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This was 8pm. More of a day than night game context.
Warmup approach asked a woman in a camel coat what was going on in the other room. She said the pianist was popular and I said oh well that explains the line. She seemed really interested in talking - nice woman maybe in her 50's. Body language kept turning into me actively. She said "we" book performances and I said "oh your partner". She said they put on jazz nights in a venue near where I work. I said I have a few coworkers who would be into that. Her husband came up and I said nice to meet you and gave my name. She caught him up and he gave me his card. He seemed a little aware of his wife and said something like have a cool night man as they left. Older guy late 50's maybe. Cool couple.
I passed by a girl a little older and taller than me in the line and asked if she was here for him (or the general venue). She said yeah and was a little annoyed with the wait, and didn't seem all that open.
***
So then I walked past an absolutely banging body observing a couple paintings. This petite blonde woman, maybe late 30's to early 40's in a form fitted sport coat suit with skirt. Early spoiler she had come from working a major brand alcohol event and would have had men drooling over her. I have never interacted with a woman who is this level of a head turner. She's Scandinavian and had this incredible accent. She had this cutesy element about her, incredibly feminine. She's like a little firecracker.
I couldn't see her face since her hair was down as I passed into another room. I knew I was going to circle back and approach her. I ended up just turning around in my track and going back, then stopped to the side of her. Over a shoulder, I asked which one of these dresses would you wear. She was taken aback and backed up a bit with a smile looking at me, then said she would wear them both, but was looking at the painting technique how they used the light and dark contrast to make it look like satin. I went into qualifying about her painting and asked if she does still life. She said she has a hard time finding models since they charge, and I said oh so you're looking for subjects, and touched the side of her arm. Throughout our whole interaction I'd cup her elbow intermittently and use protective touch on her lower back several times.
I commented on something related to the initial art, and proposed showing her. She was excited to follow and we went around.
***
While she was commenting on some people doing art, a guy who was there with a girl asked if she wanted to join (legit hostile move on this hottie). She shrugged him and off and kept following me to another room. We looked at a couple art pieces really briefly and I started asking her about herself while walking around. We never stopped moving after the initial approach. She explained a botched surgery in her foot and let me tell you this girl is the most expressive I have ever seen in terms of face and voice. So I'm validating her emotions a little and taking a position like a light "how dare they" kind of frame, fully on her side as to get as close as possible to an us vs them feel. It never got heavy, just easy flip positive to how she had healed.
***
I was about to lead her another way and she suggested walking towards the front because of her car. I explained slightly earlier that I lived in walking distance and suggested she come up to see the skyline from the rooftop. She resisted a little out of safety concern, which I countered saying we can go up and down no problem or come right back. It took very little convincing. She said her coat was in the car. I said we could grab another of mine on the way up, which she hesitated on. So I said ok let's go to your car and grab your coat and she agreed. So we walked around the block basically and got her wool coat, then talked very slightly about her ideal vacation laying on the beach in the shade hearing the water, and then went right into my apartment building. On the walk over she explained without the term that she had developed canned routines as a personal challenge to get people to laugh within one minute since she met so many people in her work. She also clearly said she is not the same person to everyone.
***
I'd known her for maybe 15 minutes at this point. She comes up and the key to the rooftop's not working since it's closed for the cold season. So I say I can show you the view from one of the floors below (obviously my apartment). She's all for it. So as we're getting off the elevator I warn her my apartment is the messiest it's ever been and she laughs as I explain I even had sauna soaked clothes hanging from a door knob, and things all over packing for a trip. She had no issues with the mess and was just excited to ask about the trip. I've had the more materialista girls turn their noses up at my setup, which is what I want. She showed zero negativity whatsoever.
I pushed all the clothes off my seating and showed her the view (nothing all that impressive). She said the place was cute and was happy to sit down. This girl was smiling so much and was submissive with the eye contact, then always returned to look deep in my eyes with an alluring look. She explained her foot a little more and then laughed and said "poor [her name]... she needs a hug" and laughed again. So we hugged and I gave her an affectionate one. She commented how cute it was. Then we kissed immediately. She was very into it and was a really nice soft, slow kisser while still being enthusiastic and putting her fingers on my face.
Her outfit was so tight with thick fabric, and it wasn't really escalateable without simply removing. I complimented her fabric and asked if the buttons worked. She stopped me when I went to unbutton them and slightly later stood up as I ran my hand under her skirt and grazed between her legs.
This is where she explained she's a mother and was late for the babysitter already. There was a little more escalation and at one point I pushed her on the bed. Whenever we stopped kissing she was wanting more and more. She was exhibiting clear state control as she shook herself exactly like if you were getting too aroused in public and had to push a girl off you. It was very much like "I want to but I can't right now" in terms of body language. She also said she had her heart broken twice recently. I said I'm not trying to hurt you, quite the opposite. She agreed on the importance of affection, skin contact, and such. She really loved kissing me and said she only gets hugs from children now (her kids).
She expressed wanting to see me again and we exchanged numbers in my room. She made sure that it went through. We kissed again and went down. She unprompted said she'd send me sexy pictures. She explained she doesn't like to always go with the whim and is the sort of person who plans. Going out the lobby door I said we can put it in the calendar and she can draw me. She got legitimately excited and asked if naked. My physique is nothing to be artistically rendered. Side note we'll see what happens with that since she paints with oils and doesn't sketch. I said my version would be a stick figure so it's not important if she's good and it's about enjoying the artistic process.
***
She put her arm in mine. Outside we walked and I continued getting to know her. I never went full deep dive motivations throughout all this, but with the small amount of time it was still just all focused on asking about her. This aspect of genuine personal interest in comfort building is probably a rare experience with her to be honest. This is the only available antidote to her disappearing. I know this is the exact interaction type where she would flash in the pan disappear forever, but I felt like she was legitimately is into continuing. This girl probably gets hit on every day.
So at the car I said ok now that we are out of there and you are not worried you will fall into spending an hour with me in my bed and being late to get back to your babysitter, let's slow down for a second. Come and kiss me and let's relax just for a few minutes. She was so happy. I had never really verbally addressed any of the resistance, so this was the frame... that her leaving was to stop herself from falling into being extraordinarily late. We stood and kissed on the sidewalk for a good while. We sort of naturally ended it together after a bit, again feeling her state control occurring.
I thought it very possible I would be slapping myself silly for not persisting. I probably could have physically cavemanned and wonder what it would have been if I'd at least reached a finger in her. She very well would have melted into it at that point, but that doesn't change her true time constraint. It would have been a one and done for sure if she had to run off after. Continuing to get to know her on the walk back with no worries after the escalation I think was part of seducing her into wanting to return. Deep dive meets touch and go.
The whole thing including the warm up approach lasted around an hour.
***
Me [from my room]: Francis
Her: Cutie [redacted descriptor of me]
[heart eyes emoji]
Me: Multifaceted [her name]
Her:
[blushing smile emoji]
How's the cleaning going?
Me: Surprisingly decent considering I've been up since 5:30 and am so sleepy. Would be nice to listen to wave sounds and slow down. How's your spaghetti??
Her: Not too bad for the second time around try wave sounds with a frequency of like 432hz, or, no, do the earth's frequency... that's a good night time one
I'm watching minions
[crying laughing emoji] half asleep
Me: Second round can still be satisfying. Wow note C... I tune music to A 444hz... who are you [her name]. You'll have to come lay around and tell me more about yourself.
Her: U know stuff about music and the healing properties of frequencies? Who are u really, handsome stranger?[heart eyes emoji]
Me: Let's find out over tea in the lobby restaurant when our schedules are aligned
Her: Okay!
Me: Let me know what works with yours? I'll be away next weekend, but typically work til four throughout the week.
Her: After 4 during the week works well, Tuesday?
Me: Sure, Tuesday it is. What time can you get away and make it down? I should be good to go more like 5:30 or 6 really
Her: Awesome! 6?
Me: Sounds great [her name]
Her: Yay!
[heart kiss emoji]
How are u, hotie?
Me: Good morning [her name][heart kiss emoji] enjoying the sun through the window, working. You?
Her: Same, sort of. Whatcha working on?
Me: Endless numbers! Ensuring everything keeps flowing. [Her name] I must warn you I'm a terrible texter and sometimes turn my phone off for even days to fully decompress
I always keep a calendar and you will have my full attention present in person. Curious what you are working on. Hope you're having a nice morning
Her: You're so cute
Me: [heart kiss emoji] Goodnight, heading to sleep. l will connect with you in the morning
Her: Good morning, darling
Me: Finally... Hot coffee. I hope you like tea
Her: Love it
Me: Beautiful
Her: I'm excited! Need me to bring anything
Me: Well what if we took our tea to go and sit and chat upstairs a while. Then a little taste of something to dip in it would be lovely
Her: Okay
[teeth smile emoji] I've got some sativa gummies, I'll bring a bag
Me: Very lovely indeed. Ok when you get here check out [street] if you want to park for free. Otherwise [logistics].
Let me know if you need me
Her: K. I forgot the name of your building
6:00?
Me: [building name, address]
Yes, see you at 6 [her name]!
Her:[heart eyes emoji, heart kiss emoji]
Sweetie! I accidentally fell asleep!! I'm behind now, is 630 okay? I'm sorry
Me: You're ok, drive safe and don't rush. I just got out of the shower.
Her: Oooh. I'm getting a visual.... thankfully I'm well rested
Me: That makes one of us. You'll have to help bring up my energy
Her: I'm good at that
Me: See, multifaceted... Many skills
Her: Getting closer
Me: Eyes on the road miss
Her: Here
This girl has awesome fashion sense. She comes in and I say do you want to get tea or just warm up upstairs. She says whatever you want babe. So we go upstairs and she starts kissing me.
Both nipples and her bellybutton pieced.
Fucks like a porn star. Or at least I think so. Wouldn't know. I don't like watching dicks.
LOUD with a HUGE smile on her face for the entire time.
She was pre-med but her guy at the time convinced her that she couldn't hack it.
Great cuddle
And she's bi
Her: Home, sugar.
For some strange reason it had me take [street] home, and it took forever!
[Heart with an arrow through it emoji]
Two trailer park girls go round the outside...
Guess who's back
Warmup approach asked a woman in a camel coat what was going on in the other room. She said the pianist was popular and I said oh well that explains the line. She seemed really interested in talking - nice woman maybe in her 50's. Body language kept turning into me actively. She said "we" book performances and I said "oh your partner". She said they put on jazz nights in a venue near where I work. I said I have a few coworkers who would be into that. Her husband came up and I said nice to meet you and gave my name. She caught him up and he gave me his card. He seemed a little aware of his wife and said something like have a cool night man as they left. Older guy late 50's maybe. Cool couple.
I passed by a girl a little older and taller than me in the line and asked if she was here for him (or the general venue). She said yeah and was a little annoyed with the wait, and didn't seem all that open.
***
So then I walked past an absolutely banging body observing a couple paintings. This petite blonde woman, maybe late 30's to early 40's in a form fitted sport coat suit with skirt. Early spoiler she had come from working a major brand alcohol event and would have had men drooling over her. I have never interacted with a woman who is this level of a head turner. She's Scandinavian and had this incredible accent. She had this cutesy element about her, incredibly feminine. She's like a little firecracker.
I couldn't see her face since her hair was down as I passed into another room. I knew I was going to circle back and approach her. I ended up just turning around in my track and going back, then stopped to the side of her. Over a shoulder, I asked which one of these dresses would you wear. She was taken aback and backed up a bit with a smile looking at me, then said she would wear them both, but was looking at the painting technique how they used the light and dark contrast to make it look like satin. I went into qualifying about her painting and asked if she does still life. She said she has a hard time finding models since they charge, and I said oh so you're looking for subjects, and touched the side of her arm. Throughout our whole interaction I'd cup her elbow intermittently and use protective touch on her lower back several times.
I commented on something related to the initial art, and proposed showing her. She was excited to follow and we went around.
***
While she was commenting on some people doing art, a guy who was there with a girl asked if she wanted to join (legit hostile move on this hottie). She shrugged him and off and kept following me to another room. We looked at a couple art pieces really briefly and I started asking her about herself while walking around. We never stopped moving after the initial approach. She explained a botched surgery in her foot and let me tell you this girl is the most expressive I have ever seen in terms of face and voice. So I'm validating her emotions a little and taking a position like a light "how dare they" kind of frame, fully on her side as to get as close as possible to an us vs them feel. It never got heavy, just easy flip positive to how she had healed.
***
I was about to lead her another way and she suggested walking towards the front because of her car. I explained slightly earlier that I lived in walking distance and suggested she come up to see the skyline from the rooftop. She resisted a little out of safety concern, which I countered saying we can go up and down no problem or come right back. It took very little convincing. She said her coat was in the car. I said we could grab another of mine on the way up, which she hesitated on. So I said ok let's go to your car and grab your coat and she agreed. So we walked around the block basically and got her wool coat, then talked very slightly about her ideal vacation laying on the beach in the shade hearing the water, and then went right into my apartment building. On the walk over she explained without the term that she had developed canned routines as a personal challenge to get people to laugh within one minute since she met so many people in her work. She also clearly said she is not the same person to everyone.
***
I'd known her for maybe 15 minutes at this point. She comes up and the key to the rooftop's not working since it's closed for the cold season. So I say I can show you the view from one of the floors below (obviously my apartment). She's all for it. So as we're getting off the elevator I warn her my apartment is the messiest it's ever been and she laughs as I explain I even had sauna soaked clothes hanging from a door knob, and things all over packing for a trip. She had no issues with the mess and was just excited to ask about the trip. I've had the more materialista girls turn their noses up at my setup, which is what I want. She showed zero negativity whatsoever.
I pushed all the clothes off my seating and showed her the view (nothing all that impressive). She said the place was cute and was happy to sit down. This girl was smiling so much and was submissive with the eye contact, then always returned to look deep in my eyes with an alluring look. She explained her foot a little more and then laughed and said "poor [her name]... she needs a hug" and laughed again. So we hugged and I gave her an affectionate one. She commented how cute it was. Then we kissed immediately. She was very into it and was a really nice soft, slow kisser while still being enthusiastic and putting her fingers on my face.
Her outfit was so tight with thick fabric, and it wasn't really escalateable without simply removing. I complimented her fabric and asked if the buttons worked. She stopped me when I went to unbutton them and slightly later stood up as I ran my hand under her skirt and grazed between her legs.
This is where she explained she's a mother and was late for the babysitter already. There was a little more escalation and at one point I pushed her on the bed. Whenever we stopped kissing she was wanting more and more. She was exhibiting clear state control as she shook herself exactly like if you were getting too aroused in public and had to push a girl off you. It was very much like "I want to but I can't right now" in terms of body language. She also said she had her heart broken twice recently. I said I'm not trying to hurt you, quite the opposite. She agreed on the importance of affection, skin contact, and such. She really loved kissing me and said she only gets hugs from children now (her kids).
She expressed wanting to see me again and we exchanged numbers in my room. She made sure that it went through. We kissed again and went down. She unprompted said she'd send me sexy pictures. She explained she doesn't like to always go with the whim and is the sort of person who plans. Going out the lobby door I said we can put it in the calendar and she can draw me. She got legitimately excited and asked if naked. My physique is nothing to be artistically rendered. Side note we'll see what happens with that since she paints with oils and doesn't sketch. I said my version would be a stick figure so it's not important if she's good and it's about enjoying the artistic process.
***
She put her arm in mine. Outside we walked and I continued getting to know her. I never went full deep dive motivations throughout all this, but with the small amount of time it was still just all focused on asking about her. This aspect of genuine personal interest in comfort building is probably a rare experience with her to be honest. This is the only available antidote to her disappearing. I know this is the exact interaction type where she would flash in the pan disappear forever, but I felt like she was legitimately is into continuing. This girl probably gets hit on every day.
So at the car I said ok now that we are out of there and you are not worried you will fall into spending an hour with me in my bed and being late to get back to your babysitter, let's slow down for a second. Come and kiss me and let's relax just for a few minutes. She was so happy. I had never really verbally addressed any of the resistance, so this was the frame... that her leaving was to stop herself from falling into being extraordinarily late. We stood and kissed on the sidewalk for a good while. We sort of naturally ended it together after a bit, again feeling her state control occurring.
I thought it very possible I would be slapping myself silly for not persisting. I probably could have physically cavemanned and wonder what it would have been if I'd at least reached a finger in her. She very well would have melted into it at that point, but that doesn't change her true time constraint. It would have been a one and done for sure if she had to run off after. Continuing to get to know her on the walk back with no worries after the escalation I think was part of seducing her into wanting to return. Deep dive meets touch and go.
The whole thing including the warm up approach lasted around an hour.
***
Me [from my room]: Francis
Her: Cutie [redacted descriptor of me]
[heart eyes emoji]Me: Multifaceted [her name]
Her:
[blushing smile emoji]How's the cleaning going?
Me: Surprisingly decent considering I've been up since 5:30 and am so sleepy. Would be nice to listen to wave sounds and slow down. How's your spaghetti??
Her: Not too bad for the second time around try wave sounds with a frequency of like 432hz, or, no, do the earth's frequency... that's a good night time one
I'm watching minions
[crying laughing emoji] half asleepMe: Second round can still be satisfying. Wow note C... I tune music to A 444hz... who are you [her name]. You'll have to come lay around and tell me more about yourself.
Her: U know stuff about music and the healing properties of frequencies? Who are u really, handsome stranger?
[heart eyes emoji]Me: Let's find out over tea in the lobby restaurant when our schedules are aligned
Her: Okay!
Me: Let me know what works with yours? I'll be away next weekend, but typically work til four throughout the week.
Her: After 4 during the week works well, Tuesday?
Me: Sure, Tuesday it is. What time can you get away and make it down? I should be good to go more like 5:30 or 6 really
Her: Awesome! 6?
Me: Sounds great [her name]
Her: Yay!
[heart kiss emoji]How are u, hotie?
Me: Good morning [her name]
[heart kiss emoji] enjoying the sun through the window, working. You?Her: Same, sort of. Whatcha working on?
Me: Endless numbers! Ensuring everything keeps flowing. [Her name] I must warn you I'm a terrible texter and sometimes turn my phone off for even days to fully decompress
I always keep a calendar and you will have my full attention present in person. Curious what you are working on. Hope you're having a nice morning
Her: You're so cute
Me:
[heart kiss emoji] Goodnight, heading to sleep. l will connect with you in the morningHer: Good morning, darling
Me: Finally... Hot coffee. I hope you like tea
Her: Love it
Me: Beautiful
Her: I'm excited! Need me to bring anything
Me: Well what if we took our tea to go and sit and chat upstairs a while. Then a little taste of something to dip in it would be lovely
Her: Okay
[teeth smile emoji] I've got some sativa gummies, I'll bring a bagMe: Very lovely indeed. Ok when you get here check out [street] if you want to park for free. Otherwise [logistics].
Let me know if you need me
Her: K. I forgot the name of your building
6:00?
Me: [building name, address]
Yes, see you at 6 [her name]!
Her:
[heart eyes emoji, heart kiss emoji]Sweetie! I accidentally fell asleep!! I'm behind now, is 630 okay? I'm sorry
Me: You're ok, drive safe and don't rush. I just got out of the shower.
Her: Oooh. I'm getting a visual.... thankfully I'm well rested
Me: That makes one of us. You'll have to help bring up my energy
Her: I'm good at that
Me: See, multifaceted... Many skills
Her: Getting closer
Me: Eyes on the road miss
Her: Here
This girl has awesome fashion sense. She comes in and I say do you want to get tea or just warm up upstairs. She says whatever you want babe. So we go upstairs and she starts kissing me.
Both nipples and her bellybutton pieced.
Fucks like a porn star. Or at least I think so. Wouldn't know. I don't like watching dicks.
LOUD with a HUGE smile on her face for the entire time.
She was pre-med but her guy at the time convinced her that she couldn't hack it.
Great cuddle
And she's bi
Her: Home, sugar.
For some strange reason it had me take [street] home, and it took forever!
[Heart with an arrow through it emoji]
Two trailer park girls go round the outside...
Guess who's back
[cat kiss emoji] still wearing the smile you gave me
