Why are we SEXUALLY attracted to women with a certain ethnic look?

[Indian Race Troll (IRT)]

For the longest time, I've tried to convince myself that I love hot blonde women and some do it for me for sure. Now my sexual history has mainly been with women that have a certain look: tanned skin, dark hair and usually white (not always Italian but that sort of Mediterranean and somewhat Middle Eastern type of look). Not even sure what the name is but white women that are "tanned" and have dark hair I guess.

Part of it is definitely due to having to settle, I've always had an easier time attracting an Emily Ratajkowski lookalike over a nordic looking chick for whatever reason.

That being said, I've also fucked blondes, redheads, Asian girls, black girls, brown girls, and mixed race girls but for some reason, I have had the wildest sex with women that have this kind of a look (except for this one Arab chick I fucked who dyed her hair blonde).

It is like the kind of sex where you fuck like animals and do it all, I've had it with women with this kind of a look and they're more open to doing this with me too.

But the issue is, I would never fucking thought I like these kinds of girls and enjoy sex with them so much.

I am starting to wonder if I am just starting to settle for whatever I can get (would not have said they are my preference) or maybe if there is something to it. Like I cannot work up this sort of sexual excitement in the bedroom with a redhead or, and I hate to fucking say it, even a natural blonde the way I can these sorts of women but I wonder if it is because I have been with these kinds of women so much that it is becoming an acquired taste.

And I have no fucking idea why I draw women with this kind of look like a fucking fly, I mean I get anything from hipster girls to trashier girls to even popular girls that have this kind of look with relative ease compared to all other kinds of women.

Any idea what is going on?

Its like mentally I would have never imagine and still don't really imagine myself getting into an LTR with a darker featured white woman (if that's the correct wording) but I have had the wildest sex with women that have that kind of look.

 

[Franco]

OP,

But the issue is, I would never fucking thought I like these kinds of girls and enjoy sex with them so much.

I am starting to wonder if I am just starting to settle for whatever I can get (would not have said they are my preference) or maybe if there is something to it. Like I cannot work up this sort of sexual excitement in the bedroom with a redhead or, and I hate to fucking say it, even a natural blonde the way I can these sorts of women but I wonder if it is because I have been with these kinds of women so much that it is becoming an acquired taste.

It's two-fold:

• (1) You're behaving less needy around these darker-haired women than you are around your preferred blonde types (even if it's subconscious and subtle), so the attraction there is stronger.
  
  (2) You're realizing that hair color/ethnicity is still just one or two physical traits among thousands of traits a girl has. Therefore, you might find a girl who you vibe with super well in bed, even though she's like Asian or Black for example. Her sexual desire for you, her sexual preferences, and maybe even her personality might just turn you on more.

Even while you still might have physical preferences for your "perfect girl," there are still many other traits that can add or subtract value to and from a girl. It's totally not impossible to bone a very beautiful but very boring-in-bed bottle blonde just as it is not impossible to bone a decent-looking Latina or Asian chick (for example) who is an absolute firecracker in the sack.

There's more variables at play than just the physical traits with women. While we all have preferences for physical traits, there are still many variables that can affect the overall experience that you'll have with a girl, which is why you absolutely should not pass up opportunities to bang beautiful girls from all kinds of different backgrounds, looks, and ethnicities.

- Franco

 

[Indian Race Troll (IRT)]

I dunno about that Franco, I have really only been with a black and Asian girl recently but it just didn't do it for me.

I wonder if all along, I have just been confusing wanting status from women versus sexual pleasure. Like if I love blondes more around my arm to make up for a geeky upbringing while I really want to stick my dick inside of a brunette and fuck her hardcore.

 

[uForia]

In this article: https://www.girlschase.com/content/inter ... nce-desire

Desire overrides preferences and Grand Poobah has noted in there examples of women's preferences being overriden by desire. But it goes both ways for men too. The brunettes you meet are probably having a stronger effect on stoking your desire, which is great! With Grand Poobah and me not being white, we're oftentimes not a woman's first preference. But desire overriding preferences gives everybody an opportunity.

 

[Indian Race Troll (IRT)]

In this article: https://www.girlschase.com/content/inter ... nce-desire

Desire overrides preferences and Grand Poobah has noted in there examples of women's preferences being overriden by desire. But it goes both ways for men too. The brunettes you meet are probably having a stronger effect on stoking your desire, which is great! With Grand Poobah and me not being white, we're oftentimes not a woman's first preference. But desire overriding preferences gives everybody an opportunity.

I am kinda over this race thing tbh, do not think being brown is that big of an issue, at least not in the US and especially not France.

Not sure why I have the desire though, is it because maybe I am narcissist?

Just notice that I tend to fuck the kinds of women I am talking about a lot more aggressively than I do blondes and it is like my sex drive goes into over-drive when I have fucked them.

It is like I never wanted to have a preference for these women and grew up liking blondes due to media but getting into the sweaty fucks of it all, these women somehow keep doing it for me.