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In school, I got assigned a seat next to a cute girl. It was a rare day that the teacher wasn’t there and we didn’t have much work so we had ample opportunity to talk. She obviously liked me, and the conversation was light but I did learn quite a bit about her like what sports she plays, why she plays them and her future dreams so I had a mild connection going.
In the moment, cuz I knew attraction expires quickly and there probably wouldn’t be another opportunity to talk like this in weeks, I asked her out confidently but somewhat clumsily saying “We should go grab something to eat sometime.” She was visibly startled saying “really, us?” I nodded my head and she said sure.
Got her number and she hasn’t replied all weekend.
Texted her 1 icebreaker, second text asked her what day shes available. (Im pretty sure the reason she hasnt responded is just cuz she has some setting that blocks unknown texts. Should have told her to save my number then and there RIP) My seat next to her is assigned, so I have an opportunity to talk with her again on Monday.
The problem with this is that I did not have a lot of time to screen her or demonstrate standards so it might feel like I just saw a pretty face and pounced on it offering a date. Didn’t make her feel too special.
Is there any damage control I can do to still demonstrate that I have standards and make her feel special?
Also how do I bring up her not replying situation without it seeming weak/negatively preselected like “U were the only girl I texted all weekend but I guess you were too busy for me goddess”?
In the moment, cuz I knew attraction expires quickly and there probably wouldn’t be another opportunity to talk like this in weeks, I asked her out confidently but somewhat clumsily saying “We should go grab something to eat sometime.” She was visibly startled saying “really, us?” I nodded my head and she said sure.
Got her number and she hasn’t replied all weekend.
Texted her 1 icebreaker, second text asked her what day shes available. (Im pretty sure the reason she hasnt responded is just cuz she has some setting that blocks unknown texts. Should have told her to save my number then and there RIP) My seat next to her is assigned, so I have an opportunity to talk with her again on Monday.
The problem with this is that I did not have a lot of time to screen her or demonstrate standards so it might feel like I just saw a pretty face and pounced on it offering a date. Didn’t make her feel too special.
Is there any damage control I can do to still demonstrate that I have standards and make her feel special?
Also how do I bring up her not replying situation without it seeming weak/negatively preselected like “U were the only girl I texted all weekend but I guess you were too busy for me goddess”?