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Hello People,
I am really pissed off today. But i thought i channel this energy into a productive post. There is passive aggression in this post. LEt me rant this out in the best productive way possible.
I was in a sales conversation with a beautiful girl today, and i was in multiverse universe.
Part of me is PIMP mode and she is digging it.
Part of me is full on professional mode,
and the other is let's see where this can go.
Apparently, my colleagues caught on this girl and decides to disturb me. I can be a funny guy and i always bros before hoes, but this is life and i eventually have to learn to throw people and even maybe Girlschase members under the bus, if i have to. This was one situation. Another situation is a friend i just made who likes to switch between friendship mode and business mode. Apparently, he switch it way too often that it has hurt his relationships with not only just me but other working colleagues too.
So Zac, let's cut right to the chase. Why FRAME CONTROL?
1)Because the girl was into me as much as she was not into me. Zac's Multiverse universe analogy. Hector also noted this in text, where he called it 'vacuum'.
2)Because i let the environment influence me too much
3)Because People are NOT REALLY IN CONTROL OF THEIR LIFES
4)Value, Positioning and Frame
Then there's the seeing behind the frame
The girl NEEDED me, to pick a frame
My friend however was switching too much frame
and then lastly: Not maintaining the FRAME and occasionally breaking the frame while being aware and letting people know you breaking the frame.
I have make a lot of mistakes thinking that a stable friendship or an assumed stable friendship is a pipe that do need to be check. And that's the thing. Just like exercise, it has cost of ownership.
I didn't get it.
Perhaps this is because of spiritual gurus bullshit, advertising and all instant gratification, a kind of control that people operate from.
But i finally get it why people do see me as some 'saviour'. This is not me parading that i can save everybody, let alone do it good. It is that self awareness, that awareness to be that few seconds devoid of anything.
That is the unplugging from the frame, which is important as well. The frame is there, the frame control is there because we all subjugated as human beings. This is the human condition but i finally get it why frame is so important.
I can play any fucking role, as long as i am humble enough to know what i want and the next things is just a means. While frame is important, it is just a frame at the end that even i have to unplug and fill the water with all of my friendships.
Thank you for listening,
Zac
I am really pissed off today. But i thought i channel this energy into a productive post. There is passive aggression in this post. LEt me rant this out in the best productive way possible.
I was in a sales conversation with a beautiful girl today, and i was in multiverse universe.
Part of me is PIMP mode and she is digging it.
Part of me is full on professional mode,
and the other is let's see where this can go.
Apparently, my colleagues caught on this girl and decides to disturb me. I can be a funny guy and i always bros before hoes, but this is life and i eventually have to learn to throw people and even maybe Girlschase members under the bus, if i have to. This was one situation. Another situation is a friend i just made who likes to switch between friendship mode and business mode. Apparently, he switch it way too often that it has hurt his relationships with not only just me but other working colleagues too.
So Zac, let's cut right to the chase. Why FRAME CONTROL?
1)Because the girl was into me as much as she was not into me. Zac's Multiverse universe analogy. Hector also noted this in text, where he called it 'vacuum'.
2)Because i let the environment influence me too much
3)Because People are NOT REALLY IN CONTROL OF THEIR LIFES
4)Value, Positioning and Frame
Then there's the seeing behind the frame
The girl NEEDED me, to pick a frame
My friend however was switching too much frame
and then lastly: Not maintaining the FRAME and occasionally breaking the frame while being aware and letting people know you breaking the frame.
I have make a lot of mistakes thinking that a stable friendship or an assumed stable friendship is a pipe that do need to be check. And that's the thing. Just like exercise, it has cost of ownership.
I didn't get it.
Perhaps this is because of spiritual gurus bullshit, advertising and all instant gratification, a kind of control that people operate from.
But i finally get it why people do see me as some 'saviour'. This is not me parading that i can save everybody, let alone do it good. It is that self awareness, that awareness to be that few seconds devoid of anything.
That is the unplugging from the frame, which is important as well. The frame is there, the frame control is there because we all subjugated as human beings. This is the human condition but i finally get it why frame is so important.
I can play any fucking role, as long as i am humble enough to know what i want and the next things is just a means. While frame is important, it is just a frame at the end that even i have to unplug and fill the water with all of my friendships.
Thank you for listening,
Zac
