Strong is the man that can take in all the bad times
And never play victim
And never play victim
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Good introspection makes for good inner game
Always
What does good mean tho?
Taking the lessons without dwelling on what is not anymore
Most wanna be a pickup Übersmench
Few wanna take the rejections that come with it
It's funny but most great things come with a price
Are you willing to pay it?
For those on the verge of quitting :
There are periods you get girls
There are periods you get experience
Get both
Most importantly...the experience
Girls hardly have lovers do things for them
Lol..most girls once you get good don't want you doing anything for them
They'd rather have the orbiters do it or do it themselves
Hardly you
Question your worth if she has you doing (almost) everything for her
You start out trying to get them
You end up trying to help them get you
I like them chasing but can still leave me alone...you know
If you keep fucking up and making the same mistakes again and again
You are the problem
Not the mistakes
It's not taking the Ls and losing your drive
It's taking them and keeping at it regardless
There's such a thing as giving yourself no out
It's learning to cut things mercilessly with girls who are a waste of your time
The guy who learns to cut the cord out ...taking the L learns a lot more faster than the guy willing to stick around a chick in order to remain in good terms with her hoping that she'll one day "pick" him
Take the Ls
Take more lessons in
You can be a genuine man
While still being an asshole
As much as you have to tune out your asshole self once you get good
You don't have to drop it to win points with girls you've already lost or to curry favor with them
She'll respect you even less
You have to understand that once they're over you it's a lost cause
And that's fine
But don't go putting yourself second for a shot at getting in her pants
You get to a point where girls hardly reject you
You either fall off their radar(s) if things aren't going as fast as you would want or you easily pick up on them being disinterested and seeking out more promising prospects
While leaving the door open if she's to change her mind
Either way you don't care if she'll come back to get you or not
You are meeting new girls
Lower her guard
And see how easily you can work your charm
Girls don't have to be that hard
Fuckups are such great "teachers"
They never leave you untaught
Instead they'll keep repeating themselves all over again ,if you don't learn from them
Let those lessons stick, once they leave
Most girls can be gotten
It doesn't have to be said but I'll put it out there regardless:
You don't have to be a Jester to get them
Honestly ,your efforts-results meter should be against it
The idea that more effort will get her is a classic sunk-cost fallacy
Of course you have to put in effort to get them but are you striking the balance?
Less is always more
Me ,I've never hated being a king
Talk is cheap
Throughout the seduction she learns how to treat you
Not by what you tell her but through your own behavior
Stockdale paradox applies to seduction too
Make use of it
Uncomfortable truth:
A seduction stops at the level of incompetence of the seducer
If freaking out gets you girls when they reject you
You should freak out everytime they do
Lesson in there
As much as society may have programmed it into many
You don't have to pamper chicks to get them -
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