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Been tearing up the streets of Bangkok this past week with @Skippy and @Devilicious. This was the first of two girls I laid from daygame while they were here.
About her: Chinese, 30yo, fair skin, fake boobs, fit physique, wears designer stuff. Entrepreneur who owns a wine tasting business, as well as a hotel and restaurant in China. Has a boyfriend of 10 years who feels “more like a brother”. On holiday in Bangkok for a week. An all-around classy girl - which is not a type I usually seem to attract lol.
The approach
I was feeling on high momentum after a string of strong approaches, having learned how to massively improve my sexual vibe thanks to something Dev taught me (which I will write about in my journal soon).
I spotted her on a busy main road just outside a mall. I wasn’t going to do the approach because there was such a cacophony of noise, but I thought what the hell. She was smoking hot, in a tight fitting blouse revealing cleavage and an insanely short mini skirt. I couldn’t pass it up.
I went in strong, locking eye contact immediately. Asked if she spoke English, then slowly delivered the compliment. She smiled and stopped. I said something like “you have such a great matching outfit and a confident walk. You look like a fashion designer on the way to an important conference”. She laughed.
Asked her name, and then introduced myself with a two-handed hand clasp. Stacked with another assumption, then quickly locked her in before she could answer - “hang on, let’s stand over to this side, it’s so busy here”, and moved her over to the wall, positioning myself facing outward and her facing towards me, then picked up the thread again.
I’m bad at remembering details, so don’t remember exactly what I said. At some point I figured out she was Chinese and only in town for a few more days. I spoke a couple sentences of Chinese to her, which surprised her. She then switched to Chinese, but I responded only on English (having learned my lesson about frame control and language). I mentioned that I’m going to China in a couple of days too.
Closed her on an arousing high note by locking eye contact and lightly but firmly taking her right hand in my right with a one-handed hand clasp (same as the Bachata/Salsa hand clasp), suggesting we grab a drink or coffee sometime before she goes. She smiled and agreed. Grabbed her WeChat.
Texting
(1 hour after approach)
Me: Great to meet you HB
- Atlas
HB: Nice to meet you, Atlas! HB
(Noon the next day)
Me: Good morning!
Me: Just had a gym workout. About to go for lunch
Me: What are you doing today?
HB: Good afternoon. I’m going to have lunch now as well.
HB: The last two days are spent in Bangkok. This afternoon, I will handle some matters.
Me: Oh, I didn’t know you’re leaving so soon
Me: We should definitely meet again before you leave Have a cocktail or a matcha maybe
HB: Sure
Me: Are you free tonight?
HB: Tonight is fine
Me: Great
Me: Is 7pm a good time?
Her: 8pm ok?
Me: Ok
Me: I know a nice bar by ___
(and the rest is logistics)
The date
I didn’t realise about her business stuff until I checked her WeChat, which has photos of her holding wine tastings for fancy wines in high-end Michelin-star restaurants and hotels.
At first, I was thinking I should dress and act like “her type”, which presumably is rich guys who dress nicely and wine and dine her.
Then I thought, wait… fuck that. She’s on holiday in Bangkok. I approached her in a mega sexually-charged way while she was dressed in a mini skirt with tight cleavage. She is NOT expecting me to wine and dine her, she IS expecting me to make her orgasm before she goes back to her stressful life in China.
I picked an unassuming red t-shirt, baggy black jeans and sneakers with black watch, black earring and my jade necklace. I decided to take my motorcycle instead of the metro.
Parked my bike and met her at the bar, 10 minutes late. She was dressed in a short, tight fitting white dress. It was on.
She was sitting at a table with sofa seating on one side and chairs on the other. I came over and sat next to her, rather than opposite. She ordered a Mai Tai (sour cocktail) and I ordered a mock mojito.
I don’t remember well the details of the conversation, but I deep dove her on how she came into that wine-tasting business all on her own. She told me about a series of businesses she did since university. Her parents basically left her to fend for herself, giving all their favour to her older brother (traditional Chinese culture is ruthlessly sexist), so she learned to be independent.
At some point I inquired about how long she’s been single. She said she had a boyfriend, but “here I’m single”. I dropped the topic there.
I was basically playing with arousal spikes, fractionating in and out of intense eye contact, cheeky smiles, physical touch, and seductive voice with emotionally descriptive words.
We came upon the topic of her future dream to study philosophy in France, hence why she is studying French now. I painted a picture of arriving fresh off the plane in a new city you’ve never been before, far away from the boring old world you know, tasting exotic flavours and meeting exciting new people speaking a language you barely understand.
I thought it was kinda lame, but she was entranced. When I finished, she looked away bashfully and said “I think I understood about 60% of what you said”.
After a while, I mentioned I was kinda hungry, and suggested we hop on my motorcycle and go to a place nearby for some food and a smoothie. She said she is afraid of motorcycles since she had a nasty crash on the back of a scooter on her last trip in Thailand. I said “don’t worry, you can trust me, I haven’t had any crashes… yet”. She laughed. I got the bill and away we went.
The second spot was an outdoor food market with an area to sit and various food stalls. It wasn’t nearly as intimate as the other place, so felt kinda like going backwards (it’s generally better to go from the less seductive venue to the more seductive). I sat us at a table closely next to each other.
I ordered us some yoghurt smoothies and fries. She ordered a bowl of seafood noodles, and offered me one too which I accepted.
The conversation slowed a little here. I also didn’t do as much arousal spiking. I felt like I’d already set as strong a sexual frame as I could, and presumably she had the intuition and experience to know what was gonna come next.
We finished our food.
Me: Let’s go somewhere else, have another drink.
Her: No, this is enough.
Me: Well, let’s grab something to drink from 7-11 and head to mine. We can listen to some music and relax. This place is too noisy.
Her: Oh, hm. Do you live far?
Me: Nah, just 10 minutes ride.
Her: Well… Okay.
I switched topics one last time to something mundane - an ASD-preempting reflex of mine - before bouncing.
While walking to my bike, I kept her engaged in conversation with fractionated eye contact and seductive smile, again to preempt a potential the kind of ASD reaction that I got from MANY girls in China at this point in the seduction (when I was in my dumb Elon-inspired “aloofness” game arc).
We got to the 7-11. She said “you can go ahead inside, I’m just going to do something (pointing at phone), I’ll be there in a minute”.
I said “okay” and went inside In my head I was like fuck, well this is it. ASD triggered. She’s gonna make some excuse and get a taxi home now, for sure.
But as I was at the drinks section pretending to look at the drinks and pondering what to do next, she indeed came in. I pointed to a fizzy wine drink which is like $1 per bottle (mixture of cheap wine, sugar and water) and told her this stuff actually tastes pretty good. She seemed intrigued, and I grabbed a couple of bottles.
Chuckled to myself at the irony that I was about to pull a professional wine connoisseur with literally the cheapest “wine” you can buy from 7-11.
We went back to mine. Sipped the wine, she actually kinda liked it. Put on some music and sat on the bed together. I started talking some emotionally descriptive bullshit about music, looking into her eyes deeply and slowing down my words, then went in for the kiss.
No LMR. Great sex. She taught me a position I’d never even tried before. Kinda refreshing to lay an experienced woman who knows what she likes.
She hit me up the next day wanting to meet for a drink, but I was busy (closing the second girl from my daygame streak this week lol). We're still texting, and we might meet each other again in China as she lives in a city not far from where I plan to be.
All around, it was a very satisfying lay that I think mainly happened thanks to a big upgrade to my sexual vibe!
About her: Chinese, 30yo, fair skin, fake boobs, fit physique, wears designer stuff. Entrepreneur who owns a wine tasting business, as well as a hotel and restaurant in China. Has a boyfriend of 10 years who feels “more like a brother”. On holiday in Bangkok for a week. An all-around classy girl - which is not a type I usually seem to attract lol.
The approach
I was feeling on high momentum after a string of strong approaches, having learned how to massively improve my sexual vibe thanks to something Dev taught me (which I will write about in my journal soon).
I spotted her on a busy main road just outside a mall. I wasn’t going to do the approach because there was such a cacophony of noise, but I thought what the hell. She was smoking hot, in a tight fitting blouse revealing cleavage and an insanely short mini skirt. I couldn’t pass it up.
I went in strong, locking eye contact immediately. Asked if she spoke English, then slowly delivered the compliment. She smiled and stopped. I said something like “you have such a great matching outfit and a confident walk. You look like a fashion designer on the way to an important conference”. She laughed.
Asked her name, and then introduced myself with a two-handed hand clasp. Stacked with another assumption, then quickly locked her in before she could answer - “hang on, let’s stand over to this side, it’s so busy here”, and moved her over to the wall, positioning myself facing outward and her facing towards me, then picked up the thread again.
I’m bad at remembering details, so don’t remember exactly what I said. At some point I figured out she was Chinese and only in town for a few more days. I spoke a couple sentences of Chinese to her, which surprised her. She then switched to Chinese, but I responded only on English (having learned my lesson about frame control and language). I mentioned that I’m going to China in a couple of days too.
Closed her on an arousing high note by locking eye contact and lightly but firmly taking her right hand in my right with a one-handed hand clasp (same as the Bachata/Salsa hand clasp), suggesting we grab a drink or coffee sometime before she goes. She smiled and agreed. Grabbed her WeChat.
Texting
(1 hour after approach)
Me: Great to meet you HB
- AtlasHB: Nice to meet you, Atlas! HB
(Noon the next day)
Me: Good morning!
Me: Just had a gym workout. About to go for lunch
Me: What are you doing today?
HB: Good afternoon. I’m going to have lunch now as well.
HB: The last two days are spent in Bangkok. This afternoon, I will handle some matters.
Me: Oh, I didn’t know you’re leaving so soon
Me: We should definitely meet again before you leave
Have a cocktail or a matcha maybeHB: Sure
Me: Are you free tonight?
HB: Tonight is fine
Me: Great
Me: Is 7pm a good time?
Her: 8pm ok?
Me: Ok
Me: I know a nice bar by ___
(and the rest is logistics)
The date
I didn’t realise about her business stuff until I checked her WeChat, which has photos of her holding wine tastings for fancy wines in high-end Michelin-star restaurants and hotels.
At first, I was thinking I should dress and act like “her type”, which presumably is rich guys who dress nicely and wine and dine her.
Then I thought, wait… fuck that. She’s on holiday in Bangkok. I approached her in a mega sexually-charged way while she was dressed in a mini skirt with tight cleavage. She is NOT expecting me to wine and dine her, she IS expecting me to make her orgasm before she goes back to her stressful life in China.
I picked an unassuming red t-shirt, baggy black jeans and sneakers with black watch, black earring and my jade necklace. I decided to take my motorcycle instead of the metro.
Parked my bike and met her at the bar, 10 minutes late. She was dressed in a short, tight fitting white dress. It was on.
She was sitting at a table with sofa seating on one side and chairs on the other. I came over and sat next to her, rather than opposite. She ordered a Mai Tai (sour cocktail) and I ordered a mock mojito.
I don’t remember well the details of the conversation, but I deep dove her on how she came into that wine-tasting business all on her own. She told me about a series of businesses she did since university. Her parents basically left her to fend for herself, giving all their favour to her older brother (traditional Chinese culture is ruthlessly sexist), so she learned to be independent.
At some point I inquired about how long she’s been single. She said she had a boyfriend, but “here I’m single”. I dropped the topic there.
I was basically playing with arousal spikes, fractionating in and out of intense eye contact, cheeky smiles, physical touch, and seductive voice with emotionally descriptive words.
We came upon the topic of her future dream to study philosophy in France, hence why she is studying French now. I painted a picture of arriving fresh off the plane in a new city you’ve never been before, far away from the boring old world you know, tasting exotic flavours and meeting exciting new people speaking a language you barely understand.
I thought it was kinda lame, but she was entranced. When I finished, she looked away bashfully and said “I think I understood about 60% of what you said”.
After a while, I mentioned I was kinda hungry, and suggested we hop on my motorcycle and go to a place nearby for some food and a smoothie. She said she is afraid of motorcycles since she had a nasty crash on the back of a scooter on her last trip in Thailand. I said “don’t worry, you can trust me, I haven’t had any crashes… yet”. She laughed. I got the bill and away we went.
The second spot was an outdoor food market with an area to sit and various food stalls. It wasn’t nearly as intimate as the other place, so felt kinda like going backwards (it’s generally better to go from the less seductive venue to the more seductive). I sat us at a table closely next to each other.
I ordered us some yoghurt smoothies and fries. She ordered a bowl of seafood noodles, and offered me one too which I accepted.
The conversation slowed a little here. I also didn’t do as much arousal spiking. I felt like I’d already set as strong a sexual frame as I could, and presumably she had the intuition and experience to know what was gonna come next.
We finished our food.
Me: Let’s go somewhere else, have another drink.
Her: No, this is enough.
Me: Well, let’s grab something to drink from 7-11 and head to mine. We can listen to some music and relax. This place is too noisy.
Her: Oh, hm. Do you live far?
Me: Nah, just 10 minutes ride.
Her: Well… Okay.
I switched topics one last time to something mundane - an ASD-preempting reflex of mine - before bouncing.
While walking to my bike, I kept her engaged in conversation with fractionated eye contact and seductive smile, again to preempt a potential the kind of ASD reaction that I got from MANY girls in China at this point in the seduction (when I was in my dumb Elon-inspired “aloofness” game arc).
We got to the 7-11. She said “you can go ahead inside, I’m just going to do something (pointing at phone), I’ll be there in a minute”.
I said “okay” and went inside In my head I was like fuck, well this is it. ASD triggered. She’s gonna make some excuse and get a taxi home now, for sure.
But as I was at the drinks section pretending to look at the drinks and pondering what to do next, she indeed came in. I pointed to a fizzy wine drink which is like $1 per bottle (mixture of cheap wine, sugar and water) and told her this stuff actually tastes pretty good. She seemed intrigued, and I grabbed a couple of bottles.
Chuckled to myself at the irony that I was about to pull a professional wine connoisseur with literally the cheapest “wine” you can buy from 7-11.
We went back to mine. Sipped the wine, she actually kinda liked it. Put on some music and sat on the bed together. I started talking some emotionally descriptive bullshit about music, looking into her eyes deeply and slowing down my words, then went in for the kiss.
No LMR. Great sex. She taught me a position I’d never even tried before. Kinda refreshing to lay an experienced woman who knows what she likes.
She hit me up the next day wanting to meet for a drink, but I was busy (closing the second girl from my daygame streak this week lol). We're still texting, and we might meet each other again in China as she lives in a city not far from where I plan to be.
All around, it was a very satisfying lay that I think mainly happened thanks to a big upgrade to my sexual vibe!
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