Hi Gents and happy new year to all,
I've had a very successful past few months with girls in terms of getting laid regularly and also improving my game in general. Adopting a more methodical approach as well as moving fast with girls definitely improved my game. I have however recently come across a sticking point that I am struggling to get past. Here is an example:
I was out on the town the other night having a few drinks with friends when this girl I've been chatting to on Bumble for the past week, but yet to meet, messaged me to ask if I was out as well. So long story short, I met up with her, we had two drinks together when I asked her home and we had some seriously good sex together. Afterwards though I could sense that she had a bit of regret settling in and she made a quick exit from my place on the same night. In the interest of general concern for her safety, I asked her if she got home ok the next day, to which she replied and now she hasn't replied to any of my messages since. And it's not like I've been needy or anything, it was simply a question to see if she wanted to catch up again. I've since moved on from that as it's not really worth chasing something that's not really going to work, but a week later a similar scenario played out with another girl leaving on the same night and then going cold again. And this has happened to me in the past as well, I guess I didn't think much of it then because I wasn't getting laid as much as thoughts of every lay as 'getting lucky'.
So I'm interested to hear everyone's thoughts on this. Is there something you can do during the date or after the sex to make prevent the whole post first date sex regret settling in?
Thanks as always
I've had a very successful past few months with girls in terms of getting laid regularly and also improving my game in general. Adopting a more methodical approach as well as moving fast with girls definitely improved my game. I have however recently come across a sticking point that I am struggling to get past. Here is an example:
I was out on the town the other night having a few drinks with friends when this girl I've been chatting to on Bumble for the past week, but yet to meet, messaged me to ask if I was out as well. So long story short, I met up with her, we had two drinks together when I asked her home and we had some seriously good sex together. Afterwards though I could sense that she had a bit of regret settling in and she made a quick exit from my place on the same night. In the interest of general concern for her safety, I asked her if she got home ok the next day, to which she replied and now she hasn't replied to any of my messages since. And it's not like I've been needy or anything, it was simply a question to see if she wanted to catch up again. I've since moved on from that as it's not really worth chasing something that's not really going to work, but a week later a similar scenario played out with another girl leaving on the same night and then going cold again. And this has happened to me in the past as well, I guess I didn't think much of it then because I wasn't getting laid as much as thoughts of every lay as 'getting lucky'.
So I'm interested to hear everyone's thoughts on this. Is there something you can do during the date or after the sex to make prevent the whole post first date sex regret settling in?
Thanks as always
