There are always reasons to quit
You just need to find more reasons to stay
You just need to find more reasons to stay
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What makes you stand out isn't what u do but how long you are willing to do it for
Seduction isn't about being great at a few things but being good enough at everything
Once you get to the top you realize how everything ties in all together
Until then stay the course and believe it will
You gonna make it there
The seducer with the longer time horizon always wins
Go after women who aren't your perfect fit,yes
But have a low tolerance for those that will waste your time
Aim to move things forward at all times
If she wants it ,she'll make it easier for you
If she doesn't,she'll make it even harder
Know when to walk away
Meta-rule:When she's giving you nothing
Farewell 🖐️Have a good day, milady
Does she know what she just missed out on
Shrug it off . Chuckle
What is it to you that other guys are after her ?
Would it matter if you were her First Choice guy?
Yeah didn't think so
Whining about how men have to lead while girls do nothing doesn't get you any chicks
Sucking it up and learning game does
I don't make the rules
It's just male -female dynamics
Man to woman and outright kissing ass
Know the difference and women can't help it ...around you
TL;DR
You don't have to kiss ass to get puss
Her chasing you is of little importance if you don't make a move on her
Ultimately,it's all on you to bring the seduction to it's end
Be busy closing
But savvy at how you go at it
Being casual isn't about being a too cool-for-school dude
Nor is it playing aloof games of who needs who
Being casual is all about doing less than needs to be done to get her
Tricks and tactics will get you far
Principles will get you further
The seducer that grasps principles can lay back ...his skill knows no bounds
The seducer that tries tactics, ignoring principles is sure to have trouble...by and large
This never failed me:
I become what I give my attention to
Always live by that
Most of your progress comes from who you genuinely look up to
Think of them as your measuring sticks
Some people measure distance in inches while the best of us measure in light years
When all is said and done ,the ruler you use dictates how far you go.
Yet with enough ambition and humility you can surpass them.
Something great about sucking it up and paying the dues is that for others to get where you are they'll have to do the same.
Make paying the price your greatest advantage.
It's gonna be hard .
It's gonna suck.
But nothing is that "hard" if you try hard.
Most things are hard for others because they try so little.
Make it easy by becoming hard.
Better yet , start early
Reps in are the greatest separator
Most people just wanna skip from newbie to advanced
But everytime they dress it up or try to cut a corner
They get brutally reminded the work needs doing.
There's just no skipping it
It takes shit and shit loads of work
The work doesn't care .You just have to do it
Just put it in
Take the hits.Stay in the ring ,regardless
Put your neck on the line...
Put yourself out there ...
Life is too short to take seriously
Years from now nothing will count
What will count - did you take enough risks
Lacks more punch I know and clichey at this point but it remains true
You miss 100% of the shots you don't take
"The better you get ,the better you realize you can become
In that way,the more you work ,the more painfully aware of your defencies you become"
Certainly,not for the faint of heart
Hot take:
You shouldn't give advice for things you haven't done
If you feel like you suck...
If you feel unsure it's gonna pay out ...
If you feel everyone's ahead of you ...
If you feel you are way behind than you should be...
There's nothing wrong with you.
Welcome to seduction
Most people imagine progress looks like...
Steady growth with a clear path in sight...
What progress really looks like...
You tried yet another thing that didn't work...
It's not knowing that makes it hard, not the work
We tend to worry more about wasted work
But no work is ever wasted
Those micro-failures will count someday
Macro-successes -
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