The men in a girl's life

[LoneWolf14]

So there's this article in which Chase talks about not caring about other men in a girl's life.

So for this post I will focus on the situation in which a girl you want to approach already has a crush already. Chase says and I've sort of seen it with my own eyes that if she's attracted to you and you do the right thing she will get over her crush and start liking you more and more. Is this actually true? If a guy is hung up on a girl, not even freaking Rihanna or Kylie Jenner could make him move on from that one special girl. Yet I've heard of a case (don't know much about it so that's why I'm not sure) in which a girl developed a crush on a guy who was showing her interest, hoping that he would make her get over an older crush that was rejecting her.

Is it different for girls? Does this shit actually happen? And if so, can you share any such stories? As a guy who has been hung up on girls in the past, I find it hard to believe.

 

[foggy]

girls are always looking to upgrade. remember that.

if a girl is into a guy with shitty fundamentals, and all of a sudden you (a smooth guy with amazing fundamentals) come up to her and start working some magic, the other guy stands no chance.

 

[LoneWolf14]

I know. However, I'm talking about the situation in which a girl has a crush on guy who is not interested in her so she can't have him and she wants him even more. What about that case?

 

[foggy]

I know. However, I'm talking about the situation in which a girl has a crush on guy who is not interested in her so she can't have him and she wants him even more. What about that case?

In that case, it all comes down to attainability. Do you agree?

 

[LoneWolf14]

What do you mean? The guy she's having a crush on is definitely unattainable.

I suppose that the guy who's trying to make a move on her has to be attainable and I guess she's gonna be less forgiving if this new guy is unattainable or has low attainability since it reminds her of the first guy who is rejecting her.

My question is the following though: is she going to give a chance to other guys if she's hung up on one dude? It doesn't seem to work like that for guys. I've been hung up on girls before and rejected really hot ones who were into me because I couldn't move on from the ones that I couldn't have. What about girls? It seems like they CAN move on from a guy they're hung up on if another one who's pushing their buttons right shows up, though I'm not sure so that's what I'm asking.