Tov is short for tone of voice
Slow on the uptake means that you are not an active participant in knowing the context of the situation and expect others to point everything out. Attempt to solve things by understanding context quickly yourself.
But yes it also means not approaching or acting thick skulled like no info gets through to you even if blatantly obvious.
I gave some practical steps, try em first before asking for more. Otherwise me thinks thou dost protest too much and you are not serious about learning to progress quickly but rather want to progress painlessly those are two very different things
Be aware I said mentality is key to improving fast, this is how you react to EVERYTHING. In sales your mentality affects sales, same with women. Women react to your reactions so erase bad reactions by locating them, studying and fixing them.
I do know the answer you are looking for but I can't teach that over a post
first, thanking you for taking the time to try to help me.
I honestly do not understand what practical steps you are suggesting i implement.
That's why in my last post I asked if there was anything I can do in the real physical world (not mentally) to implement your suggestions
I asked for things I could do in the real physical world NOT because i want to progress painlessly but because i do NOT understand the mental steps you are suggesting i implement so i was hoping there where physical steps i could take to achieve the same outcome
I just reread all your posts on this thread to see if i could understand better what you are suggesting i do.
here's my understanding after re-reading everything you wrote:
I need to sit down, look up the definition of the mental issues below and find out which of them i struggle with:
bitterness, jealousy, possessiveness, temperamental, rude, passive, stingy, mommas boy, slow on the uptake, expecting too much, prudish etc.
after that i need to use google to find out what is needed to fix these mental issues and then I should implement these changes?
are these the actions you are suggesting i take if i want to improve my sex life as fast as possible?