why do girls bring up other guys like this?

[foggy]

hi,

there's been a few instances where i've noticed girls bringing up other guys in a desirable light, and being very explicit/up front about it repetitively, during or right before an escalation window it seems like.

I've got two examples for you:

Example 1: From one of Cruiser's journal entries. Full journal entry here. I have highlighted her repetitiveness.

D: One time I fucked a guy because he was so hot in the bathroom at a restaurant , never again I was so scared.
M: Yea, sometimes doing that stuff is fun tho (implying that I have done it but not directly)
D: he was so hot though
M: *bored gazed look,* (time to change the topic, or bust out of here because I could tell she was feeling me) Hey, my place isn't far from here it's a two minute walk? wanna check it out? I have some wine at my place too instead of paying for it here,
D: *looks at me deeply for 5 seconds, ya ok.

Example 2: A situation I recently experienced. Full journal entry here. I was on a long car ride with a girl, there was lots of sex talk and sexual tension...finally, we were almost at my house and she was about to drop me off. a guy in a nice car passed us. she repeatedly brought up the fact that she thinks he's got a big dick, like 3-5 times.

Could these two examples be caused for the same reason? What is that reason? Do girls usually do this, or is it only a specific kind of women that does this?

 

[Noir]

Best guess is that she a) was a shit test. Wanted to see how you'd react. (Are u alpha or beta?) b) wanted to highlight her desirability c) wanted you to hurry up and escalate

 

[dcman]

My 2 cents is Probably you conveyed a friendly personality and they were making these comments based on it. It is not a test but a disrespect to talk about another guys dick when a girl is with me. I would have laughed and told something like "do not worry I like you more like a sisterly type as you do not have the sexual skills I look in a girl." something is this manner would work better in these kinds of scenario. It would tell that you lowered her value . Try to Convey a sexual personality from the beginning and these kinds of questions would stop.