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I've been going to dance floors recently, because I genuinely like to dance.
Generally I have a good time and many girls tell me I have a "great vibe".
A lot of times I will have girls dancing around me seeming to want to grind on me. But I feel a little bit awkward about just rubbing against them. Often I will hesitate, which seems to make them uncomfortable, and then they don't really give another chance.
Is just straight up grinding on them the go-to move though? I do know a lot of guys do that and I see them rejected all the time. But they often will go in without getting the interest that I wait to see. I hate getting rejected on the dance floor so I often won't even take the chance, and wait more for a more obvert sign from a girl. It does happen. Sometimes girls will really dance with me obviously and it's easy to transition.
But that doesn't happen every time – so when I have a good vibe and girls seem to be interested in throwing it back on me, how do I "catch it"?
Generally I have a good time and many girls tell me I have a "great vibe".
A lot of times I will have girls dancing around me seeming to want to grind on me. But I feel a little bit awkward about just rubbing against them. Often I will hesitate, which seems to make them uncomfortable, and then they don't really give another chance.
Is just straight up grinding on them the go-to move though? I do know a lot of guys do that and I see them rejected all the time. But they often will go in without getting the interest that I wait to see. I hate getting rejected on the dance floor so I often won't even take the chance, and wait more for a more obvert sign from a girl. It does happen. Sometimes girls will really dance with me obviously and it's easy to transition.
But that doesn't happen every time – so when I have a good vibe and girls seem to be interested in throwing it back on me, how do I "catch it"?