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You don't have to be Mr. Smooth with every girl you meet

Go meet her and then figure what kind of game you have to break out

Most chicks are used to meeting lames that your C game could get them if you do know your stuff

minimum conatus maximus eventus

It's easy to get caught up trying to figure how to move things forward especially when you process is challenged
People bitch on lowering your standards

Take it from me tho...

Once you get to be the buyer and have so much choice

You decide whether the interaction is doing it for you or not

Maybe a cute girl is making things harder for you while another more cute one is all over you .

You get to decide whether the just-cute girl is worth the bother
You don't have to be contentious to win at frame control

If you do ,you really aren't winning others over

Instead you are outing them

Your frame can come out on top while still making others feel included.

Aim for that
At the top , you get to test lots of different stuff

While starting out,you tend to ,and should, stick to the rules

Past a certain level,you get a big picture of the game

And it gets easier to break the rules without hurting yourself or messing your process

Thinking of this ,more and more lately

Curious to hear what others think too
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