Southern guys, any advice on how to get hot girls in Atlanta? Struggling here.

[Indian Race Troll (IRT)]

So after somewhat of a long battle with my company who has decided to reject my motion to move to NYC and instead wants to keep me in Atlanta for at least another 6 months, its final, I am going to be in this city for at least that time.

I have to say, I am pretty fucking lost in regards to getting hot girls here.

A while back when I asked, users told me to emulate what the guys here having success are doing but it seems like so many of these guys are not exactly following the stuff advised on this site. These aren't guys who are fit or even well dressed, I've seen these dudes wear collar shirt polos and khakis to bars. I get the impression that the kinds of guys who do well with hot girls in Atlanta are the kinds of guys who would struggle elsewhere but only do well in Atlanta because of something to this city' culture I am missing.

I usually see overweight white guys and ugly overweight black guys (a far cry from someone like Reggie Bush) getting hot girls at the bars in the area, makes no sense to me. At the same time I notice that guys who would be considered classically handsome in most other places aren't having as much luck here, especially if the guy is more on the sophisticated side.

All in all, this place feels like the bizarro world of dating.

I use Tinder Plus and played around with my location, got 50 likes in a period of a week in NYC, 30 in Chicago, 30 in Miami, and 50 in Austin. In Atlanta I got 3 and all 3 were overweight ugly women.

It's like there is something to the culture of this city that makes it into a bizarro world when it comes to getting hot girls, the guys I've seen get hot girls in other cities seem to struggle here while I get the feel like the guys who do well in this city can only do well in this city and not elsewhere.

Maybe I am wrong.

Anyone mind helping me out?

 

[Indian Race Troll (IRT)]

Re: Southern guys, any advice on how to get hot girls in Atlanta? Struggling her

any takers?

 

[andersen09]

Re: Southern guys, any advice on how to get hot girls in Atlanta? Struggling her

You have to describe more than general ideas. Write up specific situations, what type of people, clothing, what you say during conversations, how you approach, how you dress, etc. If you state specifics, I can help you better.

 

[Indian Race Troll (IRT)]

Re: Southern guys, any advice on how to get hot girls in Atlanta? Struggling her

^ he is no longer a user

guess that must have happened for a reason!

 

[Smurf]

Re: Southern guys, any advice on how to get hot girls in Atlanta? Struggling her

That did happen for a reason, but he does have a point here. What he posted would help in terms of figuring out where you are and how we can help to get you moving in the right direction.

How much are you going out now? What type of game do you usually do? Do you have friends in the city? This is all pretty vital information to start working on a solution.

Jake.

 

[Indian Race Troll (IRT)]

Re: Southern guys, any advice on how to get hot girls in Atlanta? Struggling her

That did happen for a reason, but he does have a point here. What he posted would help in terms of figuring out where you are and how we can help to get you moving in the right direction.

How much are you going out now? What type of game do you usually do? Do you have friends in the city? This is all pretty vital information to start working on a solution.

Jake.

1 or 2 times a week, I have a full time job.

I don't have any friends to rely on in the city, usually go out alone.

 

[Smurf]

Re: Southern guys, any advice on how to get hot girls in Atlanta? Struggling her

Okay. I'd say don't worry so much about other guys slacking on the fashion. Then you're in Rome, do aa the Romans do, but I find better results when you're somewhat polarizing in the way you dress anyways. You can be viewed as an outsider, but also as the interesting guy that's "not from here".

If you're doing day game that shouldn't be too much of an issue anyway because of the lack of social walls. If its night game then it might play a bigger role but not by much. If you can really only go out twice a week, try and go to the same place multiple times and get to know the regulars there and start forming a social circle from that. I'd play the "I'm new here and ignorant to the culture" and someone will probably take a liking to you and show you around and how things work in the area.

Of course you could just go balls out and just swing at whatever, but that takes a lot more social "stamina" when you don't have a peer group to work with. You'll learn really fast that way though, so each has its benefit.

Try going out and making a few loose connections and see how it works for you.

Jake.

 

[Indian Race Troll (IRT)]

Re: Southern guys, any advice on how to get hot girls in Atlanta? Struggling her

Already tried to chat with dudes at the bar, they seemed hostile from the get go and many of them just said to me "bro just go mack on some women and leave us alone". I think it is because Atlanta has such a big gay culture that the guys might be a bit standoffish. Quite a few guys try to AMOG me from the get go for the sake of picking a fight, its frustrating. Making friends here in the nightlife scene is rough and the friends I have made absolutely despise going out, drinking, and chasing women.

The guys at the bar do not seem to be down to making friends. I've tried to chat with the bartenders too but they seem overworked at the bars here which are busy.

I was hoping we have a resident Atlanta expert on this board who can tell me what is going on, no southern hospitality in the bar scene of this city whatsoever. Maybe someone who can give me the lowdown on what is going on with this city so I can better my approach towards things.

 

[Mr.Rob]

Re: Southern guys, any advice on how to get hot girls in Atlanta? Struggling her

I've daygamed in Atlanta (w/ OK results.. I was more a beginner back then so I'd imagine I'd probably do better these days) and other than that I've been out in ATL nightlife once. Went to some whack college bar scene in Buckhead... I don't like college bars to begin with but I've never seen so many overly intoxicated obnoxious people that couldn't handle themselves on alcohol that I've seen in my entire life. Haha. Nonetheless I met a girl I could've pulled but I had bad logistics and a friend with me and then my car got booted so that ended that prospect pretty fast.

Did have OK results at some ghetto/hipster bar combo in midtown, and pretty sure I could've found a girl into me and pulled if my logistics again weren't messed up.

I'm pretty sure RSD has a scene in ATL. Maybe hop on the RSD forum and Facebook group and go find a wing.

Other than that maybe just forget befriending dudes and go mack on their women... Or you could just forget the headache altogether and do daygame. ATL is diverse as can be (I've seen/met classy black women, hot Asian's, Russian's, preppy white girls, cute white girls with average lives wishing for adventure, etc.) so I guarantee you can find a girl to your liking somewhere in the daytime in that city, just might take some looking.

A good friend I met on the GC boards here used to live in ATL and he had great results and ended up meeting a long time girlfriend all with daygame.

-Rob

 

[Indian Race Troll (IRT)]

Re: Southern guys, any advice on how to get hot girls in Atlanta? Struggling her

It seems like the hottest girls, at least the type I am into (hot white girls), are all in the Buckhead scene area. I am finding that Atlanta is a very difficult city if you are not into black girls. It seems as if all race of women except black women here have a massive ego.

I've spent a lot of weeks, maybe even months, going out to Buckhead bars but it seems like all the girls there come in larger mixed groups of girls and guys who are likely fucking them.

If anyone has any idea on how to meet hot white girls in Atlanta that doesn't involve going to the Buckhead bar scene, I am all ears. I swear it is so much easier to find single hot white women in other big cities.

 

[Indian Race Troll (IRT)]

Re: Southern guys, any advice on how to get hot girls in Atlanta? Struggling her

No luck at all in this city, like wtf, this place is terrible for daygame and it seems like social circle is the only way to go here. Not sure why some dating experts recommended this fucking city.

 

[Mr.Rob]

Re: Southern guys, any advice on how to get hot girls in Atlanta? Struggling her

Did you even do anything I recommended from my former reply?

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I'm pretty sure RSD has a scene in ATL. Maybe hop on the RSD forum and Facebook group and go find a wing.

I guarantee you can find a girl to your liking somewhere in the daytime in that city, just might take some looking.

A good friend I met on the GC boards here used to live in ATL and he had great results and ended up meeting a long time girlfriend all with daygame.

What is your super special type of girl that you just doesn't exist in ATL again?

-Rob

 

[Indian Race Troll (IRT)]

Re: Southern guys, any advice on how to get hot girls in Atlanta? Struggling her

RSD does not seem to have that much of a presence in the city and tbh, I am finding it impossible to get anything other than black and Indian girls (which there seem to be a lot of) here. Not sure what it is about hot white girls in this city that makes them almost impossible to game.

 

[Mr.Rob]

Re: Southern guys, any advice on how to get hot girls in Atlanta? Struggling her

https://boards.girlschase.com/viewtopic.php?f=3&t=16214

 

[Indian Race Troll (IRT)]

Re: Southern guys, any advice on how to get hot girls in Atlanta? Struggling her

https://boards.girlschase.com/viewtopic.php?f=3&t=16214

I've looked over that thread many many times.

 

[BetaBoy]

Re: Southern guys, any advice on how to get hot girls in Atlanta? Struggling her

I wouldn’t pay those guys much mind. If you do better than them you’ll win eventually.

 

[Indian Race Troll (IRT)]

Re: Southern guys, any advice on how to get hot girls in Atlanta? Struggling her

I am familiar with the culture in Atlanta as I have relatives there I've stayed with.

Finding single attractive white women is tougher in Atlanta than other big cities as the city is mostly black and gets less and less white over the years with the Latino and Asian population growing fast. The big issue is, there just aren't enough white women to go around. If you want white girls, your go to spots for nightlife are going to be Buckhead and Virginia Highlands.

The scene in Buckhead is a continuation of college and a lot of people stick with people they spent their teenage and/or college years with, social circle game is huge and often mandatory if you want the better looking girls. You see a good deal of plain guys with hot girls because these guys likely had some status in their high school or college days and that usually carries over on to their 20s as many of the same people gather around that area. Virginia Highlands is a bit more hipster but the cliques are still very tight and hard to penetrate. People don't readily move past their college years in the city, even years after the fact it is all about what frat you were in and how popular you were in college.

Without social circle game, it is tough to get white girls in Atlanta as the culture is insular and shallow. People in the city are bigger on image than people anywhere else. If you aren't popular or perceived as higher status, people don't bother wasting time with you. The culture is also very macho and rowdy so a sophisticated worldly guy will struggle a lot, women tend to go for the rowdy frat boy or the tatted up thug.

Unfortunately, it is tough to build status in this city if you did not grow up around the people. People are closed off to meeting outsiders and it is always a smile in your face but not welcome you in type of deal. It is a waste of time trying to build status as most of it is based on where you played high school football at and what frat you were in during college.

Your best bet if you want white women is to keep approaching and the few times you come across one that is new to the city, try to escalate things with her. I will say that despite being a somewhat international city, the vast majority of the white girls you'll run into fit the mold of the former SEC sorority sister, it is tough to find much variation outside of that. Not much Euro women in the city to go after either.