P.s. all questions are at the end of post )
I'm going on my first date with a Tinder girl today. Her name is Jody, a cute brown girl. I first swiped her about 2 months ago and she liked me back. I followed Colts first opener and it worked. I don't remember what song I used 2 lines from. It was a popular song though, every girl should have known it. ( I had to factory reset my phone so I can't look back at my Tinder messages to post the conversation, sorry ).
I bantered a short while then asked ( or commanded ...I don't remember which one ) for her number and I got it. That's what is really important here
Jody has whatsapp and I used it to text her briefly. I recall she telling me Tinder was used to make friends only and her sister put her on it. ( Psshh really ? And to hook up more likely ).
Anyways after the initial first conversation on whatsapp we stopped talking for 2 months until yesterday I breaked the ice once more via whatsapp.
Today is Saturday and she haven't contacted me so I will do it later in the morning via whatsapp. Like this
Hey I'll be at leaving out at 5:30p.m. Meet me at the plaza in Spain Town.
Can that work? If not how should I do it? I didn't ask her a time nor meeting destination. If the follow up text isn't good she could bail on me.
My Logistics are Really Bad
I was out last night walking and exploring my town for possible places to pull and escalate on Jody. All bathrooms were either locked or had security guards at the door or too much people would see me pulling her into the bathroom.
Behind buildings were too dark, dirty and cold for me to even pull myself there.
Too much people passed a good escalation spot.
I can't take her to my home as all family will be there.
I don't see myself successfully fucking Jody if my logistics continues to be so bad. What should I do? This is a frequent problem when I go on dates, I have no where to seal the deal.
I've already put Jody on a pedestal and I'm nervous already. I should point out sticking points before they stick me date time.
Troy
I'm going on my first date with a Tinder girl today. Her name is Jody, a cute brown girl. I first swiped her about 2 months ago and she liked me back. I followed Colts first opener and it worked. I don't remember what song I used 2 lines from. It was a popular song though, every girl should have known it. ( I had to factory reset my phone so I can't look back at my Tinder messages to post the conversation, sorry ).
I bantered a short while then asked ( or commanded ...I don't remember which one ) for her number and I got it. That's what is really important here
Jody has whatsapp and I used it to text her briefly. I recall she telling me Tinder was used to make friends only and her sister put her on it. ( Psshh really ? And to hook up more likely ).
Anyways after the initial first conversation on whatsapp we stopped talking for 2 months until yesterday I breaked the ice once more via whatsapp.
Tuesday Whatsapp Conversation
Troy: Hi Jody. Troy here from Tinder
Jody: Hey
Troy: Sup
Jody: not much. How have you been?
Troy: I've been enjoying my summer to the fullest
Jody: I'm not quite sure which Troy this is. Would you mind sending me a picture?
Troy: ( Sent a picture cropping out half of a global music celebrity who I met to show social proof, like what Chase recommends I crop for POF )
( she doesn't reply that day so I send a follow up the next day )
Wednesday Whatsapp Conversation
Troy: ?
Jody: Oh hey what's up?
Jody: what?
Troy: Never mind with the question sign. U still use Tinder?
Jody: Nah
Troy: Why?
Jody: Because summer is over
Troy: I know what you mean
Jody: Yeah are you still on?
Troy: Nah
The Ask Out
Troy: What's your schedule like this weekend?
Jody: I don't think I have much to do
Troy: Kl. It would be nice if we went for a walk...got some ice cream
Jody: Yeah sounds good. I'll let you know if I'll be free by Friday?
Troy: Saturday is good for me
Troy: Ok sure
Jody: Great
Troy: Yep. Nice dp
Jody: Thanks ( smile emoji )
Troy: U still loving the camera ( wink emoji ) I love taking pics
Jody: I forever will love photography lol
Troy: lol
Jody: What kinda photography are you interested in?
Troy: ( quick Google search ) nature, fashion, plus more ( I know pathetic to do that )
Jody: Ok
Troy: How about you?
Jody: Photojournalism, landscape, high fashion, and abstract
Troy: Cool
Today is Saturday and she haven't contacted me so I will do it later in the morning via whatsapp. Like this
Hey I'll be at leaving out at 5:30p.m. Meet me at the plaza in Spain Town.
Can that work? If not how should I do it? I didn't ask her a time nor meeting destination. If the follow up text isn't good she could bail on me.
My Logistics are Really Bad
I was out last night walking and exploring my town for possible places to pull and escalate on Jody. All bathrooms were either locked or had security guards at the door or too much people would see me pulling her into the bathroom.
Behind buildings were too dark, dirty and cold for me to even pull myself there.
Too much people passed a good escalation spot.
I can't take her to my home as all family will be there.
I don't see myself successfully fucking Jody if my logistics continues to be so bad. What should I do? This is a frequent problem when I go on dates, I have no where to seal the deal.
I've already put Jody on a pedestal and I'm nervous already. I should point out sticking points before they stick me date time.
Troy