Love is not about taking. That is the most important lesson I have learnt. Whatever you love, you do everything in your power to give to it or do what it requires. It does not mean you don't know what you want or what you want to take but when it comes to lovemaking, you make mistakes when your attitude is all about taking.
Love is one of the consolations of life. Love is supposed to be fun, exciting, enjoyable, an experience you look back on as a memory that warms you up and makes you happy at night. That is what women are looking for.