To get sex, should you treat her like you're breaking her virginity?

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Hey guys,

You know how people fantasize the first time they have sex as some sort of special event with roses and romance? I was wondering if this is the usual way of getting sex if it's not an instant/easy lay. Like it's a giant moment that she holds dear to her heart.

 

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Short answer - NO.

Long version: Every situation is different. You have to adapt to her timeline and expectations. It is up to you to determine what she wants out of the experience and deliver it. Believe it or not some women just want to get laid.

 

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Short answer - NO.

Long version: Every situation is different. You have to adapt to her timeline and expectations. It is up to you to determine what she wants out of the experience and deliver it. Believe it or not some women just want to get laid.

Hey man, thanks for the tip. You got me thinking quite deeply. I’m surfing the articles on here as I think I’ll need to freshen up on my attraction, closing and sexual tension. I think attraction and closing seem to be the simplest to focus on, and I think the reason why I didn’t quite get sexual tension for all this time was because it encapsulates a broad variety of skills into one neat category. Touch, flirting, teasing, chase framing, etc. and I need to work on them all. (Or I’m just overthinking things).

Either way, if I’m going to give her what she wants out of the interaction, then I’ll have to practice seeing that, and then delivering on it.