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Tunnel Vision

Kshatrap A.V.

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What I am writing here can be country and region specific due to things that I have seen in x place.


Some time ago, I was getting recommended instagram reels where women were complaining about how men are approaching and how they cant get a girlfriend like that and even some reddit links. Which I didn't read or watch at all, btw. And also there was a reel that a guy got beaten badly cuz he approached which got super viral but later turned out .. it was different matter and not pickup related.

But, one thing that stood to me was that it is more common to see a handful of women who complainedbut we don't see all these women who get laid due to cold appraoch. They aren't going around posting stuff regarding their own conquest by stranger men. And cuz negativity sells easily and fastly on social media, it can create a tunnel vision.

And when I used to be part of whatsapp groups, it would feel like as if there are lot of puas and lot of competition but it turned out that lot of them were not even gaming at all and good number of them hate cold approach day game (my favourite). And it was easier to find such negative social media videos and links there rather than actual helpful advice. Lot of ego boosting there and kj.

Anyways, the point is that women wont post when they get approached by sexy men and a really tiny number of women will be posting against cold approach. So, see the reality. And tbh, let's say in future ... she gets laid with a pua .. will she still post about that on her insta feed?

We are getting a really minority of women who post some shit and that is blown out of proportion due to the dumb puas themselves, rather than ignoring it. It is made viral in the community.

Now, I do have seen some conspirators in those whatsapp group who secretly encouraged others to post such negative content so as to decrease competition .
 
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