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The subject of this topic is pretty much what it seems like, but I know many have a different opinion (I'll be asking for the communities opinions on another subject later in another post) on this. I honestly side with the saying "don't shit where you eat" although this time I'm not entirely sure to apply the saying here or not. I know, it's usually pretty straight forward but let me give ya some context:
I'm currently in a school which has very tight social circles (so I rarely run game their now a days) but this school has actually given me an assignment in which I had to interview someone from a different culture about well, their culture. And so when I told my parents about this (since they usually know people from all over yonder) I would find to my surprise, our neighbors just across the street have a girl of my age (18) from Vietnam staying with them (and apparently has been for a year now).
Although I'm not entirely sure how much longer she'll be staying. So we texted them and she agreed to an interview and so I went over to just do my thing and get it done. Upon meeting her, I found she speaks English really well and is pretty attractive in my opinion. We ended up getting through all the questions (which for an assigned project, where pretty personal. As in about culture and family but sorta like deep diving) We talked for a little afterward for about like five or ten minutes before I said my goodbyes and got up to go. But just as I was leaving I heard her talking about how she wanted a dog (guiding me out pretty slowly) so I mentioned I have two and she should come and see them (we've been told their adorable repeatedly and our neighbors know of them already) and then the neighbors also mentioned how we have a lot of awesome paintings in our place and also suggested how she should go see them.
I started to get a little dazed and confused here, as I had only a few hours of rest and was starting to doze off but all I know is that she didn't make any plans to come over but seemed like she wouldn't be opposed to scheduling something out. So instead of scheduling something like how I should've, I came home and made myself a cup of coffee just about half an hour ago and started wondering if this would really be a good idea. (I'm leaning a little more towards no go, but if I had an definite answer I wouldn't be here typing this up right now.)
So what's your take on this one guys? Would you go for it and call it a grey area to the rule or would you say no shitting where you eat still applies here? (and yes, I realize this could also be typed out as a field report but this is a post asking for the readers opinion on the situation and there was no sexual goal during this approach it was purely for my homework XD ,I'm asking if this girl should be considered someone I could add to my abundance mentality or potentially have a sexual relation of any sort with without it being a bad idea).
I'm currently in a school which has very tight social circles (so I rarely run game their now a days) but this school has actually given me an assignment in which I had to interview someone from a different culture about well, their culture. And so when I told my parents about this (since they usually know people from all over yonder) I would find to my surprise, our neighbors just across the street have a girl of my age (18) from Vietnam staying with them (and apparently has been for a year now).
Although I'm not entirely sure how much longer she'll be staying. So we texted them and she agreed to an interview and so I went over to just do my thing and get it done. Upon meeting her, I found she speaks English really well and is pretty attractive in my opinion. We ended up getting through all the questions (which for an assigned project, where pretty personal. As in about culture and family but sorta like deep diving) We talked for a little afterward for about like five or ten minutes before I said my goodbyes and got up to go. But just as I was leaving I heard her talking about how she wanted a dog (guiding me out pretty slowly) so I mentioned I have two and she should come and see them (we've been told their adorable repeatedly and our neighbors know of them already) and then the neighbors also mentioned how we have a lot of awesome paintings in our place and also suggested how she should go see them.
I started to get a little dazed and confused here, as I had only a few hours of rest and was starting to doze off but all I know is that she didn't make any plans to come over but seemed like she wouldn't be opposed to scheduling something out. So instead of scheduling something like how I should've, I came home and made myself a cup of coffee just about half an hour ago and started wondering if this would really be a good idea. (I'm leaning a little more towards no go, but if I had an definite answer I wouldn't be here typing this up right now.)
So what's your take on this one guys? Would you go for it and call it a grey area to the rule or would you say no shitting where you eat still applies here? (and yes, I realize this could also be typed out as a field report but this is a post asking for the readers opinion on the situation and there was no sexual goal during this approach it was purely for my homework XD ,I'm asking if this girl should be considered someone I could add to my abundance mentality or potentially have a sexual relation of any sort with without it being a bad idea).
