Most of the time after opening with the girls, they will give me attention and talk for a while. But there are a few times after I said my opener, the girls will just continue with what they do, sometimes it could be playing with their phones, or their eyes could be wandering elsewhere instead of looking at you, or in the case of grocery, they could continue looking at the grocery shelf.
What I think is that if the girl don't give you attention, that means she thinks she is "higher" than you. That means I have to challenge them to lower their frame down. For now, if the girl don't give attention, I would ask them if I am interrupting what they are doing. If they say yes, I will then say "it's only 2 minute, just want to get to know you.". However, if the girl say no, then I will say "well, that's rude isn't it, I am talking to you but you are looking elsewhere/ doing something else", in a teasing manner.
Just curious how would you guys solve this situation.
What I think is that if the girl don't give you attention, that means she thinks she is "higher" than you. That means I have to challenge them to lower their frame down. For now, if the girl don't give attention, I would ask them if I am interrupting what they are doing. If they say yes, I will then say "it's only 2 minute, just want to get to know you.". However, if the girl say no, then I will say "well, that's rude isn't it, I am talking to you but you are looking elsewhere/ doing something else", in a teasing manner.
Just curious how would you guys solve this situation.