So,
Hello People!
So someone asked me about an old post. Let's see if i am able to help.
"I was looking at this old post from you 8 years ago and felt really identified. I am going through the same trouble... struggling to meet quality women."
He was basing this question on this post.
https://www.skilledseducer.com/threads/meeting-quality-women-via-friends-or.1730/
Apparently whenever i hear this question,
i noted that there are 3 Categories of Quality women that guys are always looking for.
1)Girls who are rich, from either being an entrepreneur or father
2)Girls who are famous in a setting, often influencer, or social circle/dance club/a tribe that is known by the school, community
3)Girls who are famous in a setting. Let's say this quiet pub where it is located around rich people areas.
How do you get this girls?
Cold Approaches. There's no secret. And here's why you should not do social circle.
You will never get Number 1 category of girls. Close to impossible. They won't respond to random text messages from random numbers. They always date acquaintances of friends, who also happened to be from rich families, tribes.
or some sort of that they are famous for something. So, Number 1 is out of the question. Except COLD APPROACH. Even then you are still hitting blanks.
Number 2 category of girls
They are always in their own clique. You won't get near them unless you are involved with the setting, whether that's thru partnership of schools, partnerships events or anything partnership related.
They live in their own world, and if you do not have something up to a decent level on what they thrive on. Let's say dance or business. You need to actually know your stuff to then mingle to then "get in". You need to have a "reason", and usually that reason is that you are somewhat known or somewhat upping your skills.
Lesson to get Number 2 category? COld Approach. Because it will take a lot of your time if you do what i tell you.
Now, the last.
Number 3 category of girls
You actually have to be what the girls want. IF the area has a lot of blazer and skirts, you wearing jeans and a random top will only turn them off unless you have your fundamentals tight and somewhat fit in with them, with a really expensive watch or a top with a blazer.
This category of girls, you need your conversation to carry you more than anything else. Because everyone is doing their own thing. Social nuances is crucial.
You also have to be careful that this girls will slot in into the boyfriend zone because they like to find a boyfriend that has her interest and job, all into one.
She will talk to you about business as much to prevent compliance. So you need to be wary.
Lesson? Cold approach
Do update me if i have not address anything. I hope this helps.
z@c+
