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Holy shit brothers, busted out 9 approaches in my small daygame city yesterday (NOT London).
Probably missed out on a further 3 due to age approach anxiety. This was not unfounded, however. I stopped one girl, used the Direct compliment and then said "you are over 18, right?" to which she replied "no" and walked off! And she looked uni aged to me.
If I didn't back out of 3 approaches, I could have achieved a theoretical maximum of 12 approaches in a small city with a population of 150k.
Suddenly, the sun god has delivered volume of girls as they always come out when it is sunny!
I am using a direct opener like "hey, you just passed me and you looked GREAT".
I am terrible at improvising unfortunately as I suffer from Asperger's. So any pre canned openers would be appreciated.
The one thing I dislike about daygame is how little time you have to make a judgement a out if the girl is old enough to approach or not. The reason this is important is because this is a number's game and the more you open, the more you close.
So a non daygamer might see you approach in town and think "hey, that girl looked a little young, why did he run over and stop her if he wasn't sure".
But it's not that, once you get into a flow, if you see someone who looks like they have an adult height/build, you've got to go in without hesitating too much otherwise you will never get anything done and potentially waste an opportunity to talk to a pretty 20 year old that you were worried might have been 15 just from a quick glance.
Anyway, I am happy that there was so much volume of girls to approach yesterday, so even with wasting a few approaches, I still achieved good volume.
But I do see threads where guys say stuff like "hey, I did 10 approaches and got 3 phone numbers" which I do find unlikely.
I probably get a phone number once in every 30 approaches, if I had to put a number on it.
Probably missed out on a further 3 due to age approach anxiety. This was not unfounded, however. I stopped one girl, used the Direct compliment and then said "you are over 18, right?" to which she replied "no" and walked off! And she looked uni aged to me.
If I didn't back out of 3 approaches, I could have achieved a theoretical maximum of 12 approaches in a small city with a population of 150k.
Suddenly, the sun god has delivered volume of girls as they always come out when it is sunny!
I am using a direct opener like "hey, you just passed me and you looked GREAT".
I am terrible at improvising unfortunately as I suffer from Asperger's. So any pre canned openers would be appreciated.
The one thing I dislike about daygame is how little time you have to make a judgement a out if the girl is old enough to approach or not. The reason this is important is because this is a number's game and the more you open, the more you close.
So a non daygamer might see you approach in town and think "hey, that girl looked a little young, why did he run over and stop her if he wasn't sure".
But it's not that, once you get into a flow, if you see someone who looks like they have an adult height/build, you've got to go in without hesitating too much otherwise you will never get anything done and potentially waste an opportunity to talk to a pretty 20 year old that you were worried might have been 15 just from a quick glance.
Anyway, I am happy that there was so much volume of girls to approach yesterday, so even with wasting a few approaches, I still achieved good volume.
But I do see threads where guys say stuff like "hey, I did 10 approaches and got 3 phone numbers" which I do find unlikely.
I probably get a phone number once in every 30 approaches, if I had to put a number on it.
