- Joined
- Mar 27, 2023
- Messages
- 2,131
Sitting on a cafe couch having a morning coffee, typing on my phone, a woman sat down with her water on a perpendicular comfortable chair. Since the seating is segmented in several groups and she was in my vicinity with a shared coffee table, it was as if she was joining just close enough to make it natural to acknowledge me, like when someone takes a seat on a train facing toward you. She looked at me first, which I met and we exchanged hellos. This was unlike a man who had joined and left earlier, showing contrast of interest or general social openness - an approach invitation. I went back to typing and a girl brought her a dessert - an indulgence sign, given the hour.
As she swallowed her first bite, I asked - is that creme brulee? I then got her to critique it in detail as I teased out she had played a chef on TV and had also worked cooking in banquet food service. She's local and was in the area for a meeting, and only had half an hour. She asked about where I was from, which let me insert a clinch point saying how close I lived to where we were before expanding on her question, which she related back to with stories.
From there, her eyes were wide, and she worked herself into an excited emotional state speaking of her frequent travels - an impulsivity sign - including being asked for papers after staying at the Geneva airport and frequenting France for days, having no idea that she was in another country. From here, I learned she is in the executive leadership for the US branch of a global organization with a pro-social mission, which allowed for some attitude similarity throughout the active listening. I briefly qualified her on adventurousness and maintained strong eye contact throughout, while expanding and relaxing my body language on the couch. She showed signs in her face like slight smiles that I was silently communicating sexual interest in her beyond the deep dive with my maintenance of eye contact throughout her lingering pauses. She was speaking so rapidly and on a time constraint that prevented her settling into a slower pace that could have developed into sensuality. Chase frames could have also worked well.
As her deadline neared after about 20 minutes, she proposed that we exchange numbers and looked for her card, then extended a screen on her phone with contact details. She then got up from her chair and sat down next to me on the couch so I could take her number. Here, our voices dropped much quieter. It was a brief sensual feeling, then the staff asked if I was done with my coffee mug. Here, she got up, which I interpreted as her snapping out of the bubble, and even state control or discretion, as she got up to throw something out, which made no sense as there was a girl clearing the table in that moment.
She passed by the seating area and said if I was there when she returned she would come back and say hello. I said I would be gone by then, and would text her. She nodded with a smile.
***
Here I potentially blew it early by overcompensating for lack of in-person sexual frame with this icebreaker. I am unsure if the commonality disconnect regarding traveling would cause instant attitude dissimilarity before establishing it on a deeper level. I am curious how she'll interpret it without in-person tone and delivery, or if she will even respond. Maybe I am underestimating the ambiguity.
Me: Hello [her name], I hope your [redacted] goes well today. I've yet to adventure overseas, so it's stimulating to hear your stories.
-Francis
***
Other mishandled events include a missed text from a girl laid once so far, asking me to attend her friend's concert with her that evening, after I failed to confirm a day or two before when she gave me three options to come over this upcoming week. There were two others omitted here - one good and one bad - without much more to say.
Another was in canceling plans. I was going to take her out for the first ever time in years since taking her virginity for the food of her ethnicity, which was apparently being served at a venue I wanted to scout for returning to. I discovered their schedule had shifted after contacting the establishment. She counter proposed an option way outside the city, and sent texts such as "I thought you're going to drive and pay", "you're driving", "you gave me the idea, it's your fault", a few instances of "please" after I said she's being rude, and "you're making it complicated that's why you got lots of white hair". I'd rather sleep than sprout a third grey hair tonight, so simply told her to stay home.
***
This weekend, I took my star-crossed lover on a 10+ bounce date, including errands like the post office and various parks on a route to the beach. I bent her over a fallen tree on a nature trail, which I then discovered had always been a fantasy of hers. She has started cumming noticeably more often and quickly. She packed japchae for our trip, including perfectly cooked pieces of filet mignon.
The next day, we happened upon a moment of fate, as she termed it. She got to practice her language skills with a couple people, and an artist signed our names on his depiction of Jeju Island (shoutout to @lao che).
As she swallowed her first bite, I asked - is that creme brulee? I then got her to critique it in detail as I teased out she had played a chef on TV and had also worked cooking in banquet food service. She's local and was in the area for a meeting, and only had half an hour. She asked about where I was from, which let me insert a clinch point saying how close I lived to where we were before expanding on her question, which she related back to with stories.
From there, her eyes were wide, and she worked herself into an excited emotional state speaking of her frequent travels - an impulsivity sign - including being asked for papers after staying at the Geneva airport and frequenting France for days, having no idea that she was in another country. From here, I learned she is in the executive leadership for the US branch of a global organization with a pro-social mission, which allowed for some attitude similarity throughout the active listening. I briefly qualified her on adventurousness and maintained strong eye contact throughout, while expanding and relaxing my body language on the couch. She showed signs in her face like slight smiles that I was silently communicating sexual interest in her beyond the deep dive with my maintenance of eye contact throughout her lingering pauses. She was speaking so rapidly and on a time constraint that prevented her settling into a slower pace that could have developed into sensuality. Chase frames could have also worked well.
As her deadline neared after about 20 minutes, she proposed that we exchange numbers and looked for her card, then extended a screen on her phone with contact details. She then got up from her chair and sat down next to me on the couch so I could take her number. Here, our voices dropped much quieter. It was a brief sensual feeling, then the staff asked if I was done with my coffee mug. Here, she got up, which I interpreted as her snapping out of the bubble, and even state control or discretion, as she got up to throw something out, which made no sense as there was a girl clearing the table in that moment.
She passed by the seating area and said if I was there when she returned she would come back and say hello. I said I would be gone by then, and would text her. She nodded with a smile.
***
Here I potentially blew it early by overcompensating for lack of in-person sexual frame with this icebreaker. I am unsure if the commonality disconnect regarding traveling would cause instant attitude dissimilarity before establishing it on a deeper level. I am curious how she'll interpret it without in-person tone and delivery, or if she will even respond. Maybe I am underestimating the ambiguity.
Me: Hello [her name], I hope your [redacted] goes well today. I've yet to adventure overseas, so it's stimulating to hear your stories.
-Francis
***
Other mishandled events include a missed text from a girl laid once so far, asking me to attend her friend's concert with her that evening, after I failed to confirm a day or two before when she gave me three options to come over this upcoming week. There were two others omitted here - one good and one bad - without much more to say.
Another was in canceling plans. I was going to take her out for the first ever time in years since taking her virginity for the food of her ethnicity, which was apparently being served at a venue I wanted to scout for returning to. I discovered their schedule had shifted after contacting the establishment. She counter proposed an option way outside the city, and sent texts such as "I thought you're going to drive and pay", "you're driving", "you gave me the idea, it's your fault", a few instances of "please" after I said she's being rude, and "you're making it complicated that's why you got lots of white hair". I'd rather sleep than sprout a third grey hair tonight, so simply told her to stay home.
***
This weekend, I took my star-crossed lover on a 10+ bounce date, including errands like the post office and various parks on a route to the beach. I bent her over a fallen tree on a nature trail, which I then discovered had always been a fantasy of hers. She has started cumming noticeably more often and quickly. She packed japchae for our trip, including perfectly cooked pieces of filet mignon.
The next day, we happened upon a moment of fate, as she termed it. She got to practice her language skills with a couple people, and an artist signed our names on his depiction of Jeju Island (shoutout to @lao che).
