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Why do girls replace me with tall, white, ugly virgins?

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Space Monkey
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I follow this site religiously and use the advice - with girls online, and I almost always manage to get their phone numbers, text with them a bit to build rapport, maybe call a bit as well,
and then quickly go out on a date. The girls are always 18-19yo, so fairly young.
I am exactly what the site tells you to be - an italian, sexy, bad boy, only texts to set up dates, alpha leader of the group, multi-millionaire.
Recently I had a date where I had LMR while she was in my hotel room, said she needed to go home because it was late, and I just let her go (I figured since I am the guy who ever moved the fastest with her, it's all good).
I tried to ask her out on a second date via text, but she dodged my requests, but always seemed interested 'when are you leaving?' - so I dropped the ball on her and told me to tell me an exact date where she would be free.
I didn't text her again for a few days. Then I called her, she answered, and said yeah she's still down and she'll let me know - but again, it seemed like she was dodging my request.
Anyway - while I was waiting for a text, she started dating other guys online - I didn't really care and didn't react. Now she recently got in an 'internet relationship' with a complete pussy.

He is fat and really ugly. I've got screenshots from a friend, and he texts her 'I will love you forever' blabla and literally everything that you SHOULDN't text.
They didn't even MEET. But she's treating him better than she ever did me.

I am just confused, because this is the third time this is happening. Guys who are inexperienced ugly virgins get the girl, while I get shoved away.
I didn't ask her why she didn't text me back, but apparently after the LMR, she backward-rationalized that I wasn't her type.

Is there some other strategy you have to use with insecure young girls? Or are they just immature?
 

ElderPrice

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I have no explanation for why these girls are choosing 'internet relationships' over you, but I am interested in fixing why you're not sealing the deal when out with these girls. How would you describe these girls moods from the start of the date up until you hit the point of LMR? Describe their vibe, body language, mood, etc.
 
the right date makes getting her back home a piece of cake

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Space Monkey
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ElderPrice said:
I have no explanation for why these girls are choosing 'internet relationships' over you, but I am interested in fixing why you're not sealing the deal when out with these girls. How would you describe these girls moods from the start of the date up until you hit the point of LMR? Describe their vibe, body language, mood, etc.
Girls moods are very excited at the beginning,
then once I start to see that it’s starting to go down and some tension arises, I go for the kiss.
Then, in the last particular instance I said let’s go upstairs but you can’t come in to my room.
I gave her a small gift (really small), and then brought her into my room.
She was like “ah, now I can come into your room ;)
She looked around for a minute (it was a big hotel suite), and I asked her if she wants some water - she said no she needs to leave.
We kissed goodbye, and that was that.
Technically not a failed escalation - but at least one in my eyes.
 

Michal

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LetsGetThis said:
ElderPrice said:
I have no explanation for why these girls are choosing 'internet relationships' over you, but I am interested in fixing why you're not sealing the deal when out with these girls. How would you describe these girls moods from the start of the date up until you hit the point of LMR? Describe their vibe, body language, mood, etc.
Girls moods are very excited at the beginning,
then once I start to see that it’s starting to go down and some tension arises, I go for the kiss.
Then, in the last particular instance I said let’s go upstairs but you can’t come in to my room.
I gave her a small gift (really small), and then brought her into my room.
She was like “ah, now I can come into your room ;)
She looked around for a minute (it was a big hotel suite), and I asked her if she wants some water - she said no she needs to leave.
We kissed goodbye, and that was that.
Technically not a failed escalation - but at least one in my eyes.
Speaks to me like incongruence. If you behave like a total fuckboy and then show them how loaded you are with rich looking appartments and expensive hotel rooms, she might either categorize you as a boyfriend material and wants to slow down or she gets suspicious or/ and think she will be just your sex toy for the evening and eject.

Do you show your wealth or hint at it during the dates or you show it out of nowhere?
 
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