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So I met a girl when I met up with a friend about 5 hours away (that's where her family is and it was on the way back home so I wouldn't normally be in this city). Personality and clothing choice are basically my ideal gal and I must have been her ideal type to because it was immediately a go. We clicked right away. If she had bigger boobs then I'd be drooling over her as an ideal girl (for me).
So what happened?
I had to drive 5 hours home that night and she actually asked her mom if I could stay the night there with no prodding from me lol [darn you, you cockblocking mom of girl I like!]. Had I been able to stay, whether it happened that night or the next day, I'm beyond confident that we would have fucked. My friend did call her family to see if I could stay there instead but from what she said it didn't sound like I was welcome there either and I didn't wanna intrude so I just headed home in case anybody is curious.
As I'm driving home she finds me on Instagram and starts messaging me. This was a few days ago and she has quite literally started every conversation and puts in quite a bit of work to keep them going (even when I'm content to let the conversations die out). In our conversations I've talked about her coming down and she's enthusiastic about it. I believe her when she says that she wants to come see me after the holidays. Buuuuuuut that's a month away and life and father time have a funny way of changing someone's opinion about things.
So my issue: how to keep things going? I've already pulled back from messaging her (just realized I don't have her actual number but she got my Snapchat and Instagram and I added her on Facebook). After reading Chase's article today I'd like to give the occasional phone call a try (that'll be interesting... my phone skills aren't as high as they should be shall we say).
So besides phone calls, how do you keep something going with a girl that lives a fair amount away and can't come visit right away? I've got some of Chase's phone call stuff on other tabs so I'll be looking at those right after this but other tips about phone calls are welcome too, thanks
So what happened?
I had to drive 5 hours home that night and she actually asked her mom if I could stay the night there with no prodding from me lol [darn you, you cockblocking mom of girl I like!]. Had I been able to stay, whether it happened that night or the next day, I'm beyond confident that we would have fucked. My friend did call her family to see if I could stay there instead but from what she said it didn't sound like I was welcome there either and I didn't wanna intrude so I just headed home in case anybody is curious.
As I'm driving home she finds me on Instagram and starts messaging me. This was a few days ago and she has quite literally started every conversation and puts in quite a bit of work to keep them going (even when I'm content to let the conversations die out). In our conversations I've talked about her coming down and she's enthusiastic about it. I believe her when she says that she wants to come see me after the holidays. Buuuuuuut that's a month away and life and father time have a funny way of changing someone's opinion about things.
So my issue: how to keep things going? I've already pulled back from messaging her (just realized I don't have her actual number but she got my Snapchat and Instagram and I added her on Facebook). After reading Chase's article today I'd like to give the occasional phone call a try (that'll be interesting... my phone skills aren't as high as they should be shall we say).
So besides phone calls, how do you keep something going with a girl that lives a fair amount away and can't come visit right away? I've got some of Chase's phone call stuff on other tabs so I'll be looking at those right after this but other tips about phone calls are welcome too, thanks
