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Francis

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Checked out at a high end grocery market and chose the cute cashier. Couldn't help but eye her butt while she checked out another woman. Commented to the lady like oh you're making a good dinner tonight, since it was like $60 of short ribs and a few spices. She didn't answer and then it became apparent that it was for a door dash order.

The other cashier asked if I wanted to go to her side and I said oh it's all good... seems like they're almost done... And I'm just enjoying my donut (it was a sample cup). My cashier physically doubled over a little in a silent chuckle. She thanked me for my patience and then started scanning my items (hot bar weighed BBQ).

When she got to my baby food pouches, I said that these are pretty good. They are for me, not a baby. She started laughing and said I'm never sure about people's sarcasm. I said I'm serious, they're really good. She smiled and said she'll check them out, and looked at the package. I said the fruity ones are tastier but it's a good way to get some greens. A little expensive but I've tried a few brands and these are the best.

She said she likes baby food too and whispered Trader Joe's is really good. I said you sound like you're cheating on your store. Are you not allowed to talk about the competition. She laughed and said something about the coworker. She asked if I had a number with them and gave me a card for their points. I said wow you guys have an app that's pretty advanced.

I was about to ask if she could throw my donut sample cup out for me, but as I slightly moved my hand with it, she offered to take it for me. I brushed my fingers all along hers as she took it.

She cashed me out and then I asked her if she had a pen. I said quietly to her do you want to meet and exchange baby food sometime. (Not baby food ideas... It just came out literally like that). She smiled and said sure. I said we can go get some and wrote my number on the receipt.

She said she's never met another adult who also eats these before.

She asked my name and I wrote it. Then she took the pen and wrote hers down for me. She was smiling the entire interaction and I was aroused for almost as long. I said talk to you later and walked out the store.



Me: Thanks for dinner, [her name]! I hope yours was just as tasty after getting off tonight.
-Francis

Her: You're welcome Francis, hehe anytime [blushing smile emoji]
It was definitely very tasty after getting off !
~[her name]

Me: Do you normally work evenings? We should taste test some baby food soon, or maybe meet for dessert.

Her: Yes I normally work evenings. Hehe I think we gotta, I still need to try those yummy pouches that you got [blushing smile emoji]. Dessert also sounds great to me as well

Me: Ok if you want to do everything with me, where do you live around? I'm in [area]. Got a couple ideas
If you want to come I was thinking bring a pouch from trader joe's, let's meet at and scout whole foods, and then I know a couple spots where we can have a chat

Her: I live in [store neighborhood] so unfortunately not much going on here other than TJs and [her store] [sweat laugh emoji]. [my area] is definitely much cooler imo!
That sounds like a great plan to me [blushing smile emoji] ! I'll definitely have to grab a few of TJs best then! Plus I haven't been to Whole Foods in ages haha!

Me: Yeah forget [her store]. They sold me two week expired cream cheese! Ok come on by this way then. That is sweet of you to grab a few. I trust your expertise.
Let me know what your schedule is looking like? I see someone is quite a night owl

Her: Oh my gosh really?? I'm so sorry we did that to you (!
Hehe that sounds like a plan to me, I will say I'm definitely a connoisseur in their applesauce/pouches too!
Haha yeah I'm definitely a night owl lol [sweat laugh emoji]. I work till [time] this whole weekend and as I'm a night owl I don't mind being up late lol. What's your schedule looking like this weekend/next week?

Me: I think they were too focused on fraternizing with the customers. I will do my best to trust again I'm weekdays til ~[time] so next week works. Or tomorrow night
If you're saying you're ok with when dessert is closed, I've got a couple ice cream cups. Whole foods is open until 10

Her: Oh shoot well I'm sorry that happened to ya , cause when I'm working I try to be efficient yet nice as possible!! You'll just have to come when I'm working then .
Ooh nice nice, I am working till [time] tomorrow however I'm off on Monday if that sounds better. That way we could grab dessert cause I definitely have a big sweet tooth lol

Me: It's all good. I should have checked the date but was distracted by my donut among other things. Sounds like you like to work hard. Yes let's savor the dessert.
I'll be working from home Monday so that sounds great. I already ate part of your ice cream. There's always options. I'll think of a few things. Maybe meet 6pm?

Her: Well I'm still sorry that happened to ya (. If you come down my line next time I can definitely make up for it hehe. Cause I do like working hard [sunglasses emoji]! Awesome I'm glad we agree on dessert cause we should indulge haha!
Perfect so Monday it is then !! Hehe we gotta get dessert then , cause I can definitely eat my weight in ice cream [sweat laugh emoji]. 6pm sounds like a good time to me as well!

Me: Alright, we're on. I can't get over how sweet you are. Must be the ice cream diet. Don't forget... vegetables come first before getting to indulge.

Her: Awesome :). Hehe I'm glad you can't, now I know the ice cream diet is working ;). I wont forget, I'll make sure to eat my vegetables first...

Me: Very good to hear, [her name]... Have a good last shift. Keep an eye on those dairy dates and I'll give you a shout ahead tomorrow.

Her: Thank you, it was a nice and busy last shift to round out the weekend, I made sure to stay up on the dairy dates, so no spoiled ice creams tonight 😎. Sounds like a plan Stan!

Me: If all you bring is fruit I will at least make you eat something with some sweet potato. Let's decide on the fly, but ideas include:
- McDonalds split fries in a booth
- Italian restaurant cannoli
- Double straw float or slice of cake

Her: Haha I don't mind a lil sweet potato! Definitely gonna bring those fruit pouches though. Also shoot all those ideas sound great to me :)! How about you pick one and surprise me cause they do sound all fun hehe!

Me: Excellent choice. [logistics]
See if you can find me in the aisle. Enjoy the drive and I'll see you at 6

[A little more logistics]



She met me in Whole Foods and we walked around getting to know her a bit. Reached the baby food aisle. Checked out. Within a few minutes we left my car and took hers to a spot a block from my place. Before we went in, I said she had to eat her vegetables first, and fed her a few sips of a baby food pouch as she sucked on it like a straw.

Inside we sat on the same side of a booth. It was mostly deep diving with some light teasing, which she always laughed at, and every once in a while a hand on her leg. The manager got a little annoyed with us, but our gay waiter loved us. He said he loved our vibe and we hadn't looked at the menu yet maybe four times while talking.

We had a root beer float and shared it with two straws. When she went to the bathroom near the end I paid the bill. He said that there was a recent planetary alignment and he didn't get to see it, but had a dream about it. He felt that we came in as part of the celestial energy. I told her that he said this as we left outside. On the sidewalk I said I had another ice cream cup left and suggested we split it. She agreed and we walked to my apartment. Sex and relationships were not a conversational topic, and these frames were all set through texting ahead. It was very comfortable conversation with a little of her asking about me, but mostly focused on her with our legs touching for a lot of it.

Inside we sat down and she was very comfortable sitting close. We chatted a little and settled in. I got the ice cream and took a bite, then fed her with the spoon and kissed. We did that a couple times and made out, and then moved onto the bed. She recently turned 25, was a straight A student, and has a very petite body. I poured some melted ice cream on her nipples. She told me when I touched her fingers at the checkout that it turned her on. After sex we cuddled and got to know her more.

She's fully white and speaks fluent Chinese. I asked her to say something dirty and she said something about tasting my skin. I had her get the melted ice cream and pour it on my cock, then suck it off while repeating the Chinese phrase while it was in her mouth. I'll probably phase out such personal details in lay reports, but it's to say day game's amazing. If anyone knows a legit English teaching avenue in China, please let me know. Apparently there's a lot of scams. She drove us back to my car and gave me a baby food pouch that she brought.



Her: I just got home safely, thank you for tonight Francis for making sure I eat my vegetables and the sweet treats hehe 😉🍦[wink emoji and ice cream emoji]. I hope you got back safely too!
 

Francis

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Additional notes: the texting was spaced several hours apart. It was typically only two texts and responses per day until the end for logistics. High efficiency effort to results ratio, always focused on moving forward.

On the date I did say "you like to indulge" in reference to the root beer float, which was a callback to our texting innuendo. She gave a knowing glance and said yes, which sub-communicates comfort with being pulled.

There was one other sexual implication I remembered. We were talking about a research study that involves low level electrical brain stimulation. She said she always thought it would be cool to be hooked up to machines for something. To me this sounds like a similar feeling to bondage.

I asked if she was abducted by aliens if she'd enjoy being probed. She laughed and said she was picturing Roger from the cartoon American Dad. I said what if they were sexy aliens. She laughed and I cut the thread.
 

Francis

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Investor, Justifier, Realist (modern woman)
 

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Awesome report man!

Inside we sat on the same side of a booth.
Underrated but super powerful. Helps the intimate vibe by a lot.

got the ice cream and took a bite, then fed her with the spoon and kissed.
This gotta be one of the smoothest kiss transitions.

She told me when I touched her fingers at the checkout that it turned her on
It's often these subtle things that turn women on, things we might not even realize. A glance, a smile, a touch on her fingers, the way we say certain words...

I find it very interesting. I always ask women what turned them on about me and I'm often surprised by how subtle and seemingly insignificant it seems to me.

had her get the melted ice cream and pour it on my cock, then suck it off while repeating the Chinese phrase while it was in her mouth. I'll probably phase out such personal details in lay reports, but it's to say day game's amazing
Damn that's awesome!

And yessir, day game is amazing!
 

Francis

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Awesome report man!


Underrated but super powerful. Helps the intimate vibe by a lot.


This gotta be one of the smoothest kiss transitions.


It's often these subtle things that turn women on, things we might not even realize. A glance, a smile, a touch on her fingers, the way we say certain words...

I find it very interesting. I always ask women what turned them on about me and I'm often surprised by how subtle and seemingly insignificant it seems to me.


Damn that's awesome!

And yessir, day game is amazing!
Thanks James! Always cool to see what stuff stands out to others in reports. All great points
 

Francis

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Retention update. Will end the texting here. It wouldn't be fair to her to post through a full lock in arc. I hope this has helped someone to observe what can happen.

A 10 approach challenge turned to 2 lays on adjacent days. What a gem.

***

Me: Thank you sweetheart. Have a great sleep [her name]. No more root beer... Let me know how the plum tastes when you're hungry for it.

Her: I hope you get a good nights rest too Francis :). And yeah definitely no more root beer for my tummy.... Will do! I'll probably have it tomorrow for lunch hehe

[Waited an entire day of silence since we capped off well that night, to give her space un-chased, to give her an opportunity to chase with the baby food excuse despite knowing she would likely be too passive despite investment level... and finally as a ping to feel out how she's feeling about it after letting everything sink in. No remorse detected.

Me: Thanks for breakfast [her name]. Hope you got to enjoy that hot and gooey grilled cheese too. In the shower this morning something popped into my head...

Honestly I was so excited to remember it... Thought you might enjoy...


Her: Hehe you're welcome Francis. Thank you in advance for my lunch today too, it won't be as good as when you were feeding it to me though ;). I didn't make that grilled cheese but dangg now I gotta cause you made it sound 👌🏻👌🏻[two ok emojis]

Also omggg that song is amazing and funny!! How have I never heard this before 😂 [crying laughing], plus it's from 88rising. I'm definitely gonna incorporate this into my playlists :))

***

Well folks... Remember it's possible to improve yourself. Just gotta take a risk sometimes:

 

Francis

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Correction: Idealist. She just left. It was a very, very long kissing goodbye, likely forever.

I think I'm reaching the point where I need to be less ambiguous and move to a ONS model or similar.

even in A1. My opener hints that I date casually, seeing someone but not serious with her. Then in A2 I start framing for sexual fracture, in A3 I start framing against jealousy and so forth.

I was able to open a group of three girls in a restaurant after overhearing one taught English in Asia. Apparently it's the certifications that can be scams. I got the school name to pass on and hope that it changes her life.

This one hurt.
 

Francis

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For posterity's sake...

See "Background" section:


Anchor rewiring:

 

Francis

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Retention update: Korean food is in our future.
 

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Retention update: Given her passive nature, I had a feeling that she would only wait for me to take the lead, regardless of her interest level. So I sent a real world ping.

Her: Hey, did you leave me a doggie bag surprise on my car door yesterday at [her work]?

Me: It's a produce bag. Yeah I told you I'd get the flavor when I saw it, and not scare the shit out of you inside. Please eat the greens first.

[Two days later...]

Me: [Photo of Korean menu... Our skipped plan last time]

Me: I'm stopping short of sending Yes or Yes by Twice.

[Note the emotional contagion in the video, starting with neutral faces and moving to slow, spreading smiles, erupting into dance...


From here, I will redact most of the messages and include certain phrases only. She sent three lengthy messages].

Her: [...] it gave me a good smile [...] I'm still figuring out what's healthy or not for me to be honest.

[When she left, she proposed meeting for coffee at some point. In that moment I countered spicy Korean food. That had been our innuendo... A spicy night, progressing from the "sweet" innuendo from the first time. In texting, she made a reference to Korean food and discarded her coffee idea.]

Me: Now I have a better picture of how you dance [...] I wanted to have the whole complete picture.

Her: [...] shirt sometime so you can see the whole frame. [Referencing the visualization and subtext her mental frame] And I apologize for my blunt words that evening. I've taken some time to self reflect and start discovering what stability looks like for me.

[Note I said nothing to prompt that apology. It felt like she had been sitting with regret. She accepted a soft close to eat, then added a description involving steam. From here we engaged in long texting that consistently incorporated planning together, sexual innuendo, more descriptions involving steam clearing things up, body language, hypothesis testing, and relating everything to her emotions and framing the interaction.]

Her: I also just want to test out allowing myself to enjoy and relish in the present moment [...] knock your paper out of the park! [...] I hope you ace that paper and ease back into the work week Francis

[...]

Me: Enjoy the time you've got off [see original icebreaker]

Her: I'm gonna soak all the time in.

[...]

Snippets:

Her: It is refreshing and relieving to talk about emotions and human nature

Her: I can meet you as soon as you get back from the office.

Her: That sounds like a great plan to me [involves going upstairs]

Her: I'm looking forward to our steamy [...]

^ Again, that's all very redacted out of respect for her, while showcasing her linguistic ability you can tap into with intelligent girls who enjoy playing with language.

It is also to show that despite her leaving abruptly, this is where she was at emotionally after a cycle of no contact.

So I would encourage you all to take the lead with girls who may need you to make the first vulnerable move.

She may thank you for it and boil over in pent up emotion, like steam.


Ice cream... Spicy food... >10 year gap... Plausible enough excuse for some Ice Spice.
 

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Before I read - what is the sex of the person in question?
 
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Francis

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Chatted with a girl in the elevator who was cooking with a friend and told her I was going to eat outside with a friend on a blanket. This same girl had seen me with another girl at the front door a few days ago.

She arrived and came up to use the washroom, then sat for a bit and relaxed. Our conversation the whole night was mostly as if nothing had ever happened. She was only slightly reserved at this point.

After two minutes or so, we went back down and sat in the restaurant on the same side pressed together, then I narrowed the options down and chose something she can cook so we can compare her spin on it.

We then went upstairs to grab a blanket and fucked with our shoes on. Dress pants and sundress. She spoke some Korean this time, repeatedly until well enunciated. Again, she said I felt perfect.

She left her panties upstairs and we sat on the grass under blossoming trees on a perfect weather day. The two girls from above came down and laid out a blanket not far from us. She kissed me several times as we conversed over dinner. At one point I put my finger in her.

After eating, we went upstairs again for extended dessert, including a frozen milkshake from my freezer that I fed her with a spoon. She had brought it last time with the broccoli I had her get on the way.

We spent five hours together overall tonight. She said she had never felt so comfortable with someone to go outside without wearing panties.

Incredible cuddle.

It was wonderful.

She was very well hydrated and I used orgasm anchoring for this and eating vegetables before dessert.


Her coworker had taken the baby food from her. I was forbidden fruit.

For good reason!

I will aim to avoid hurting her.

She wore heart earrings and has the power to hurt me too, as has been seen above.

 

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I just noticed you're consistent LRs recently, you're crashing it! 🔥
 

Francis

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I just noticed you're consistent LRs recently, you're crashing it! 🔥
hey thanks Swati. I like reading your stuff - really cool to see your nighttime escapades... even the frustrating stuff like the skateboard story lol

short retention update at the end here:

 

Francis

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Four month update:

She got a professional job and spent well over half a day's wages on dinner for us. Also still cooking.

Will leave it at that.

(y)
 

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Edit in case she ever reads this: it is not about the utility... The investment is simply a verified indicator of continued attraction and the only thing to share that isn't overly personal.



Oh and there was one instance worth mentioning:

Me: Wow I had three of your hairs stuck in my beard.

Her: Are you sure they're all mine?

^ End of interaction. Closest thing to drama or any sort of relationship talk.

🫰
 

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Edit in case she ever reads this: it is not about the utility... The investment is simply a verified indicator of continued attraction and the only thing to share that isn't overly personal.



Oh and there was one instance worth mentioning:

Me: Wow I had three of your hairs stuck in my beard.

Her: Are you sure they're all mine?

^ End of interaction. Closest thing to drama or any sort of relationship talk.

🫰
Dude I got women suck my dick and in the process find other women hair .. anyways man 4 month women on best behavior...
 
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