Super Horny, But has Boyfriend

[Mike&Ikes]

Hey Guys,
So there’s this girl in my class who is flirting a lot with me in class, so heavily and openly in fact, that most guys have noticed it too (she’s only flirting with me). She sits by me when she gets the chance, touches me, and randomly talks about very dirty subjects. Well typically I would know where to go from here, but problem is, she’s got a boyfriend. And from what I’ve heard, a pretty douchey one (i.e. not a nice guy, i.e. could kick my butt). To make things complicated, this is a school setting, so word gets around pretty fast if you do the deed (at least in a small school like this).

Question is, how would one proceed from this point?

Thanks guys
-Micah

P.S. This happened right before winter break, so I imagine her horniness will have dissipated greatly by the time classes start back up, so I’m just curious how I would have done things.

 

[Ambiance]

Hey MikeandIkes,

Definitely go for it! Honestly, a good rule of thumb is to straight up not even worry about boyfriends with younger girls. They will still get with you.

You may have missed an escalation window with this girl, yes, but perhaps not, and assuming you still have the same class with her, or even see her around school, you can definitely make something happen.

Do you have her number? If so are you texting her? If no to both, wait until next semester and whenever you end up talking and flirting, get her number. I'd frame it that you wanna do homework together. Then text her a bit and figure out how to get her to meet with you. Give her all the excuses in the world. It helps if you have a hard project or have a quiz coming up.

If you get this far and she comes over to your house or something for "homework", start doing some with her and talk to her and get off topic, then get a little sexual and start touching her. Eventually kiss her, counter any objections about how she has a boyfriend or that its too soon or whatever, and sleep with her.

You do all that and you will be WAY ahead of the vast majority of guys in high school (I'm assuming you're in HS)

Lmk if u have any questions!

Ambiance

PS love ur profile pic, Indy is the man

 

[Mike&Ikes]

Hey MikeandIkes,

Definitely go for it! Honestly, a good rule of thumb is to straight up not even worry about boyfriends with younger girls. They will still get with you.

You may have missed an escalation window with this girl, yes, but perhaps not, and assuming you still have the same class with her, or even see her around school, you can definitely make something happen.

Do you have her number? If so are you texting her? If no to both, wait until next semester and whenever you end up talking and flirting, get her number. I'd frame it that you wanna do homework together. Then text her a bit and figure out how to get her to meet with you. Give her all the excuses in the world. It helps if you have a hard project or have a quiz coming up.

If you get this far and she comes over to your house or something for "homework", start doing some with her and talk to her and get off topic, then get a little sexual and start touching her. Eventually kiss her, counter any objections about how she has a boyfriend or that its too soon or whatever, and sleep with her.

You do all that and you will be WAY ahead of the vast majority of guys in high school (I'm assuming you're in HS)

Lmk if u have any questions!

Ambiance

PS love ur profile pic, Indy is the man

Hey thanks for the detailed response man, now I can rest easy about the boyfriend. To be honest I just didn’t want to start drama, or worse get beat up haha

Thanks again

Micah

 

[Michal]

Hey MikeandIkes,

Definitely go for it! Honestly, a good rule of thumb is to straight up not even worry about boyfriends with younger girls. They will still get with you.

You may have missed an escalation window with this girl, yes, but perhaps not, and assuming you still have the same class with her, or even see her around school, you can definitely make something happen.

Do you have her number? If so are you texting her? If no to both, wait until next semester and whenever you end up talking and flirting, get her number. I'd frame it that you wanna do homework together. Then text her a bit and figure out how to get her to meet with you. Give her all the excuses in the world. It helps if you have a hard project or have a quiz coming up.

If you get this far and she comes over to your house or something for "homework", start doing some with her and talk to her and get off topic, then get a little sexual and start touching her. Eventually kiss her, counter any objections about how she has a boyfriend or that its too soon or whatever, and sleep with her.

You do all that and you will be WAY ahead of the vast majority of guys in high school (I'm assuming you're in HS)

Lmk if u have any questions!

Ambiance

PS love ur profile pic, Indy is the man

Hey thanks for the detailed response man, now I can rest easy about the boyfriend. To be honest I just didn’t want to start drama, or worse get beat up haha

Thanks again

Micah

I think Mike&lkes is mostly worried about situations where he would isolate, escalete on her and she would push him away, ran off to her boyfriend telling him how Mike&lkes was hiting on her and tried to kiss her and the guy would get pissed off and attack him. That is why these situations are tricky because you dont know what kind of a girl she is. Some might be ashamed to be alone with a guy while having a boyfriend therefore not telling him anything. But from my experience .. women talk. And the young ones will tell it in ways which do not implicate them in any way.