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I wanted to write this down for some time now.. This is btw not against @Tony D 's post since he writes down that nofapping is no cure for approach anxiety -> I Agree with this. Nofap is not a magic bullet or anything.
Not jerking it has great advantages:
* More energy
* More tidyness/mental coherence
* Better verbalizing skills.
* Better posture
* More agression
* Much better eye contact (when you jerk it the world becomes a bit vague)
* Better skin/ hair, more beautiful eyes
* Less frustration about small things (Guess what this does for your non-verbals/ coming across as Law of least effort)
* Feeling much more entitled to babes
* Much more assertive... but a calibrated kind of assertiveness.
* Much more charismatic.. I have sensed that for some reason people like you more when you are abstaining
The above are all benefits that I have personally encountered and can vouch for. I think any serious seducer should keep these in mind. My theory is that when you are drained you are like a machine on battery saving point.. and when you are charged... well shouldn't it be obvious?
Nofap is not easy... especially in this shit covid period... but it always becomes easy when I have a specific goal/trigger. Right now I am in competition with a lot of people (totally self provoked btw lol).. but it motivates me and makes abstaining less of a choir.
Not jerking it has great advantages:
* More energy
* More tidyness/mental coherence
* Better verbalizing skills.
* Better posture
* More agression
* Much better eye contact (when you jerk it the world becomes a bit vague)
* Better skin/ hair, more beautiful eyes
* Less frustration about small things (Guess what this does for your non-verbals/ coming across as Law of least effort)
* Feeling much more entitled to babes
* Much more assertive... but a calibrated kind of assertiveness.
* Much more charismatic.. I have sensed that for some reason people like you more when you are abstaining
The above are all benefits that I have personally encountered and can vouch for. I think any serious seducer should keep these in mind. My theory is that when you are drained you are like a machine on battery saving point.. and when you are charged... well shouldn't it be obvious?
Nofap is not easy... especially in this shit covid period... but it always becomes easy when I have a specific goal/trigger. Right now I am in competition with a lot of people (totally self provoked btw lol).. but it motivates me and makes abstaining less of a choir.
