nope i don't wait for her to ask, i teach them... I even go to the gym with them and train them, like a gym trainer...I have transform most of them, if they are not coachable i dump them... I also do the same with sex showing them specific form such glory hole porn with specific actresses that i like dick sucking technique for them to replicate etc...
"How to implement fixer upper game:
So now we get to the important part. So the girl is invested in you, you let her into your lifestyle which is a typically the lifestyle of most community dudes, which is into reading, fitness, self development etc… In other words you talk the talk but you walk the walk. You do not have to have a 6 pack, but she can see week by week changes in the way you dress, look etc…
She will eventually ask you for guidance, so you give her good advice(which is all the shit that is field tested 100 times by different gurus and or books). So you give her bits and pieces of advice. As she follow some of the advice and see for herself it works (evidence). You will establish credibility and she will seek more advice. Little by little she will see you as a GURU and/or teacher.
Once you reach the Guru/teacher window of opportunity is time to exploit it. So now you are teaching her about nutrition (macros), and you give her a workout routine or book(beach body the creators of p90x have awesome programs like insanity in my experience they do the job fairly well). As she sees changes she will get more hooked and seek more of your wisdom. The beauty about all of this is that as she is becoming hotter she is getting more addicted and more attached to you, since you are a leader, you are improving her life, she feels she owes you and you have changed her life for the better . Now, you and her go to the mall you teach her that every time she gets paid she should reward herself: by buying a new outfit (in some cases as I go shopping for clothes I make it a date, and have them come along and say try this “i think this would look so good on you”) as they try it i sometimes buy it, or have them buy it themselves (if is more than $20 i don’t buy it).
You teach them red pill/secret society/social dynamics/fashion/fitness (most of my girls read my blog for example).
You help them with their hair and color. One of my girls hair was horrible, I identify her head shape as we were out one day I saw a girl with a hot haircut that would look good on her and i told her “that really would look good on you” , I approached the other girl and I complemented her haircut and ask “who is your hairdresser and what is the name and color of your haircut” , she gave me the info. and I went with her to get the haircut a week later.
Very important point is to come across as a positive motivator INSTEAD of a nasty dictator that makes them feel they are not good enough. I took one time a 8 to a 10 but I fucked up by coming across too demanding. I made her stop smoking, workout, dress different, new hair style, new job,new social skills, she looked hot as hell, dressed amazing, but at the end she ended up resenting me and we broke up.
Since then, I have perfected fixer upper game and when they do not follow my advice I do not verbalize it but stay quiet and act a bit disappointed. They get the point after couple of times, they usually make the change themselves.
Fixer upper game works well if you are a seduction coach, the reasoning is that is the same concept and steps that we do with paying clients, the different is you get your payment in the form of sex and investment instead of validation and cash.
Usually you can do the drastic change in as little as 6 months to a year, depending on the girl, my average is less than 3 months."
From this writing on this article it does not seem to me that you act first but that you show first by waiting for him to ask for advice.
Could you tell me then how you do the talks and then when you start teaching her things? You say you can within 3 months get him to make a drastic change so I guess it starts from the first month or so or even earlier after the average hookup of the 3 fucks when he's inside you?
