I’d write it to solidify and share tips.
step 1 - DHV and set the right frames off the bat.
I think of this step as
Step 1.1 = ‘gaining her Respect’ firstly.
As that’s the goal for me. It means coming across as somewhat of , or a LOT of being a Dominant, Alpha, Boss Type of Guy.
Sub steps in this 1 this will include mainly Teasing, being somewhat ‘ Boss ‘and also indirect iois from me .that I like her LOOKS. Mixed in and fairly early in chat.
At this early stage I’m trying to establish she likes my Looks also,
So it’s a general frame of ‘ I like you , you like me and we should get together’
‘we have physical chemistry as a basis ‘
as I want to stay OUT of any sh1t frames such as ;
‘we have common interests/job talk/dog talk/ any talk at all that doesn’t raise buying temp in some fashion,’
the goal is -> get her on the date ASAP with minimal texting chat possible.’
step 2 - get the number!
this has usually to be done sooner than I used to think. Like.. as quick as you can get it.
so in a one liner the whole model that has worked the best so far is.
“I’m a Boss guy - give me your number ‘ more or less. But not direct in those words of course, all communication must be indirect and using framing ideas to give that perception
This gets me the farthest with the Quality ones so far
Hope that helps and I think it’s a good general succinct model for apps/ OLD.
to me now after mucho analysis of chats I’ll say this : almost every other frame a chick tries to get me to play into is akin to a ‘Sh1t Test’ / Hoop . That’s not useful to go near for me in the chat.
Her whole bio section of comments may even be a gigantic ST/ ‘ Hoop’ and I want to stay away from those topics and frames of that makes sense.
if she says it’s always 3 dates , dinner blah blah on the bio I also would recommend ignoring all of that.
And ignore any reference to the qualities she wants in a man. Again , beware it’s not good to qualify yourself into those frames .
that’s all done later , on the date in person face to face in my opinion.
thanks James
Been doing apps for the past 2 years and squeeze more results out.
This is the general advice and somewhat of a process of success I’ve noticed from general pattern analysis of chats. And how I think about the chats now.
Caveat - this is all assuming you are looking for the best quality and hottest chicks you can get.
otherwise if she’s below standard , or considering her just for a ONS - other ways can work of course.
I’ve noticed my success generally take the same process form as Mystery Method btw. So this is nothing new just thought I’d write it to solidify and share tips.
step 1 - DHV and set the right frames off the bat.
I think of this step as
Step 1.1 = ‘gaining her Respect’ firstly.
As that’s the goal for me. It means coming across as somewhat of , or a LOT of being a Dominant, Alpha, Boss Type of Guy.
Sub steps in this 1 this will include mainly Teasing, being somewhat ‘ Boss ‘and also indirect iois from me .that I like her LOOKS. Mixed in and fairly early in chat.
At this early stage I’m trying to establish she likes my Looks also,
So it’s a general frame of ‘ I like you , you like me and we should get together’
‘we have physical chemistry as a basis ‘
as I want to stay OUT of any sh1t frames such as ;
‘we have common interests/job talk/dog talk/ any talk at all that doesn’t raise buying temp in some fashion,’
the goal is -> get her on the date ASAP with minimal texting chat possible.’
step 2 - get the number!
this has usually to be done sooner than I used to think. Like.. as quick as you can get it.
so in a one liner the whole model that has worked the best so far is.
“I’m a Boss guy - give me your number ‘ more or less. But not direct in those words of course, all communication must be indirect and using framing ideas to give that perception
This gets me the farthest with the Quality ones so far
Hope that helps and I think it’s a good general succinct model for apps/ OLD.
to me now after mucho analysis of chats I’ll say this : almost every other frame a chick tries to get me to play into is akin to a ‘Sh1t Test’ / Hoop . That’s not useful to go near for me in the chat.
Her whole bio section of comments may even be a gigantic ST/ ‘ Hoop’ and I want to stay away from those topics and frames of that makes sense.
if she says it’s always 3 dates , dinner blah blah on the bio I also would recommend ignoring all of that.
And ignore any reference to the qualities she wants in a man. Again , beware it’s not good to qualify yourself into those frames .
that’s all done later , on the date in person face to face in my opinion.
thanks James
