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Welcome back, I got a number from NG, which is kind of strange for me. I usually didn't do that before, now that I've adopted every strategy in the book, it's actually worked.
This approach was outside a semi high-end venue. Top 3 in the city, I think. Decent place, table-oriented setup. I went in alone, sober that day. I was looking for clubs where I could get in without paying entry, just to see if I could pull it off. The night inside was okay, too crowded and table-heavy. Didn't have the energy for many approaches, so after one or two I left.
It was loud and crowded. There were opportune moments to open, which I got a number from one. But the main one was this girl I approached outside. She'd been inside earlier, I didn't see her. I lit a cigarette, did a 180, walked a few steps away, then turned back. Jumped in front of her from a five-step stairs. Startled her, that's what I wanted. she's sexy. She had those big curls I like, short white dress.
I chatted some shit. Forgot exactly what. she noticed my Gucci T-shirt, peacocking. She probably thought I was rich. I never lead with money, but she was dressed elegantly, so I didn't care. Later when she added me on messaging, she said, "That's a cool car," and I was like, "uh,, yeah, anyway blah blah blah."
Told her where I was going.
This one was a prime target. Tried to get her out, invited her to another club, same night. She said she needed to go home and change her pants. Whatever that meant.
Got back near my flat, annoyed that I'd passed on some opportunities. If I'd had higher momentum, or been tipsy, I would've opened them. I was sober and just wanted to go home.
I'd just broken things off with my fuck buddy. Felt bad about it for a couple days.
for my girl, I texted her normal shit. How you doing, blah blah. Found out she was a student. Thought I'd end up with an older woman, she looked mid 20s, but there's days who even knows...
Back to this girl: we texted back and forth. She made a subtle moaning sound when talking about changing pants. hotter girl tend to be more subtle. She was at least an 8.5, local.
We agreed to meet at a speakeasy bar. She showed up looking beautiful. pretty shoes, dress. then her friend arrived too. I thought, why the fuck bring your friend? Options were limited. Eject or stay. I stayed, she told me when I was on my way there....
The friend was fat, but friendly. we talked, we talked about hooking her up with a guy I know. Handled it fine. Socialized decently. Not a huge hurdle other than time and money, which isn't a big issue for me, but it adds up. it sets a neutral tone. With a friend there, I knew this was one of those social value heavy, social frame focused ones seductions.
I'm starting to think to get girls of certain beauty you, having social frame/value nesscaity.
FYI, if I were to "reschedule", likely I would of lost her or avoided the 1 on 1 meeting
We bounced venues five times total. Started at the speakeasy, went to a rooftop bar, then bar district. Some tourist moron put his hand on me like "hey where you going," I turned looked at him, like I was going to kill him, faggit trying to be friendly and shit, cause I had the hottest girl on the street. Wanted to break his jaw.
Got out of the meat market area. Good to see the attention she got, real head-turner.
Then to a restaurant I know well. Not too oily or carb-heavy food. Knew the waitress. She gave us snacks, lite social proof. I live nearby.
Up to that point I'd paid for everything except logistics. She paid for taxis to meet me and transitionings.
In the restaurant, I couldn't escalate hard. Sexual frame felt off. I was getting compliance, I knew I could pull as a night gamer. Adjusting from night game to dates has been tricky: knowing when to kiss, when it builds or blows tension.
In every car ride, we sat in the back. I touched her legs, we kissed lips. she tells me she likes me and etc.
I let silences happen, let her and the friend talk and take pictures. Built comfort that way.
At the restaurant, I got tired. Smoked too many cigarettes, which probably contributed to ED later. Texted her on my phone: "I'm taking you for a movie back at my place. Tell your friend." She agreed. "ok OK"
Acted like I didn't hear her tell the friend. Smoked
One last compliance test: card machine broke, had to walk five minutes to an ATM. Came back, she was still there, left my keys with her
Pulled her back to my place without the friend this time. She had weird, abrupt reactions to my moves. Like ADHD or inexperience. Kind of funny and cute. Back at my place at around 5am-ish. my place isn't super nice, it's regular flat, maybe to her I display conscious consumption or not, but this amount I spent was outside of my normal range.
Fucked once. Think cigarettes and only five hours sleep stopped me from multiple rounds.
Morning after, she scrolled TikTok like typical party girl brain. Chatted a bit. She's a party girl with one visible tattoo. Pussy was enjoyable, such beauty, wasted talent. I ended spending like 180 USD for everything, she spent like around 35USD, I need to find cheaper alternatives in the future.
Want to see if I can lock her in as FWB, I feel she's high-maintenance and a bit weird with the exaggerated behavior, play fighting, jerking behaviors, etc. Not sure if she's just acting that way. probably she's just really attracted... we'll see
This approach was outside a semi high-end venue. Top 3 in the city, I think. Decent place, table-oriented setup. I went in alone, sober that day. I was looking for clubs where I could get in without paying entry, just to see if I could pull it off. The night inside was okay, too crowded and table-heavy. Didn't have the energy for many approaches, so after one or two I left.
It was loud and crowded. There were opportune moments to open, which I got a number from one. But the main one was this girl I approached outside. She'd been inside earlier, I didn't see her. I lit a cigarette, did a 180, walked a few steps away, then turned back. Jumped in front of her from a five-step stairs. Startled her, that's what I wanted. she's sexy. She had those big curls I like, short white dress.
I chatted some shit. Forgot exactly what. she noticed my Gucci T-shirt, peacocking. She probably thought I was rich. I never lead with money, but she was dressed elegantly, so I didn't care. Later when she added me on messaging, she said, "That's a cool car," and I was like, "uh,, yeah, anyway blah blah blah."
Told her where I was going.
This one was a prime target. Tried to get her out, invited her to another club, same night. She said she needed to go home and change her pants. Whatever that meant.
Got back near my flat, annoyed that I'd passed on some opportunities. If I'd had higher momentum, or been tipsy, I would've opened them. I was sober and just wanted to go home.
I'd just broken things off with my fuck buddy. Felt bad about it for a couple days.
for my girl, I texted her normal shit. How you doing, blah blah. Found out she was a student. Thought I'd end up with an older woman, she looked mid 20s, but there's days who even knows...
Back to this girl: we texted back and forth. She made a subtle moaning sound when talking about changing pants. hotter girl tend to be more subtle. She was at least an 8.5, local.
We agreed to meet at a speakeasy bar. She showed up looking beautiful. pretty shoes, dress. then her friend arrived too. I thought, why the fuck bring your friend? Options were limited. Eject or stay. I stayed, she told me when I was on my way there....
The friend was fat, but friendly. we talked, we talked about hooking her up with a guy I know. Handled it fine. Socialized decently. Not a huge hurdle other than time and money, which isn't a big issue for me, but it adds up. it sets a neutral tone. With a friend there, I knew this was one of those social value heavy, social frame focused ones seductions.
I'm starting to think to get girls of certain beauty you, having social frame/value nesscaity.
FYI, if I were to "reschedule", likely I would of lost her or avoided the 1 on 1 meeting
We bounced venues five times total. Started at the speakeasy, went to a rooftop bar, then bar district. Some tourist moron put his hand on me like "hey where you going," I turned looked at him, like I was going to kill him, faggit trying to be friendly and shit, cause I had the hottest girl on the street. Wanted to break his jaw.
Got out of the meat market area. Good to see the attention she got, real head-turner.
Then to a restaurant I know well. Not too oily or carb-heavy food. Knew the waitress. She gave us snacks, lite social proof. I live nearby.
Up to that point I'd paid for everything except logistics. She paid for taxis to meet me and transitionings.
In the restaurant, I couldn't escalate hard. Sexual frame felt off. I was getting compliance, I knew I could pull as a night gamer. Adjusting from night game to dates has been tricky: knowing when to kiss, when it builds or blows tension.
In every car ride, we sat in the back. I touched her legs, we kissed lips. she tells me she likes me and etc.
I let silences happen, let her and the friend talk and take pictures. Built comfort that way.
At the restaurant, I got tired. Smoked too many cigarettes, which probably contributed to ED later. Texted her on my phone: "I'm taking you for a movie back at my place. Tell your friend." She agreed. "ok OK"
Acted like I didn't hear her tell the friend. Smoked
One last compliance test: card machine broke, had to walk five minutes to an ATM. Came back, she was still there, left my keys with her
Pulled her back to my place without the friend this time. She had weird, abrupt reactions to my moves. Like ADHD or inexperience. Kind of funny and cute. Back at my place at around 5am-ish. my place isn't super nice, it's regular flat, maybe to her I display conscious consumption or not, but this amount I spent was outside of my normal range.
Fucked once. Think cigarettes and only five hours sleep stopped me from multiple rounds.
Morning after, she scrolled TikTok like typical party girl brain. Chatted a bit. She's a party girl with one visible tattoo. Pussy was enjoyable, such beauty, wasted talent. I ended spending like 180 USD for everything, she spent like around 35USD, I need to find cheaper alternatives in the future.
Want to see if I can lock her in as FWB, I feel she's high-maintenance and a bit weird with the exaggerated behavior, play fighting, jerking behaviors, etc. Not sure if she's just acting that way. probably she's just really attracted... we'll see
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